How long can you go without masturbating?
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ok, as im sitting here, i thought... I wanna jack off, i got some good porn now... but you know what, im going to do this. one week. that's right. 1 week. Longest ive gone was 5 days and it was a *****.. one week. all you mother****ers better make bets like 40 days 40 nights.. 1 week... omg.. lets do this.
p.s. chinese used to think that you are giving away a part of your body when you are mastrubating.. a part of your soul... so you are wasting yourself. let's see if i can make myself wholesome again.
p.s. chinese used to think that you are giving away a part of your body when you are mastrubating.. a part of your soul... so you are wasting yourself. let's see if i can make myself wholesome again.
rgeere
Master Don Juan
Ha, you think were weak for masturbating, eh?
I don't think you've seen my previous post, but you may see a frightening scene when you finally do have some release.
If you don't want to be embarrased tell the nurse it's hematospermia, which is the technical term for it.
medical info about hematospermia...
I tried going without masturbation once. I have no idea why, but I managed to go three weeks.
Then I went to an arcade when it happened to be the last day of classes for this catholic school.
Damn it to hell.
Then I went to an arcade when it happened to be the last day of classes for this catholic school.
Damn it to hell.
Capi Crimini
Banned
this threads gay. and sad it has so many replies.
triple_ultima
Senior Don Juan
You're an idiot, and it's sad you've had so many posts.
Peter Parker
Don Juan
forever, day 3
recently found this in the web:
A friend of mine sent this to me, and a friend of his sent it o him, I think you'll all get a kick out of it so read on!!!
A friend a mine who had been a Mormon missionary came across this "guide" circa 1970, on tattered photocopy. In fact, the pages were stuck together!
STEPS IN OVERCOMING MASTURBATION
Mark E. Petersen Council of the 12 Apostles
Be assured that you can be cured of your difficulty. Many have been, both male and female, and you can be also if you determine that it must be so.
This determination is the first step. That is where we begin. You must decide that you will end this practice, and when you make that decision, the problem will be greatly reduced at once. But it must be more than a hope or a whish, more than knowing that it is good for you.
It must be actually a DECISION. If you truly makeup your mind that you will be cured, then you will have the strength to resist any tendencies which you may have and any temptations which may come to you. After you have made this decision, then observe the following specific guidelines:
A Guide to Self-Control:
1. Never touch the intimate parts of your body except during normal toilet processes.
2. Avoid being alone as much as possible. Find good company and stay in this good company.
3. If you are associated with other persons having this same problem, YOU MUST BREAK OFF THEIR FRIENDSHIP. Never associate with other people having the same weakness. Don't suppose that two of you will quit together, you never will. You must get away from people of that kind. Just to be in their presence will keep your problem foremost in your mind. The problem must be taken OUT OF YOUR MIND for that is where it really exists. Your mind must be on other and more wholesome things.
4. When you bathe, do not admire yourself in a mirror. Never stay in the bath more than five or six minutes -- just long enough to bathe and dry and dress AND THEN GET OUT OF THE BATHROOM into a room where you will have some member of your family present.
5. When in bed, if that is where you have your problem for the most part, dress yourself for the night so securely that you cannot easily touch your vital parts, and so that it would be difficult and time consuming for you to remove those clothes. By the time you started to remove protective clothing you would have sufficiently controlled your thinking that the temptation would leave you.
6. If the temptation seems overpowering while you are in bed, GET OUT OF BED AND GO INTO THE KITCHEN AND FIX YOURSELF A SNACK, even if it is in the middle of the night, and even if you are not hungry, and despite your fears of gaining weight. The purpose behind this suggestion is that you GET YOUR MIND ON SOMETHING ELSE. You are the subject of your thoughts, so to speak.
7. Never read pornographic material. Never read about your problem. Keep it out of mind. Remember -- "First a thought, then an act." The thought pattern must be changed. You must not allow this problem to remain in your mid. When you accomplish that, you soon will be free of the act.
8. Put wholesome thoughts into your mind at all times. Read good books -- Church books -- Scriptures -- Sermons of the Brethren [sic, Cistern too?]. Make a daily habit of reading at least one chapter of Scripture, preferably from one of the four Gospels in the New Testament, or the Book of Mormon. The four Gospels -- Matthew, Mark, Luke and John -- above anything else in the Bible can be helpful because of their uplifting qualities.
