How rare is large age gap dating?

[oliver109]

The social element can be tricky sure. Are most people in relationships meeting from their social circle though? People are becoming less and less social nowadays.

Are young people becoming less social? you will see lots of groups of friends in uni campuses, holiday resorts etc so i don't think the bulk of people are becoming anti social?

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

Are young people becoming less social? you will see lots of groups of friends in uni campuses, holiday resorts etc so i don't think the bulk of people are becoming anti social?

Colleges are different, but from what I hear from sociologists and whatnot, social media is turning people into social retards, especially people who grew up on them.

 

[SW15]

The biggest reason it's not more common is because in the past few decades, women have created such a powerful social convention labelling it as "creepy" etc that most simps are buying into it and parroting back what they say. Talk to any man 30+ and he'll probably try to insist that the best dating partners are their own age...

Most men 30+ don't have what it takes to have a substantially younger girlfriend. By default, these men have to date women near the own age if they want to get their penises wet.

Most men in their 30s/40s are vagina beggars who settle for whatever mediocre woman close to their own age they can get.

Colleges are different, but from what I hear from sociologists and whatnot, social media is turning people into social retards, especially people who grew up on them.

There's a lot of truth here,

 

[Stanley]

Colleges are different, but from what I hear from sociologists and whatnot, social media is turning people into social retards, especially people who grew up on them.

Yep, younger generations are becoming less and less socially calibrated. Across all age groups we saw a stark increase of anxiety and depression related disorders during the pandemic. People are still coming out of that. I noticed about 8 months ago shortly after my state removed the mask mandate that people in general were more or less 'frozen' in conversation. Young women especially, the internet solipsism was probably at its peak during quarantine.

I also think location is important as well. Americans at large seem to be less and less social.

 

[Snag87]

Its about all three. Most young girls care about how you look and how fun you are. After their early 20s most start look for other things in men. Knowing LMS and understanding game will help. If you're 30, in good shape, above average, have money and are fun you can date girls in their 20's no prob, some can even pull younger.

If you're 30 and have your act together of course you can pull girls in their 20s. Would any 27 year old woman reject a 30 year old guy on the basis of age? Now, if you're talking early 20s, yes, it's an issue.

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

According to sosuave, every 40–50-year-old is dating an 18 year old lol.

To date hot girls in their prime when you are older than 25 or say 30 is tough and most men will never achieve it. You have to be in the right location (big cities ideally), have your $hit together financially, look good, have game, and a lifestyle that caters to what she is into. With the knowledge granted on here, men who make good use of it could do it. However, it is easier said than done.

Most men will just cry about hypergamy and how unfair society is, feel entitled to a virgin wife, and then rot away as they obsess over politics.

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

Most men 30+ don't have what it takes to have a substantially younger girlfriend. By default, these men have to date women near the own age if they want to get their penises wet.

My point is that this issue runs deeper than that. Simps (especially married simps) actually insist that it's abnormal for any man over 30 to even be attracted to an 18-20 year old, let alone to want to date them. Point is, even the men who have the capability of dating younger women might avoid doing so simply due to the social stigma that older women have created (that simps now parrot) so they don't have to compete with younger for high SMV men (the bulk of which being men 30-45).

 

[SW15]

Simps (especially married simps) actually insist that it's abnormal for any man over 30 to even be attracted to an 18-20 year old, let alone to want to date them.

Simps are pathetic. I am 39 and I would be interested in dating someone 18-24. I am very much physically attracted to women in this age group.

It would be difficult for me to attract an 18-24 year old. I'm not 6'0"+ with big muscles. While I have a decent salary, it's not enough of a salary to attract women 15-20 years younger. I am able to date younger (up to 5 years younger) but beyond that, it becomes challenging.

Point is, even the men who have the capability of doing so likely become convinced younger women aren't even an option due to the social stigma women have artificially created so they can maintain their value post-wall.

If a man who is capable of dating substantially younger does do so, then he is a fool.

