How Often Are You Approached/Stared At/Receive IOI's?

[jacktheripper]

I get IOIs but only from ugly girls. And some ugly girls do approach via sliding in dms.

 

[sph21]

In my country, it's still mandated to wear masks whenever we go outside. It's okay to take our masks off when eating/ drinking indoor. So, it's hard to spot any IOI's.

I remember one day in 2021 I took my buddy to a nice indoor ice cream shop in another city. In it, most employees are girls, attractive girls. He said, "some are starring at you". I replied, "Oh, I thought they were starring at the door". He was 40 and I was 38 at that time.

Lately, an old woman messaged me asking me to choose between two girls. Both of them are beautiful and we've been friends for years. After a small talk, I asked her, "Do you think this girl has feelings for me until now?" She replied with, "Yes, I can see it in her eyes. I can tell by the way she looks at you."

Women don't stop giving IOI's, even in pandemic times like now. I was just too lazy/ ignorant to spot them.

 

[thelambofdeth]

I think we wont agree on this topic and thats perfectly fine. But fro my POV, I have friends from all ethnicities; white, Asian Hispanic, Arab ,black, east European. Let me tell you, the most ruthless player was a 5 foot Asian leprechaun sized guy, but his demeanor was just...through the roof.


Also wanna point out, that I moved to a small area where there are mostly white people . Ever since I moved here I had several women telling me I am their first (and sometimes only ) black guy. Yup, she likes blonde surf dudes and ends up with a bald black guy. And never forget, its also just real life porn for women. They are fluid when it comes to these things, why on earth she wouldn't try a black guy for once??

Women don't know what the f they want, its up to you to provide her with an possible new, great ,nice experience.

I know another Caribbean guy ,in his 60,s(!!) Who is banging 20 y.o 8 ,s and 9,s. His secret? He is extremely friendly towards everyone and everything. Doesnt limit himself in no way shape or form. Sky's the limit bro, but you do you ofcourse..

Pretty much all of this sounds like pure cap, but good for you, mate. If this isn't all fabricated, (any 60-year-old banging HB8s and 9s is well off or famous, period) you're clearly omitting out a lot of what those guys and you have in terms of alternative compensation to do well just to prove a point, but must be nice, I guess....Women are "fluid" sure, but they're also shallow af these days due to SM and OLD. Any woman who's even moderately attractive has been gassed up sooo much by so many beta orbiters and simps, in many cases, they expect and accept nothing less than their absolute strict preference, or some Chad that P&D them. It which case it takes more than just a "demeanor to succeed.

 

[espanish]

the only time that i can recall is this one time I was on the bus, I must have been 18 or 19. this girl was sitting across from me and she started asking me questions and she was like "wow you are so smart" she was eye ****cking me so much. years later i realized she was trying to flirt with me.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Pretty much all of this sounds like pure cap, but good for you, mate. If this isn't all fabricated, (any 60-year-old banging HB8s and 9s is well off or famous, period) you're clearly omitting out a lot of what those guys and you have in terms of alternative compensation to do well just to prove a point, but must be nice, I guess....Women are "fluid" sure, but they're also shallow af these days due to SM and OLD. Any woman who's even moderately attractive has been gassed up sooo much by so many beta orbiters and simps, in many cases, they expect and accept nothing less than their absolute strict preference, or some Chad that P&D them. It which case it takes more than just a "demeanor to succeed.

There are some guys who do thrive mosly on "game", it's not a majority that's for sure, but if you have a trendy image it helps. That "Carribean" thing is hot to some women and he's likely thriving off it, they also think he has swag.

Most men in his position would need a huge status and or displays of opulence to draw them.

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

Getting approached is uncommon for me but it does happen once in a blue moon in or around bars.

In regards to IOIs, its a tough one because 95% of the time I'm not even paying attention to other women so I don't even know. And when I actively look for IOIs I don't get them because it puts me in the "seeking approval" vibe instead of the aloof and abundant vibe that attracts them.