9. Pray. But when you pray, don't pray about this problem, for that will tend to keep [it] in your mind more than ever. Pray for faith, pray for understanding of the Scriptures, pray for the Missionaries, the General Authorities, your friends, your families, BUT KEEP THE PROBLEM OUT OF YOUR MIND BY NOT MENTIONING IT EVER -- NOT IN CONVERSATION WITH OTHERS, NOT IN YOUR PRAYERS. KEEP IT OUT“ of your mind!
The attitude of a person toward his problem has an affect[sic] on how easy it is to overcome. It is essential that a firm commitment be made to control the habit. As a person understands his reasons for the behaviour, and is sensitive to the conditions or situations that may trigger a desire for the act, he develops the power to control it.
We are taught that our bodies are temples of God, and are to be clean so that the Holy Ghost may dwell within us. Masturbation is a sinful habit that robs one of the Spirit and creates guilt and emotional stress. It is not physically harmful unless practiced in the extreme. It is a habit that is totally self-centred, and secretive, and in no way expresses the proper use of the procreative power given to man to fulfil eternal purposes. It therefore separates a person from God and defeats the gospel plan.
This self-gratifying activity will cause one to lose his self-respect testimony becomes weak, and missionary work and other Church callings become burden some, offerings. To help in planning an effective program to overcome the problem abrieation is given of how the reproductive organs in a young man function.
The testes in your body are continually producing hundreds of millions of reproductive cells call „spermatozoa“. These are moved up a tube called the „vas deferens“ to a place called the „ampulla“ where they are mixed with fluids from two membranous pouches called „seminal vesicles“ and the“ prostate gland“. The resultant fluid is calleeminal vesicles are full a sigma to the „central nervous system“ indicating they are ready to benother, depending on such things exercise, state of health, etc. several times a week, for others It is normal for the vesicles to be emptied occasionally at night durise the emptying come from the central nervous system. Often an erotic dream is experienced at the same time, and is a part of this normal process. The reproductive system is operating at a more rapid pace, trying to keep up with the loss of semen. When he stops the habit, the body will continue to produce aphis increased rate, for an indefese are not harmful and are to be endured until the normal central nervous system pathway ofrel During this period of control several things can be done to make the proud of.
As one meets with his Priesthood Leader, a program for overcoming masturbation can be implemented using some of t Remember it is essential that arguer report program be agreed on, so progress can be recognized and failures understood and eliminated.
Suggestions:
1. Pray daily, ask for the gifts of the Spirit, that which will strengthen you against temptation. Pray fervently and out lout when the temptations are the strongest.
2. Follow a program of vigorous daily exercise. The exercises reduce emotional tension and depression and are absolutely basic to the solution of this problem. Double your physical activity when you feel stress increasing.
3. When the temptation to masturbate is strong, yell „STOP“ to those thoughts as loudly as you can in your mind and then recite a pre chosen Scripture or sing an inspirational hymn. It is important to turn your thoughts away from the selfish need to indulge.
4. Set goals of abstinence, begin with a day, then a week, month, year and finally commit to never doing it again. Until you commit yourself to „never again“ you will always be open to temptation.
5. Change in behaviour and attitude is most easily achieved through a changed self-image. Spend time every day imagining yourself strong and in control, easily overcoming tempting situations.
6. Begin to work daily on a self-improvement program. Relate this plan to improving your Church service, to improving your relationships with your family, God and others. Strive to enhance your strengths and talents.
7. Be outgoing and friendly. Force yourself to be with others and learn to enjoy working and talking to them. Use principles of developing friendships found in books such as „How to Win Friends and Influence People“ by Dale Carnegie.
8. Be aware of situations that depress you or that cause you to feel lonely, bored, frustrated or discouraged. These emotional states can trigger the desire to masturbate as a way of escape. Plan in advance to counter these low periods through various activities, such as reading a book, visiting a friend, doing something athletic, etc.
9. Make a pocket calendar for a month on a small card. Carry it with you, but show it to no one. If you have a lapse of self control, colour the day black. Your goal will be to have „no black days“. The calendar becomes a strong visual reminder of self control and should be looked at when you are tempted to add another black day. Keep your calendar up until you have at least three clear months.
10. A careful study will indicate you have had the problem at certain times and under certain conditions. Try and recall, in detail, what your particular times and conditions were. Now that you understand how it happens, plan to break the pattern through counter activities.