The wall is softer than we think.

The Wall Is Softer Than We Think

There's still plenty of demand for a childless 30 something woman. Even childless 40 something women do better than we'd imagine they would do.

 

[Plinco]

I am 39 and I would be interested in dating someone 18-24. I am very much physically attracted to women in this age group.

It would be difficult for me to attract an 18-24 year old. I'm not 6'0"+ with big muscles. While I have a decent salary, it's not enough of a salary to attract women 15-20 years younger. I am able to date younger (up to 5 years younger) but beyond that, it becomes challenging.

What led you to that belief?

 

[SW15]

What led you to that belief?

I've not gotten a great response from the 18-24 age set in my 30s.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

At 20 EVERYONE is your best friend

At 30 if you've learnt anything in life you can easily see people for what they really are and 8/10 it ain't pretty

Omg this is so relatable!

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

I'll give a personal example. Back in 2019 I dated an 18 yo and a 19 yo when I was 35. I felt young and did not have a problem keeping up with them. A few years later, at 38, I'm in a lot worse shape than I was when I was 35. I feel more than a decade older, and right now, I don't think I could keep up with what I did.

What was your job & lifestyle during this? Energy levels can easily be manipulated by your exercise and diet alone.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

To date hot girls in their prime when you are older than 25 or say 30 is tough and most men will never achieve it. You have to be in the right location (big cities ideally), have your $hit together financially, look good, have game, and a lifestyle that caters to what she is into. With the knowledge granted on here, men who make good use of it could do it. However, it is easier said than done.

Most men will just cry about hypergamy and how unfair society is, feel entitled to a virgin wife, and then rot away as they obsess over politics.

Yeah the key is hot & quality girls lol. I think any bum with enough change to scrounge up a date at Applebees can pull some naive low class NEET out of HS lol. If you want to date some hot college girl or instagram young girl, you are going to have to have some status, looks, or money to pull that off.

 

[Plinco]

I've not gotten a great response from the 18-24 age set in my 30s.

Do you think it's possible for you to get a good response? Specifically, if good looking young women wanted your attention and validation.

 

[Plinco]

What was your job & lifestyle during this? Energy levels can easily be manipulated by your exercise and diet alone.

2019 me:

I made 72K for the year
I weighed 170 pounds, benched ~205 max, probably ~15% body fat
I could pass for 28-ish while being 35 (no grey hair, no wrinkles, etc)
I had a lot of energy, was mostly happy. I did not like some of the people that I was working with, but it was manageable.
I played volleyball every Monday with a lot of people in their 20's. We had a big group.
I also set up events for the university that I graduated from, met some young women there.

And I can go on about the details. My social, financial, family, physical, etc. were all in great shape.



2020 me:

I made $19,492 for the year. That's the worst year I've had since living as an adult. I did not take any unemployment compensation because I felt that getting paid for not working was beneath my dignity.

Stopped going to the gym
Married a woman that I should not have married and began regretting that decision immediately.
Had to take care of said wife because she didn't have a job, nor had a vehicle. I had to support her 100% Didn't even like her that much.
Had a few other financial things come up, such as having to replace a refrigerator, car, etc.
Lost my health insurance, then due to all of the stress, had a panic attack. I thought I was having a heart attack and went to the hospital. That cost me some money.
The friends and acquaintances that I had all disappeared.
My grandmother began losing her memory and had serious health problems.
My sister and brother in law got into a car accident. My brother in law lost function in the lower half of his body, and my sister has serious back problems (luckily my nephew was fine).

By the end of 2020, I was in the worst shape of my life in many ways.



Right now:

It's looking like I made around 60K for 2022
My health, in different aspects is coming back.

Now I have grey hairs and wrinkles, that last three years have been tough, but I'm getting things back together. I look forward to getting my energy back and going on dates with young women again. That's one of my goals for the year.

 

[soulforge]

Guys it's not all that it's cracked upto be.

