Been dating my gf since late may
In early july, she was at a party without me, grinded with some guy while she was blackout drunk. She told me she did, and apologized over the phone while crying. I forgave her, and things were going perfect until a few weeks ago.
So about 3 weeks ago, my gf started to insult me a little bit over text (such as call me a ***** and tell me to stfu). Since it was over text, didn't really say anything (didn't really know sh1t tests were a thing at that point). On that tuesday, the 6th, I asked her to make plans. Then she responded with this:
Her: Okay let's
Me (an hour later): is everything ok..
her: yeah never better
me: look if theres something wrong, tell me
her: theres nothing wrong, that sounded really sarcastic but it wasnt
me: so then the plans?
her: i was getting to the before you bombarded me with questions
me: getting to that? lol i responded an hour after
her: yeah well
me: aight let me know when you get to it then
Then on thursday she texted me this:
Her: Sorry you're gonna have to wait a little by on hanging out until i get my life together
Her (30 min later): Yesterday I slept from 2 in the afternoon till 8 and haven't slept since
Me: do whatever you have to do
On Sunday she texted me again, and we made plans for a week later, on the 18th. We had a text conversation going until tuesday morning, when I texted her and she never replied back. (When we text, whoever falls asleep first usually texts back in the morning).
That Sunday came and we hung out. She gave me some **** tests where she'd insult me, and I responded to them well. Sometimes she'd get a little annoyed with me after them, but she'd always end up going back to being happy and flirty. I acted more alpha than usual, by making quicker decisions and making sure I was always leading when we were walking. She ended up blowing me at the end of the night (mine and her first). The bj toke a little more than 20 min, and I had to tell her to "watch the teeth" a couple times during it. I also had to tell her to keep going, as she stopped just when I was about to finish. So it didn't go great, and she might have been worried about having done a bad job or something. After the bj was done, I offered to return the favor, and she said she was good. We walked back to her place, and talked/flirted for about 30 min before my ride picked me up and I left.
I texted her on tuesday afternoon (the 20th), asking if she was going to come to my house or if i should go to her house again, and she never responded. Not sure if she's mad at me or if it was from her pmsing. (she's supposed to have her period today. we havent talked about it but Ive been paying attention because she always gets really bad pms and gets really b!tchy before her period). How should I play this out? I havent made any moves to contact her since I sent that text. What should I do if/when she responds? Thanks
In early july, she was at a party without me, grinded with some guy while she was blackout drunk. She told me she did, and apologized over the phone while crying. I forgave her, and things were going perfect until a few weeks ago.
So about 3 weeks ago, my gf started to insult me a little bit over text (such as call me a ***** and tell me to stfu). Since it was over text, didn't really say anything (didn't really know sh1t tests were a thing at that point). On that tuesday, the 6th, I asked her to make plans. Then she responded with this:
Her: Okay let's
Me (an hour later): is everything ok..
her: yeah never better
me: look if theres something wrong, tell me
her: theres nothing wrong, that sounded really sarcastic but it wasnt
me: so then the plans?
her: i was getting to the before you bombarded me with questions
me: getting to that? lol i responded an hour after
her: yeah well
me: aight let me know when you get to it then
Then on thursday she texted me this:
Her: Sorry you're gonna have to wait a little by on hanging out until i get my life together
Her (30 min later): Yesterday I slept from 2 in the afternoon till 8 and haven't slept since
Me: do whatever you have to do
On Sunday she texted me again, and we made plans for a week later, on the 18th. We had a text conversation going until tuesday morning, when I texted her and she never replied back. (When we text, whoever falls asleep first usually texts back in the morning).
That Sunday came and we hung out. She gave me some **** tests where she'd insult me, and I responded to them well. Sometimes she'd get a little annoyed with me after them, but she'd always end up going back to being happy and flirty. I acted more alpha than usual, by making quicker decisions and making sure I was always leading when we were walking. She ended up blowing me at the end of the night (mine and her first). The bj toke a little more than 20 min, and I had to tell her to "watch the teeth" a couple times during it. I also had to tell her to keep going, as she stopped just when I was about to finish. So it didn't go great, and she might have been worried about having done a bad job or something. After the bj was done, I offered to return the favor, and she said she was good. We walked back to her place, and talked/flirted for about 30 min before my ride picked me up and I left.
I texted her on tuesday afternoon (the 20th), asking if she was going to come to my house or if i should go to her house again, and she never responded. Not sure if she's mad at me or if it was from her pmsing. (she's supposed to have her period today. we havent talked about it but Ive been paying attention because she always gets really bad pms and gets really b!tchy before her period). How should I play this out? I havent made any moves to contact her since I sent that text. What should I do if/when she responds? Thanks
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