How exactly do you guys do it?

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I hear all these stories from people on this board and some of my friends how they have sex all the time. But how exactly do you get to that point when you've just met a girl? Is there some secret that im missing out on? My friend told me that he had sex with his gf in the car last night? how does that happen? just start hooking up? what am i missing?
 

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"My friend told me that he had sex with his gf in the car last night"
What does that have to do with anything? It's his gf, he can **** her wherever, whenever.
 

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I'm guessing he told his gf to come have sex with him in the car.

He commanded the situation.
 

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Just by the way you asked the question answered it for me.

You don't "get a woman" to have sex with you. Women already want to have sex with you, you just make it possible for that to happen. You isolate the woman so that sex can happen. You get them alone, then sex will happen.
 

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thefonz said:
I'm guessing he told his gf to come have sex with him in the car.
I highly doubt he told her to come have sex in the car. You dont tell a girl to have sex with you.
 

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G Rambo34 said:
I hear all these stories from people on this board and some of my friends how they have sex all the time. But how exactly do you get to that point when you've just met a girl? Is there some secret that im missing out on? My friend told me that he had sex with his gf in the car last night? how does that happen? just start hooking up? what am i missing?
Many people lie.
 

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MisterMcGee is correct. It's his girlfriend. What is she gonna say, I don't wanna have sex in the car?

And if that's the case why is she your girlfriend.
 
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dude...this is like teaching 2 years old how to play with mud..

like Everywomanshero said, women wanna have sex with you.
if u both are sitting in the car even smtn real stupid like.
"hey, come sit on my lap" would work..its worked everytime for me when i cant be bothered coming up with brilliant stuff to fclose.

if uve NEVER kissed or fvkd before. or she's a new chic, the most difficult part is the first kiss.
women rate a guy based on first kisses, so make sure your first kiss with her is special to her. you could do the same thing with every chic e.g, go to the beach on a clear night and say u cant walk on the sand coz ur AirForces are too expensive...then when u get on d sand to kiss her and she'll be thrilled that u put ur airforces on the sand for her..even tho those airforces have been on the same sand 50 times..but she dunno that.
she'll be tellin her gfs for a week on how sexy that first kiss was n how she means more than ur airforces to you.

once ur past the first kiss, then hookin up is as easy as,
"k let me drive u home."
blah blah blah during the drive.
pull up to her house
"i gotta leave u with somethin to remember me by.." hook up.
hand on thigh.
move to t1ts
undo shirt slowly with one hand..while keepin her attention away with ur other hand thru her hair/holding her hand/ rubbin her thighs.
undo bra after commentin on her gorgeous t1ts
more compliments
more kissin
you suckin.
her suckin
you fvkn
her moanin.
end of story.
 

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oakraiderz2 said:
I highly doubt he told her to come have sex in the car. You dont tell a girl to have sex with you.
You're right, cus it's much better to wait for a girl to intiate with you.:crazy:
 

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oakraiderz2 said:
I highly doubt he told her to come have sex in the car. You dont tell a girl to have sex with you.
Why not? If she is an outgoing girl and is really into it you could totally say: "we should have sex" or something like that, then jump in the back seat with her. :flowers:
 

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thefonz said:
You're right, cus it's much better to wait for a girl to intiate with you.:crazy:
Just cause i said you dont explicitly tell a girl you wanna have sex doesnt mean you let the girl initiate everythying. I dont tell my gf to have sex with me cause that would make me a tool. I start doing things so we end up f*cking. If you tell a girl to have sex with you rather than making a move youre a joke and a half....care to try again, kiddo?

Why not? If she is an outgoing girl and is really into it you could totally say: "we should have sex" or something like that, then jump in the back seat with her
Youre f*cking kidding me, right? If you say something like that then youre demonstrating thatyou dont "get it." Thats also a good way to make a girl feel like a hor. You guys are weak sauce, step youre sh*t up.
 

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Duff dog, thefonz. It is much more effective to highten her attraction levels to the point where she is literally begging to get boned, rather than to "command" her to do anything. That way even if she says "no" at first, later she'll be saying "please."
 

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Lol I usually don't say "Hey let's get in the back seat and have vaginal penetration in the missionary position".. i mean i think it usually kind of just happens. But on the phone before I meet a lot of women and especially for the second meeting, I only meet them for sex anyway, it's a pretty direct conversation. They talk about **** they wanna do to me and all that and I don't make any effort to stop them. I guess if I felt someone couldn't handle that kind of conversation, I don't think I'd really want to meet her anyway... but if I was looking for a gf I'd prolly be less rigid.
 

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everywomanshero said:
You don't "get a woman" to have sex with you. Women already want to have sex with you, you just make it possible for that to happen. You isolate the woman so that sex can happen. You get them alone, then sex will happen.
I would dearly love to believe this, but I just don't see it.

