How many of you are dateless wonders and 25+

[gspshields2]

I've been following the advice for the forum for the last two years and I am still a dateless wonder.

I am so surprised when I hear guys actually going out on dates with girls in this forum, and I am like why am I the only no who has nothing to report back.

Is there guys here 25+ who can't get dates, or maintain plates.

I mean its not like im some awkward teenager, i thought
it was supposed to get easier with age.

I have 0 plates and nothing to report except for playing my video games on friday night.

This crap is very depressing.

 

[TRSX]

You'll miss 100% of the shots you dont take.

Get off the game, go out and meet people.

 

[gspshields2]

You'll miss 100% of the shots you dont take.

Get off the game, go out and meet people.

I've been rejected 10,000 times in the past 2 years.

 

[Mantis Toboggan]

I've been rejected 10,000 times in the past 2 years.

Have you considered sucking less? That usually helps.

 

[Alvafe]

that is a forced number

really you need to go out more, have fun, even though some says to go to clubs alone, go with a friend or friends just to have fun and if things happen it happen, forget about the I want to date, just go out.

I though I had a date today but she kinda said no today now, so you can say i'm dateless now, but i'm new here and still learning. things is some people don't deserve anything from you, and you need to move on, the ***** who called my date I will put her on ignore and no contact will start now, I'm just so ****ing pissed then if she never call me again it will be better for me,

what you should do now is just stop crying and go out, make new friends if is the case, but go out and do not worry about wating a woman, you always find things when you are not looking.

 

[Eternal_water]

I haven't had a girlfriend/date/kiss since 2009 or sex ever.

 

[gspshields2]

Can anyone here show me some daygame/nightgame in real life, so I can see how its done.

 

[InnerHappiness]

I've been following the advice for the forum for the last two years and I am still a dateless wonder.

I am so surprised when I hear guys actually going out on dates with girls in this forum, and I am like why am I the only no who has nothing to report back.

Is there guys here 25+ who can't get dates, or maintain plates.

I mean its not like im some awkward teenager, i thought
it was supposed to get easier with age.

I have 0 plates and nothing to report except for playing my video games on friday night.

This crap is very depressing.

PM me your picture with night attire and I'll see what I can work with.

 

[The_Jon]

Well, as someone said before, you should be honest with yourself and identify the problem. Ask friend(-s) to be honest and tell what your negative traits might be and try to overcome them?
I can tell you that, the exeptionality attracts the attention of many people. Get new haircut (not the one that says "im crazy" of course), new outfit... And lose gaming, this is such a waste of time if you abuse it too much... Also try change talking topics. Just experiment and track what works and what is not. And as someone mentioned, dont be too nice if you are.

 

[gspshields2]

Well, as someone said before, you should be honest with yourself and identify the problem. Ask friend(-s) to be honest and tell what your negative traits might be and try to overcome them?
I can tell you that, the exeptionality attracts the attention of many people. Get new haircut (not the one that says "im crazy" of course), new outfit... And lose gaming, this is such a waste of time if you abuse it too much... Also try change talking topics. Just experiment and track what works and what is not. And as someone mentioned, dont be too nice if you are.

I'm being honest with myself.

I workout, im muscular over 200 pounds of muscle,
I dress well, but nothing is working for me.

The only thing is theres a major handicap for me and I am Asian.

Also my social skills suck.

But i look good and keep in great shape.

 

[coochieman]

Feel ya pain man... Sort of...

I've got just two plates spinning currently (On sex basis)... I mean, I honestly feel I'm good enough to have like 10, 20 or so... but for some reasons, fucck ups happen!

I am just so fucckin' annoyed at this! Although, I would own up to the fault of not approaching enough 'cos I'm mostly indoors and lazy...

Look dude, you would honestly know why... Look around 'n' look at yourself and see why you're plateless. It is not a crime to be plateless, but it is a crime to lie to your own self.

Sidenote: Just had the worst phone-call ever with a potential plate. It was freakin' longer than my usual... and I said lots of Bssssss... Arrrgh!!! Fucckin' hurts... Guess I can start to kiss that goodbye!!! Fucckin' sad, man.

 

[InnerHappiness]

I'm being honest with myself.