I'd say I get them often at the gym, sometimes overtly other times more subtle, but also will randomly get them in the street or interacting with an employee behind a counter. They definitely do seem to be more common within the past year or so.

 

[Gamisch]

Pretty much all of this sounds like pure cap, but good for you, mate. If this isn't all fabricated, (any 60-year-old banging HB8s and 9s is well off or famous, period) you're clearly omitting out a lot of what those guys and you have in terms of alternative compensation to do well just to prove a point, but must be nice, I guess....Women are "fluid" sure, but they're also shallow af these days due to SM and OLD. Any woman who's even moderately attractive has been gassed up sooo much by so many beta orbiters and simps, in many cases, they expect and accept nothing less than their absolute strict preference, or some Chad that P&D them. It which case it takes more than just a "demeanor to succeed.

He has arms the sizes of a soccerplayer legs= fitness

He has loads of experience with sloots = game.

Steady job and some money saved = **** together. Hell , he even has a picknick basket in his car on standby, clean boxers , deck of cards..and yeah always smiling and a positive demeanor.

Get outta your shell, there's much more to this world then you know. What you believe defines what you get bro...

And yes, sometimes you gotta adjust to get what you want bro. Why would any men try to refute that?? Skinny guys gotta get bigger, fat guys gotta lose weight ,poor guys gotta make money ect. Sthen there's the mental side, you say you dress fine , now start dressing your mind with new positive self encouragement. That's perfectly possible on this forum, use your time and energy for that instead of arguing with other men about what you think is not real...you refuse to adjust ,indeed, nothing will chance.

Got some friends with your mentality, and I did just what I am gonna do with you right now; respect the fact they will always struggle with women, because they dont wanna put in any work to make things better. Lik they gave up on women being mid 30, real sad. Too bad I gotta feel petty to talk about my adventures with them, flip side is I refuse to go out with these guys anymore as they are just a burden. You do you bro God bless you.

 

[thelambofdeth]

There are some guys who do thrive mosly on "game", it's not a majority that's for sure, but if you have a trendy image it helps. That "Carribean" thing is hot to some women and he's likely thriving off it, they also think he has swag.

Most men in his position would need a huge status and or displays of opulence to draw them.

Sure you can get "exotic" points if you're different and charming, charismatic, cool, and pretty fit...maybe until like your 40s. Not in your 60s, and certainly not with 20-year-olds 8s and 9s unless they're prostitutes or you're just loaded... that's either an over-exaggeration or cap.

 

[Kotaix]

I don't get approached. But I do catch women every now and then looking at me, which is always fun. It's not often, but it does happen.

 

[devilkingx2]

The only time I've ever been approached by a girl who wasn't ugly, was while I was on vacation in Greece by a slightly chubby but still pretty girl.

In terms of IOIs I can catch a girls eye on the subway or on the street sometimes. It's not every day I go out but it's not that uncommon when I'm paying attention. When I remember to smile and say hi they reciprocate at least 50% of the time.

Usually I compliment attractive female customers on their hair or outfits when I see them at work, and what often happens is that afterwards I just look at them and they will stare back and smile.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Sure you can get "exotic" points if you're different and charming, charismatic, cool, and pretty fit...maybe until like your 40s. Not in your 60s, and certainly with 20-year-olds 8s and 9s unless they're prostitutes or you're just loaded... that's either an over-exaggeration or cap.

Your 99.9% true.

 

[devilkingx2]

the only time that i can recall is this one time I was on the bus, I must have been 18 or 19. this girl was sitting across from me and she started asking me questions and she was like "wow you are so smart" she was eye ****cking me so much. years later i realized she was trying to flirt with me.

Thinking back to high school, theres at least like 5 girls I could've gotten with that I didn't realize until years later.

A girl who asked me out as a joke/dare from her friends (she seemed surprised when I said "sure" so maybe the reason that she got that dare is because she liked me?)