Yes, it's largely due to the fact at present I suck at the game, I admit, (my theory's good but OCD f-cks up my kino) but I'm not just talking about myself. Even with other guys who are better than me, I've never seen women behave anything more than tolerant in an "I don't want this but I'll do it to get you off my back" way towards sexual advances.

The only times I have ever seen a woman even bring up sex, it's always in a joking context. Whenever they're not joking, they universally act as if it's either A: some horrible disease they'd rather avoid, or B: some kind of crime they don't want to be victim to, like theft or murder.

Do women really want sex or is that some PUA psychology thing, where you assuming the deal's closed makes you more confident and hence her more repsonsive, or whatever?
 

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If I'm talking to a FB on the phone and she asks, I'll tell her straight up:

"come over"
"why?"
"because I want to have sex with you"

She's my FB so there's no point in beating around the bush. But if I'm with a chick IN PERSON, then no, you don't ever wanna say "let's have sex."

Start by stroking her back or her neck while you talk to her. Not in a sexual way at first. If she responds well then get a little heavier with the touching and go for a kiss. If she's into it and your making out, then slowly work your way to her breasts or crotch with your hands. As the kissing/stroking gets more intense, slip your hand under her shirt for some boob grabbage. Then work your way down to her pants and unbutton them.

At this point things should be pretty hot and steamy and you shouldn't really need any more direction..........but I'll give it to you anyway. Slide her pants off and use your finger to see if she's wet. If she is that's your green light to whip out your d*ck and give it to her good.

As you get more comfortable with girls you'll be able to skip certain parts depending on how turned on she is, etc. But don't think this is anything difficult. If she's alone with you, then chances are she's waiting for you to make a move.


Oh and by the way: YES! WOMEN ARE JUST AS SEXUAL AS YOU ARE. THEY ACT LIKE THAT BECAUSE THEY DON'T WANT PEOPLE TO THINK THEY'RE WH0RES! GET YOUR HEAD OUT OF YOUR ASS! WOMEN LOOOOOVE SEX! IF THEY DIDN'T THE HUMAN RACE WOULD BE DOOMED BECAUSE NOBODY WOULD BE HAVING ANY GODDAMN BABIES! DID YOU NOT CONSIDER THAT? THEY LOVE IT! I HAVE SEX WITH BEAUTIFUL WOMEN ALL THE TIME AND THEY LOVE IT! USUALLY THEY'RE BEGGING ME TO F*CK THE SH*T OUT THEM BEFORE WE EVEN GET BACK TO MY PLACE! OPEN YOUR EYES MUTHERF*CKER! IF WOMEN JOKE ABOUT SEX THAT'S USUALLY BECAUSE IT'S ON THEIR MIND! EVER THINK OF THAT? GUESS WHAT! IF YOU JOKE ABOUT SEX TO THEM YOU WILL GET THEM THINKING ABOUT IT AND EVEN GET THEM AROUSED! YEAH DUDE!
 

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Max,

It;s good to be skeptical. A lot of bull****ers want your money, but sooner or later you have to accept somethings that might be hard for you to believe right now. I really don't have any reason to blow smoke up your ass, I don't sell any products or have any pua marketing sites or any of that nonsense. When I say women want sex, I am not talking about being passive. I am telling you that less than 2 hours ago a woman was telling me how good my sperm tasted and saying she loved being my ***** behind closed doors while I was inside of her ***** on her and her husband's bed. I am telling you that women have snook out in the mid of night while their husbands were asleep to **** in a sleazy hotel room of all places. I am telling you that I ate some ***** at a drive thru theatre and shot a laod in a chicks mouth (we rolled blackets up in the windows for curtains). I am telling you that I had a college student ask me to take her to a swinger club so she could get ****ed and masterbate in public. COuld I be lying? Sure. But you could buyn a ticket to amsterdam and go to one of the clubs I've been to (Showboat allow single guys some days, most clubs in the States do not as a general rule) and see lots of women just like these for yourself (check out the marijuana museum too, ha). At showboat I had two women going at it inches from my face, and some guy had me eat his hot wife out while she blew him on one of the couches. Sure there are lots of ugs there, but you'll nonetheless see a few hotties doing some nasty nasty stuff you probably don't think is possible outside of pornos right now. If you have a "Date" you can go to several around East St. Louis, IL. One allows naked coed dancing (PTs Centeerville) another Club 64 near Brooklyn IL allows u to **** upstairs in the swingers area on saturday nights. There is also an adult theatre (Colony) that has a swingers area but the place looks rank so I dont suggest u go there. What would I gain out of deceiving you though? Again I am not here to sell you some bull**** solution. Women are fvcking horndogs man and this has nothing to do with PUAS. PUAS are better off if yo believe you have to trick women into having sex or that sex is hard to get so you'll buy all their bull****. I am telling you the opposite, that you don't need all that garbage and that women are horndogs who want you to **** them into next week and make them orgasm all over your face. Maybe the only way for you to believe is to see it firsthand, if you stay the course that should be happening soon enough.