I'm 48 and dating a 24 year old hot Russian chick.. great sex etc, and obviously quite an ego boost having a girl that age, but it's a headache too.

These girls got a fukin ton of options and they know it, and will test the Chvt out of you haha.

I doubt this type of relationship can last, with such an age gap, but hey just enjoy it while you can. None of them are really meant to last.

Luckily I look maximum 36-37-38 in my looks, so can pull this off.

My fitness level is exceptional and can smash like a machine. Good dik definitely helps, most girls at age 22-23-24 have not really experienced good dik, as they tend to date nerds and boys there own age.

 

[shwami_salami]

The more Looks, money, status you have the less age is a factor. Girls typically date guys a few years older then them, as for sex/casual it doesn't matter. 18 year old's are attracted to me, will I date them? Probably not. Will I 'plate' them? Probably yes. The older the two are the less age matters.

Usually, young girls secretly want someone much older but they care about their “status” in a feminized society which frowns upon age gaps. Even genz high school girls now think college guys are too old for them. This is not natural to think but rather societal conditioning telling these girls that. Why? Older wmn want to be in power and have the silver foxes to themselves. They don't like competing with younger hotter women so they tell them age gaps are gross. I admit, this is one way where the younger guys like me have the advantage..why? Because, even tho those 16-18 yr old girls want to get fvcked by a silver fox, they go for the same age bo
ys to appear “normal” in society. Or max, couple yrs older than them. Esp if they still live at home with mummy and daddy.

 

[Glassguy]

I'm 45 and in a relationship with a 28 year old. She's very attractive, fun, great overall chemistry and she is 100% submissive to my needs.

Start to the best overall relationship I've ever had at this point.

So yeah its possible. Then again, I can't remember the last time I went out with a chick within 10 yrs of my age. I ALWAYS date women 10+ years younger than me.

Youd be surprised how many 26-30 year olds are tired of dealing with men who act like kids. If you can be fun, outgoing and charismatic while also maintaining a direct and strong frame with them, it's easy pickings.

 

[shwami_salami]

I'm 45 and in a relationship with a 28 year old. She's very attractive, fun, great overall chemistry and she is 100% submissive to my needs.

Start to the best overall relationship I've ever had at this point.

So yeah its possible. Then again, I can't remember the last time I went out with a chick within 10 yrs of my age. I ALWAYS date women 10+ years younger than me.

Youd be surprised how many 26-30 year olds are tired of dealing with men who act like kids. If you can be fun, outgoing and charismatic while also maintaining a direct and strong frame with them, it's easy pickings.

Taht's awesome but 28 is a bit old bro. Rollo said anything over 22 is past her prime. Society is now evolving backwards. Even a couple hundreds yrs back we had girls as early as 14 get married and start popping out kids back then.
Now society shames you for ogling a girl at her EVOLUTIONARY PEAK....against the natural way of things.

I have my own personal rule that i'll never take a girl srsly if she is close to my ag
e. i remember cold approaching a 13 yr old a couple years ago...she looked full figured and at least 19...dam shame

 

[Stanley]

? Because, even tho those 16-18 yr old girls want to get fvcked by a silver fox, they go for the same age boys to appear “normal” in society. Or max, couple yrs older than them. Esp if they still live at home with mummy and daddy.

Taht's awesome but 28 is a bit old bro. Rollo said anything over 22 is past her prime. Society is now evolving backwards. Even a couple hundreds yrs back we had girls as early as 14 get married and start popping out kids back then.
Now society shames you for ogling a girl at her EVOLUTIONARY PEAK....against the natural way of things.

Dunning Kruger effect is real...

Look man, we get it you've got into some red pill material, but vaguely referencing Rollo to rationalize your points are just odd and bringing down other members is lame. You are taking everything to the extreme and far too literally. It is self evident in all the posts you've made and threads you've revived. Things are not as black and white as you keep portraying them. 28 is not old in the slightest, especially not for a man in his 40's.