how manyh women date guys with money?

[pyros]

I was wondering...because I know a few of these girls that "only" (they may have dated a guy with regular income but its not their preference) date guys who are wealthy, you know, guys who buy them stuff, take them to fancy restaurants everyday, let them driver their BMW, take them on nice vacations...etc.

I was just seing one of these couple on my fb right now. They seem "happy", but I dont know if I would be comfortable dating a girl that likes money and fancy stuff that much because then...why is she with me? just because of my money? in this case it would be sad, but if you have a lot of money it comes natural to pay for stuff for her, right?

It's a bit confusing. I guess you should find a girl that likes "you" and also finds nice the fact that you have money. However, if you date a girl that likes "your money" mainly, then it is a bad choice because she fakes she likes you when she actually just likes what you provide for her...but I think there are a lot of couples that work this way...

Thougths?

 

[DaddyLongShanks]

How about how many men date women with money?

 

[DaddyLongShanks]

None

Some body does. I know some broke guys always have gf's with good jobs. These gf's fall for a trap in wanting to "save" these guys and thinking they can make them better.

They don't work and they sponge off of people because it's what they want to do.

We need to be wiser and spend more time talking to women who can do something for us greater than open her legs up. Someone actually with some pretty deep pockets and other stuff going on too.

 

[RangerMIke]

It's not really the money that women are attracted to it is what having money represents. Historically a man with money has this because he has social value and status this is what women find attractive. The world is filled with examples of women cheating on their rich men with the cabana boy. She might stay with a rich man because material possessions are important to her but if she doesn't love him she will be miserable and make his life miserable as well.

 

[DaddyLongShanks]

It's not really the money that women are attracted to it is what having money represents. Historically a man with money has this because he has social value and status this is what women find attractive. The world is filled with examples of women cheating on their rich men with the cabana boy. She might stay with a rich man because material possessions are important to her but if she doesn't love him she will be miserable and make his life miserable as well.

We had a guy on one of my marriage and infidelity websites, he made $300k a year. Was an awesome speaker. 6'2" 210 of model build. A extremely handsome face, dresser, suave character tooo. Women wanted him.

But his wife was a super attractive lizard, and she got off on being cold to him, showing him he isn't all that. Some times they can even be attracted to you heavily but it devolved into a power struggle, where their power is gained from not giving in to you...

So rich doesn't mean some fat schlub with a small c0ck and fat body. He can be a full blooded alpha head to toe.

 

[Suspens]

In fact, most chicks (25-50 yold) date guys for money. It doesn't matter if the guy spends money on them or not, just having him as an option is enough for them.


I know a girl who is 40 and still unmarried. She is one of the sexiest and most beautiful creatures alive, she sadistically turns down badboys, hot bodybuilder athletes, model-level teenagers and only goes out with rich 50+ guys who have nothing to offer beside their wealth. That's just one example though.

 

[bigneil]

We had a guy on one of my marriage and infidelity websites, he made $300k a year. 6'2" 210.

That amounts to $3598.13 per week take home pay (source).

I take home $3740 a week, and I'm 6'5" 220. And I have no wife spending all my money. But women actually laugh at the little amount I make, especially when they see I live in an apartment. That's how deranged TV has made them. Unless you have maids, butlers and Ferrari's, they will say you earn chump change, and they will dumpster dive with bus boys. Never get married.

PS - If she gets half, he is giving her $1800 per week, and she probably takes more than that. He could pay for 4 hookers per week for the amount she takes. Never get married.

 

[DaddyLongShanks]

That amounts to $3598.13 per week take home pay (source).

I take home $3740 a week. Women actually laugh at that little amount. That's how deranged TV has made them.

Do you care what they think?

 

[bigneil]

Of course, at some level. My last girl tore my heart out and stomped on it and laughed. It would be nice to be treated with respect proportional to how rare I am, but welfare and Feminism have made it so they think they don't need a man. And TV has made it so they think Brad Pitt is around every corner. Even he's getting divorced now. What man truly gets respect from women these days? What kind of income and lifestyle and physique does it take? Ask Paul McCartney.

 

[DaddyLongShanks]

Of course, at some level. My last girl tore my heart out and stomped on it and laughed. It would be nice to be treated with respect proportional to how rare I am, but welfare and Feminism have made it so they think they don't need a man. What man truly gets respect from women these days? What kind of income and lifestyle does it take? Ask Paul McCartney.

But your specialty is strippers. They have a certain game they run and one of them is overvaluing themselves and devaluing the male. Of course you can have a stripper as a real gf, but she will probably cheat and there will probably be more drama and toxic $hit than other relations.