A friend of mine sent this to me, and a friend of his sent it o him, I think you'll all get a kick out of it so read on!!!
A friend a mine who had been a Mormon missionary came across this "guide" circa 1970, on tattered photocopy. In fact, the pages were stuck together!
STEPS IN OVERCOMING MASTURBATION
Mark E. Petersen Council of the 12 Apostles
Be assured that you can be cured of your difficulty. Many have been, both male and female, and you can be also if you determine that it must be so.
This determination is the first step. That is where we begin. You must decide that you will end this practice, and when you make that decision, the problem will be greatly reduced at once. But it must be more than a hope or a whish, more than knowing that it is good for you.
It must be actually a DECISION. If you truly makeup your mind that you will be cured, then you will have the strength to resist any tendencies which you may have and any temptations which may come to you. After you have made this decision, then observe the following specific guidelines:
A Guide to Self-Control:
1. Never touch the intimate parts of your body except during normal toilet processes.
2. Avoid being alone as much as possible. Find good company and stay in this good company.
3. If you are associated with other persons having this same problem, YOU MUST BREAK OFF THEIR FRIENDSHIP. Never associate with other people having the same weakness. Don't suppose that two of you will quit together, you never will. You must get away from people of that kind. Just to be in their presence will keep your problem foremost in your mind. The problem must be taken OUT OF YOUR MIND for that is where it really exists. Your mind must be on other and more wholesome things.
4. When you bathe, do not admire yourself in a mirror. Never stay in the bath more than five or six minutes -- just long enough to bathe and dry and dress AND THEN GET OUT OF THE BATHROOM into a room where you will have some member of your family present.
5. When in bed, if that is where you have your problem for the most part, dress yourself for the night so securely that you cannot easily touch your vital parts, and so that it would be difficult and time consuming for you to remove those clothes. By the time you started to remove protective clothing you would have sufficiently controlled your thinking that the temptation would leave you.
6. If the temptation seems overpowering while you are in bed, GET OUT OF BED AND GO INTO THE KITCHEN AND FIX YOURSELF A SNACK, even if it is in the middle of the night, and even if you are not hungry, and despite your fears of gaining weight. The purpose behind this suggestion is that you GET YOUR MIND ON SOMETHING ELSE. You are the subject of your thoughts, so to speak.
7. Never read pornographic material. Never read about your problem. Keep it out of mind. Remember -- "First a thought, then an act." The thought pattern must be changed. You must not allow this problem to remain in your mid. When you accomplish that, you soon will be free of the act.
8. Put wholesome thoughts into your mind at all times. Read good books -- Church books -- Scriptures -- Sermons of the Brethren [sic, Cistern too?]. Make a daily habit of reading at least one chapter of Scripture, preferably from one of the four Gospels in the New Testament, or the Book of Mormon. The four Gospels -- Matthew, Mark, Luke and John -- above anything else in the Bible can be helpful because of their uplifting qualities.
9. Pray. But when you pray, don't pray about this problem, for that will tend to keep [it] in your mind more than ever. Pray for faith, pray for understanding of the Scriptures, pray for the Missionaries, the General Authorities, your friends, your families, BUT KEEP THE PROBLEM OUT OF YOUR MIND BY NOT MENTIONING IT EVER -- NOT IN CONVERSATION WITH OTHERS, NOT IN YOUR PRAYERS. KEEP IT OUT“ of your mind!
The attitude of a person toward his problem has an affect[sic] on how easy it is to overcome. It is essential that a firm commitment be made to control the habit. As a person understands his reasons for the behaviour, and is sensitive to the conditions or situations that may trigger a desire for the act, he develops the power to control it.
We are taught that our bodies are temples of God, and are to be clean so that the Holy Ghost may dwell within us. Masturbation is a sinful habit that robs one of the Spirit and creates guilt and emotional stress. It is not physically harmful unless practiced in the extreme. It is a habit that is totally self-centred, and secretive, and in no way expresses the proper use of the procreative power given to man to fulfil eternal purposes. It therefore separates a person from God and defeats the gospel plan.
This self-gratifying activity will cause one to lose his self-respect testimony becomes weak, and missionary work and other Church callings become burden some, offerings. To help in planning an effective program to overcome the problem abrieation is given of how the reproductive organs in a young man function.
