Originally posted by E-Z Rider
From what you wrote there, it looks like you expect the girl to at some point make a move, tell you what's up, or whatever.
Assuming the girl DOES like you, she's most likely NOT going to *ever* "stop" her games on her own. She'll flirt heavily, then pull back, and repeat. This is what women do to make men fall for them.
Here we teach that it's YOU who stop the games. You build up the attraction, ask for a date. If she declines the date offer, next her (unless she has a believable excuse, in which case you might give her another chance. Use your own discretion). If she accepts, good. Then at some point on one of the first dates, make a move, kiss her. She declines the kiss, you can either pull back a bit and try again later, then quit, or just next her right then. If she accepts the kiss and returns it, then good. Date her non-exclusively until she tells you she wants to be exclusive...and then become exclusive if you desire.
This pattern above is pretty much the closet thing to a "set" rule that there is with DJ-ing. It can obviously vary and skip steps, but overall the elements are always present in a similar form.
Do this, and you cut through 90% of the bullsh!t women give you when you try to get with them. But there will always be some bullsh!t. These are women, remember. Just be a man and don't let it bother you. Press on. You are the hunter and conqueror.
Hope this helps- -E-Z