I workout, im muscular over 200 pounds of muscle,
I dress well, but nothing is working for me.

The only thing is theres a major handicap for me and I am Asian.

Also my social skills suck.

But i look good and keep in great shape.

This shows us you aren't. Stop trying to make excuses for yourself.

Coming from a fellow asian, being raised with a timid culture makes it slightly more difficult to be naturally confident. Practice your social skills by talking to random people, you'll improve.

Also, quit betching.

 

[Samwild]

I prescribe lesson six in "The Book of Pook" and for that matter the entire copy cover to cover. Used as a tool, it will assist you. Found either on this website or here http://www.djbible.classicalgasemissions.com/book_of_pook.pdf. Live well and prosper:box:

 

[pdx1138]

GSP maybe you should focus on asian girls for awhile and see how it goes.
I've often seen profiles for them online where they only want asian men.

 

[flashpoint]

when i look at the threads you have started then i see lots of negativity, some are almost misogynic (they all lie, are evil etc.). there are two problems with that, first you pay too much attention to stuff that doesnt work and less to stuff that works or could work, second chicks can smell this negativity and they dont like it.

now i can understand that you have suffered lots of frustration and that it drags you down. Just dont mix singular events or experience up with who you are and what you can do. dont want to sound like Anthony Robbins or the like, just sayin winners see no failure only opportunities to get better.

Seems like you have a lot going for you already, dont forget to work on the parts you might still be missing out on. Like a year ago e.g. you mentioned you needed to expand your social circle. how is that going so far? What about stuff you do like and makes you feel better? may sound cheesy but find a few hobbies and with some luck you also find females that share the same interest with you. that could be a way to improve.

Or look at times when you were (even mildly) successful. What was different? How did you do it? Can you do it again? Just keep track of your success, everything else is just the necessary adjustment so you can see what is working and what is not.

btw. there are some real cool dudes that are asian. cant see how you couldnt be one of them as well. Think about who you really want to be (not what you want to have or want to be able to do or the like), and try to be that man. once you have figured that out and put some work in it, chicks will recognize. and lov it.

 

[gspshields2]

GSP maybe you should focus on asian girls for awhile and see how it goes.
I've often seen profiles for them online where they only want asian men.

Asian HBs don't give me the time of day. They want a skinny FOB who knows the mother tongue and dresses like a metrofag. The kind that listens to KPop and watches anime.

They are actually intimiated by my muscles.
Asian people have told me I look like a brute,
because my muscles are too big, and that I should
stop hitting the gym.

 

[gspshields2]

when i look at the threads you have started then i see lots of negativity, some are almost misogynic (they all lie, are evil etc.). there are two problems with that, first you pay too much attention to stuff that doesnt work and less to stuff that works or could work, second chicks can smell this negativity and they dont like it.

now i can understand that you have suffered lots of frustration and that it drags you down. Just dont mix singular events or experience up with who you are and what you can do. dont want to sound like Anthony Robbins or the like, just sayin winners see no failure only opportunities to get better.

Seems like you have a lot going for you already, dont forget to work on the parts you might still be missing out on. Like a year ago e.g. you mentioned you needed to expand your social circle. how is that going so far? What about stuff you do like and makes you feel better? may sound cheesy but find a few hobbies and with some luck you also find females that share the same interest with you. that could be a way to improve.

Or look at times when you were (even mildly) successful. What was different? How did you do it? Can you do it again? Just keep track of your success, everything else is just the necessary adjustment so you can see what is working and what is not.

btw. there are some real cool dudes that are asian. cant see how you couldnt be one of them as well. Think about who you really want to be (not what you want to have or want to be able to do or the like), and try to be that man. once you have figured that out and put some work in it, chicks will recognize. and lov it.

Good advice thanks. Remarkable post!

 

[evan12]

I think you have the same problem I have , we dont have social circle , I am new immigrant , and most women I approach are completely strangers , and approaching stranger women is harder 100 time than one from ur social circle . it also need very high communication skills which my english skills dont help here
most men especially the non PUA , get their women from their social circles like relatives , friends , etc

 

[floydb25]

Have you considered sucking less? That usually helps.

That made me laugh so hard... Or giggle like a school girl; whichever.

 

[oxford comma]

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