The testes in your body are continually producing hundreds of millions of reproductive cells call „spermatozoa“. These are moved up a tube called the „vas deferens“ to a place called the „ampulla“ where they are mixed with fluids from two membranous pouches called „seminal vesicles“ and the“ prostate gland“. The resultant fluid is calleeminal vesicles are full a sigma to the „central nervous system“ indicating they are ready to benother, depending on such things exercise, state of health, etc. several times a week, for others It is normal for the vesicles to be emptied occasionally at night durise the emptying come from the central nervous system. Often an erotic dream is experienced at the same time, and is a part of this normal process. The reproductive system is operating at a more rapid pace, trying to keep up with the loss of semen. When he stops the habit, the body will continue to produce aphis increased rate, for an indefese are not harmful and are to be endured until the normal central nervous system pathway ofrel During this period of control several things can be done to make the proud of.
As one meets with his Priesthood Leader, a program for overcoming masturbation can be implemented using some of t Remember it is essential that arguer report program be agreed on, so progress can be recognized and failures understood and eliminated.
Suggestions:
1. Pray daily, ask for the gifts of the Spirit, that which will strengthen you against temptation. Pray fervently and out lout when the temptations are the strongest.
2. Follow a program of vigorous daily exercise. The exercises reduce emotional tension and depression and are absolutely basic to the solution of this problem. Double your physical activity when you feel stress increasing.
3. When the temptation to masturbate is strong, yell „STOP“ to those thoughts as loudly as you can in your mind and then recite a pre chosen Scripture or sing an inspirational hymn. It is important to turn your thoughts away from the selfish need to indulge.
4. Set goals of abstinence, begin with a day, then a week, month, year and finally commit to never doing it again. Until you commit yourself to „never again“ you will always be open to temptation.
5. Change in behaviour and attitude is most easily achieved through a changed self-image. Spend time every day imagining yourself strong and in control, easily overcoming tempting situations.
6. Begin to work daily on a self-improvement program. Relate this plan to improving your Church service, to improving your relationships with your family, God and others. Strive to enhance your strengths and talents.
7. Be outgoing and friendly. Force yourself to be with others and learn to enjoy working and talking to them. Use principles of developing friendships found in books such as „How to Win Friends and Influence People“ by Dale Carnegie.
8. Be aware of situations that depress you or that cause you to feel lonely, bored, frustrated or discouraged. These emotional states can trigger the desire to masturbate as a way of escape. Plan in advance to counter these low periods through various activities, such as reading a book, visiting a friend, doing something athletic, etc.
9. Make a pocket calendar for a month on a small card. Carry it with you, but show it to no one. If you have a lapse of self control, colour the day black. Your goal will be to have „no black days“. The calendar becomes a strong visual reminder of self control and should be looked at when you are tempted to add another black day. Keep your calendar up until you have at least three clear months.
10. A careful study will indicate you have had the problem at certain times and under certain conditions. Try and recall, in detail, what your particular times and conditions were. Now that you understand how it happens, plan to break the pattern through counter activities.
11. In the field of psychotherapy there is a very effective technique called „aversion therapy“. When we associate or think of something very distasteful with something which has been pleasurable, but undesirable, the distasteful thought and feeling will begin to cancel out that which was pleasurable. If you associate something very distasteful with your loss of self-control it will help you to stop the act. For example, if you are tempted to masturbate, think of having to bathe in a tub of worms, and eat several of them as you do the act.
12. During your toileting and shower activities leave the bathroom door or shower curtain partly open, to discourage being alone in total privacy. Take cool brief showers.
13. Arise immediately in the mornings. Do not lie in bed awake, no matter what time of day it is. Get up and do something. Start each day with an enthusiastic activity.
14. Keep your bladder empty. Refrain from drinking large amounts of fluids before retiring.
15. Reduce the amount of spices and condiments in your food. Eat as lightly as possible at night.
16. Wear pyjamas that are difficult to open, yet loose and not binding.
17. Avoid people, situations, pictures or reading materials that might create sexual excitement.
18. It is sometimes helpful to have a physical object to use in overcoming this problem. A Book of Mormon, firmly held in hand, even in bed at night has proven helpful in extreme cases.
19. In very severe cases it may be necessary to tie a hand to the bed frame with a tie in order that the habit of masturbating in a semi-sleep condition can be broken. This can also be accomplished by wearing several layers of clothing which would be difficult to remove while half asleep.