A girl who suddenly decided to ask me to help her study for SATs (I was pretty smart but nowhere near the best grades)

Another girl who was friends with the girl I was dating blatantly flirted with me (grabbing my hand to hold it while we were walking) and **** talked her friend/my girl. But I thought it was an obvious trap to attempt to make a girl's friend my side piece. In the end my girl wasn't loyal so there was no reason for me to be either.

 

[Bigpapa]

I mean...you don't know if those "normal" guys have a ton of money or have high status or social clout.

Women have no idea about how rich you are when you meet them , and neither when you sleep with them

doctors are a perfect example of rich guys that do not get laid

if you work all day , you have no energy left to meet women unless they just jump on you

 

[thelambofdeth]

Women have no idea about how rich you are when you meet them , and neither when you sleep with them

doctors are a perfect example of rich guys that do not get laid

if you work all day , you have no energy left to meet women unless they just jump on you

Of course they do. Your car, living space, attire, etc usually give some kind of indication of income.

And sure, doctors work a lot, but they also get a great deal of off time. Not to mention all the networking, functions and events they're apart of. Just from the status alone, if a doctor isn't getting laid, he's legit not trying.

 

[Bigpapa]

Of course they do. Your car, living space, attire, etc usually give some kind of indication of income.

And sure, doctors work a lot, but they also get a great deal of off time. Not to mention all the networking, functions and events they're apart of. Just from the status alone, if a doctor isn't getting laid, he's legit not trying.

very likely you are just projecting what you are missing or think that you are missing

 

[zekko]

While I will get some women to make strong eye contact and smile, I often feel invisible to women. When I feel invisible, it is when I don't get any IOIs for a bit.

Sometimes when I'm out I get eye contact and smiles. Other times I go out and no one seems to notice that I'm there. There doesn't seem to be any predictable pattern to it. I can feel great and confident and get nothing. I can go out feeling down and girls are smiling at me. No rhyme or reason.

Sometimes I will catch eyes with a girl, and then she has a look of disappointment on her face. That's the worst lol.

 

[BadWatermelon]

Of course they do. Your car, living space, attire, etc usually give some kind of indication of income.

Not necessarily. A lot of wealthy people don't like to display their wealth.

 

[Gamisch]

Sure you can get "exotic" points if you're different and charming, charismatic, cool, and pretty fit...maybe until like your 40s. Not in your 60s, and certainly not with 20-year-olds 8s and 9s unless they're prostitutes or you're just loaded... that's either an over-exaggeration or cap.

As long as there those who remembers what was, there will be those who can not accept what can be.

A man like this knows that most men are actually scared of a beautiful woman. Sometimes the pretty girl is tired of being treated like a princess and she wa ts to be treated like a *****...and a **** is a ****, 40 y.o or 60 y.o . But hey if you dont believe me that's fine...

Just Google "good looking 60 y.o man. You'll see this Chinese guy 80 y.o model...

Let's encourage one another...

 

[thelambofdeth]

very likely you are just projecting what you are missing or think that you are missing

...um no. I already know what I'm missing and it's totally divorced to the point I made, which was an objective one.

 

[thelambofdeth]

As long as there those who remembers what was, there will be those who can not accept what can be.

A man like this knows that most men are actually scared of a beautiful woman. Sometimes the pretty girl is tired of being treated like a princess and she wa ts to be treated like a *****...and a **** is a ****, 40 y.o or 60 y.o . But hey if you dont believe me that's fine...

Just Google "good looking 60 y.o man. You'll see this Chinese guy 80 y.o model...

Let's encourage one another...

If a girl wants to get pumped and dumped and she's even remotely attractive, she'll have a breath of options. And she's going to choose the 25 year old chad or the good-looking bad boy douche...not some random 60 year old. Encouragement and flat out being unrealistic and delusional are two different things, and not being realistic just sets up people who dont know any better to be gravely disappointed.