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The most Chad post I have read here. Surpasses even Pook. I wish I could say the same of myself but I neglected my principles with the cost of honor. I salute you, good sire, and if you ever come to the Balkans I invite you to the best coffee in the world.Just two. And I wish it were one.
The first time, I was drunk and she persisted, and I was curious what sex was like, so I did it. Then I never slept with her again.
The second time was my second girlfriend. We had a year-long whirlwind romance.
The first time was a mistake. The second time was pretty rad.
But here's my thing:
I don't believe in having sex with women I don't have genuine love and affection for. I never have, and I've never made exceptions, except that first time. I've turned women down too. I just walk out when they're expecting to get some. And it pisses them off. But I am a man of principle.
The problem with spending time pursuing women and sex for personal and physical gratification alone is not a wise investment of time. The man who wants to leave his mark on History knows better (but this is probably not for most); he only indulges his passions within the narrow confines of that which will serve him, and those he then serves, best.
I have been celibate for over a decade now. I choose this. It has empowered me to invest my time in detecting things in Life and Nature and write a book about my discoveries and conclusions that will impact and benefit many. I could not have done this were I foundling my time in chasing the next tail.
Those of us who want to make our Contribution to Humanity, we channel our sexual urges into our Offering which we build our Life's Mission around.