20. Set up a reward system for your successes. It does not have to be a big reward. A quarter in a receptacle each time you overcome or reach a goal. Spend it on something which delights you and will be a continuing reminder of your progress.
21. Do not let yourself return to any past habit or attitude patterns which were part of your problem. „Satan Never Gives Up“. Be calmly and confidently on guard. Keep a positive mental attitude. You can win this fight! The joy and strength you will feel when you do will give your whole life a radiant and spiritual glow of satisfaction and fulfilment.
this should help you out
12. During your toileting and shower activities leave the bathroom door or shower curtain partly open, to discourage being alone in total privacy. Take cool brief showers.
13. Arise immediately in the mornings. Do not lie in bed awake, no matter what time of day it is. Get up and do something. Start each day with an enthusiastic activity.
14. Keep your bladder empty. Refrain from drinking large amounts of fluids before retiring.
15. Reduce the amount of spices and condiments in your food. Eat as lightly as possible at night.
16. Wear pyjamas that are difficult to open, yet loose and not binding.
17. Avoid people, situations, pictures or reading materials that might create sexual excitement.
18. It is sometimes helpful to have a physical object to use in overcoming this problem. A Book of Mormon, firmly held in hand, even in bed at night has proven helpful in extreme cases.
19. In very severe cases it may be necessary to tie a hand to the bed frame with a tie in order that the habit of masturbating in a semi-sleep condition can be broken. This can also be accomplished by wearing several layers of clothing which would be difficult to remove while half asleep.
20. Set up a reward system for your successes. It does not have to be a big reward. A quarter in a receptacle each time you overcome or reach a goal. Spend it on something which delights you and will be a continuing reminder of your progress.
21. Do not let yourself return to any past habit or attitude patterns which were part of your problem. „Satan Never Gives Up“. Be calmly and confidently on guard. Keep a positive mental attitude. You can win this fight! The joy and strength you will feel when you do will give your whole life a radiant and spiritual glow of satisfaction and fulfilment.
this should help you out
rgeere
Master Don Juan
One guy claims he went a whole year previously.
I myself went three months and got a bad case of hematospermia. I'm never doing that again.
I myself went three months and got a bad case of hematospermia. I'm never doing that again.
Capi Crimini
Banned
I went thirteen years... then I hit puberty.lol
holly ****, i need some motivation here guys....
i been working a lot lately, and playing bball, so didnt really have the time, but now that i have the chance to stay up till 2 am tonite, the thought had started to creep in.
I didnt delete any porn, just because my collection is very nice and hand picked.. and if you ever used ***** you know how hard it is to find good stuff... well today i downloaded some pics of that girl from all falls down video ..and my eyes looked over the movies i had (porn)... and i was like... god damn...this girl..naked...ughhhh.... one wouldnt hurt...
Then i remembered all the good stuff about mastrubation.. my friend telling me "do it while you can still get your **** up.." and such... but then there was this voice inside my head that was saying "come on man, you can do this, dont be a *****".
so i decided to check on this thread, see how you guys felt when urges came... i saw some people saying "i do it daily" and again i said "LETS DO IT"... but then i kept on reading, and saw all the people that said "i went throught with it"... and now.. the urge is gone..for today.
I need some more motivation.. i really want to make it for a week, it's been 3 days so far.. who is still in with me?
i been working a lot lately, and playing bball, so didnt really have the time, but now that i have the chance to stay up till 2 am tonite, the thought had started to creep in.
I didnt delete any porn, just because my collection is very nice and hand picked.. and if you ever used ***** you know how hard it is to find good stuff... well today i downloaded some pics of that girl from all falls down video ..and my eyes looked over the movies i had (porn)... and i was like... god damn...this girl..naked...ughhhh.... one wouldnt hurt...
Then i remembered all the good stuff about mastrubation.. my friend telling me "do it while you can still get your **** up.." and such... but then there was this voice inside my head that was saying "come on man, you can do this, dont be a *****".
so i decided to check on this thread, see how you guys felt when urges came... i saw some people saying "i do it daily" and again i said "LETS DO IT"... but then i kept on reading, and saw all the people that said "i went throught with it"... and now.. the urge is gone..for today.
I need some more motivation.. i really want to make it for a week, it's been 3 days so far.. who is still in with me?