I think you need to find a class of women who need men like you and appreciate men like you. It might be women with money of their own, who just don't have enough male candidates to date, and they don't want to date poor, broke or average pockets.

The h0es that look at your situation should realize you have most of your money cause it's not spent on an expensive pad and things.

I also think you should buy yourself a nice home and at least one nice vehicle while you are making all this money. Not wishing you bad luck, but a lot of times it doesn't last as long as we like. I'm in a similar place, also being devalued, but I changed my attitude in that I WILL LEAVE. And she knows. Helped the attitude.

 

[Mike32ct]

I knew a girl that was a secretary making like $28k per year. She dumped her $300k per year boyfriend for some millionaire. She needed someone more ambitious like her lol.

 

[DaddyLongShanks]

I knew a girl that was a secretary making like $28k per year. She dumped her $300k per year boyfriend for some millionaire. She needed someone more ambitious like her lol.

Well you know $300k guys are a dime a dozen

 

[Maximummax]

this thread reminds me of the movie
the wolf of wall street

when women date you because you have money, they will leave you when you don't have money or they will leave for a guy with more money

the love they are showing on you is "FAKE"

 

[raider87]

You don't need to be rich at all. Just need a job and some savings. If you don't have a job, lie. Character and looks/style are more important.

 

[DiegoSantori]

A friend of mine has inherited heaps of money. And I really mean HEAPS, okay? He got a mansion, car, etc.

But that's not the point here. He's got a real problem. Women only want his money. He tells me all the time that women think he's dumb. He's 26.

10/10 women knowing his financial opportunities (because they are in the same social circle) act like they're interested in HIM although they just want his DINERO.

They're manipulating him or, let's say, they try to. To give you an example: "Awww, look at that beautiful dress. Can you buy me this??? Or when he's at the restaurant, they always want HIM to pay.

Due to his status, he's very popular with the ladies at the company he's working for. The signoras want to climb up the corporate ladder and they want him to help them. I mean, they don't ask him point blank but they do it in a subtle way. (Exaggerated kindness, etc.)

 

[zekko]

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[zekko]

It's not really the money that women are attracted to it is what having money represents. Historically a man with money has this because he has social value and status this is what women find attractive.

Yeah, certainly some women are gold diggers. I've always thought they were fairly easy to spot, though.

Thing is, many of the attributes that women find attractive are attributes that help you make money. Many men that are passionate and have a drive to succeed will attract women and also make money. Compare this to some dude who's satisfied living in his parents' basement playing video games.

SoSuave advises you to improve yourself - improve your health, fitness, social circle, career, hobbies, everything. Become a renaissance man. The ironic thing is once you do this, and women become attracted to you, then the guys here will tell you they only want you for your money, lol. Oh well, back to square one.

 

[bigneil]

Zekko is right. A lot of broke guys insist that if a man has money the women must only want him for his money. This is self service. As if they'll be equally rewarded with extra women because they have no money. As if having a girl care about your looks somehow intrinsically means more than your having the ability to provide for a family. In private circles women whine about both men not being enough. Most simply have both men in their lives now.

Some guys with money are also very good looking because they are strong and work hard to make that money. They are healthy and bright.

However, somewhere along the line women decided to act like men and to insist on the prettiest thing they can find. Meaning a good looking wealthy man is cheated on with some boy toy male model the first chance she gets. Then the courts give her half his stuff so she can pay for boy toy with his money. This is anti-family. Men are held to the same standards of beauty that women are now, which is ridiculous. That's like men insisting women are rich.

 

[skinnyguy]

Try dating women with money instead of broke chicks.

It feels amazing when they want to split the bill with you and aren't asking you to spoil them.

 

[Jaylan]

I was wondering...because I know a few of these girls that "only" (they may have dated a guy with regular income but its not their preference) date guys who are wealthy, you know, guys who buy them stuff, take them to fancy restaurants everyday, let them driver their BMW, take them on nice vacations...etc.

I was just seing one of these couple on my fb right now. They seem "happy", but I dont know if I would be comfortable dating a girl that likes money and fancy stuff that much because then...why is she with me? just because of my money? in this case it would be sad, but if you have a lot of money it comes natural to pay for stuff for her, right?

It's a bit confusing. I guess you should find a girl that likes "you" and also finds nice the fact that you have money. However, if you date a girl that likes "your money" mainly, then it is a bad choice because she fakes she likes you when she actually just likes what you provide for her...but I think there are a lot of couples that work this way...

Thougths?

Im middle class and by no means rich. And I dont spend money on women. Also Ive had rough periods where Ive been super broke.

The women who have dated me, have done so for either my personality or for the physical attraction. These chicks are out there.

Its not hard to pick out the gold digging sluts who are simply with you for the security.