How often do you guys cold approach?

Eternal_water

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For those of you who aren't in LTR's, on average how often do you cold approach girls though out the week/month?

And where do you do most of them, bars/clubs or elsewhere?

Also how old were you when you first began to cold approach properly and generally how succesful are you at it?
 

JoeMarron

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Hah..Ive never approached in my life. All of my success fell in my lap
 

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cold approaching is VERY difficult unless you are terribly witty. And you have better luck cold approaching in a library than in a place like a bar (where women have their battle gear ready).
 

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I went cold-approach crazy (thank you Real Social Dynamics) when I was 24 to 26.

Got some lays, relationships from it. Don't do it anymore. Loved daygame, only did daygame really.

Its a cool experiment and it can get you sexually involved with women. About 1 in 20 will want things to go forward, consistently. You can learn to listen to the signals that let you know when you've hit this one-in-twenty girl. Then you can date and have sex with her.

Don't regret it. Fantastic learning experience. It taught me what relationships are, and what it means to be in one, and now that is more interesting to me than lays. But it was a great steppingstone.
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

n00bPimp

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Im in an Ltr and i still cold approach. I do it in bars fridays and saturdays and i do day approaches on sundays. It has been my ritual for the past year and a half. My sucess varies. I can get a date a week. Sometimes one a month. But i consistently have fun doing it.
 

VladPatton

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Me, never. It's not for me.
 

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At least one approach per day, even with a busy lifestyle it's possible to achieve that. Helps develop confidence and social skills quickly.
 
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