Maxwell said:
I would dearly love to believe this, but I just don't see it.

Yes, it's largely due to the fact at present I suck at the game, I admit, (my theory's good but OCD f-cks up my kino) but I'm not just talking about myself. Even with other guys who are better than me, I've never seen women behave anything more than tolerant in an "I don't want this but I'll do it to get you off my back" way towards sexual advances.

The only times I have ever seen a woman even bring up sex, it's always in a joking context. Whenever they're not joking, they universally act as if it's either A: some horrible disease they'd rather avoid, or B: some kind of crime they don't want to be victim to, like theft or murder.

Do women really want sex or is that some PUA psychology thing, where you assuming the deal's closed makes you more confident and hence her more repsonsive, or whatever?
 

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Maxwell said:
I would dearly love to believe this, but I just don't see it.

Yes, it's largely due to the fact at present I suck at the game, I admit, (my theory's good but OCD f-cks up my kino) but I'm not just talking about myself. Even with other guys who are better than me, I've never seen women behave anything more than tolerant in an "I don't want this but I'll do it to get you off my back" way towards sexual advances.

The only times I have ever seen a woman even bring up sex, it's always in a joking context. Whenever they're not joking, they universally act as if it's either A: some horrible disease they'd rather avoid, or B: some kind of crime they don't want to be victim to, like theft or murder.

Do women really want sex or is that some PUA psychology thing, where you assuming the deal's closed makes you more confident and hence her more repsonsive, or whatever?
Wait until you have a girl grabbing on your junk. Girls dont put that sh*t in their mouth cause to get you off their back. Girls are all about sex, thats why they slob on ding dongs and lick balls and swallow jizz. The goal is to get a girl alone, then she wont have to worry about being a hor. They all dream about a ding dong that makes there hoo hoo dripping wet and makes them get the OOOOOO face.
 

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Like I said, I want to believe it, and the evidence is undeniable, I just can't see it.

Then again, I am terrible at DJing, so I should probably amend it to: "girls hate the idea of sex with me."
Yes, I know that goes against Pook's "assume you're the Great Catch" ideal, I'm just getting to the point where I'm starting to suspect that all this is simply beyond me, that I just don't have what it takes, like someone who wants to be a runner but is born without legs.
All the stuff I read about; kino, C&F, turning the convo sexual, etc, none of it works for me. I've tried them on numerous girls, in numerous ways and situations, but never gotten a positive reaction.

Maybe I just need to move to where ever it is you fellows live...
 

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everywomanshero said:
Max,

It;s good to be skeptical. A lot of bull****ers want your money, but sooner or later you have to accept somethings that might be hard for you to believe right now. I really don't have any reason to blow smoke up your ass, I don't sell any products or have any pua marketing sites or any of that nonsense. When I say women want sex, I am not talking about being passive. I am telling you that less than 2 hours ago a woman was telling me how good my sperm tasted and saying she loved being my ***** behind closed doors while I was inside of her ***** on her and her husband's bed. I am telling you that women have snook out in the mid of night while their husbands were asleep to **** in a sleazy hotel room of all places. I am telling you that I ate some ***** at a drive thru theatre and shot a laod in a chicks mouth (we rolled blackets up in the windows for curtains). I am telling you that I had a college student ask me to take her to a swinger club so she could get ****ed and masterbate in public. COuld I be lying? Sure. But you could buyn a ticket to amsterdam and go to one of the clubs I've been to (Showboat allow single guys some days, most clubs in the States do not as a general rule) and see lots of women just like these for yourself (check out the marijuana museum too, ha). At showboat I had two women going at it inches from my face, and some guy had me eat his hot wife out while she blew him on one of the couches. Sure there are lots of ugs there, but you'll nonetheless see a few hotties doing some nasty nasty stuff you probably don't think is possible outside of pornos right now. If you have a "Date" you can go to several around East St. Louis, IL. One allows naked coed dancing (PTs Centeerville) another Club 64 near Brooklyn IL allows u to **** upstairs in the swingers area on saturday nights. There is also an adult theatre (Colony) that has a swingers area but the place looks rank so I dont suggest u go there. What would I gain out of deceiving you though? Again I am not here to sell you some bull**** solution. Women are fvcking horndogs man and this has nothing to do with PUAS. PUAS are better off if yo believe you have to trick women into having sex or that sex is hard to get so you'll buy all their bull****. I am telling you the opposite, that you don't need all that garbage and that women are horndogs who want you to **** them into next week and make them orgasm all over your face. Maybe the only way for you to believe is to see it firsthand, if you stay the course that should be happening soon enough.
Dude you have to put a PG-13 warning label on this advice.
 
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