SamTheHobit said:
As 2014 begins and society moves further away from traditional and Christian values.
One thing is certain. Your power as a man in a relationship in 2014 is minimal or non existent…
…If anyone can tell me in what way men have power over women I love to hear it.
I can't think of anything…
…Power is the core of a relationship...
Here is the core of a recurring theme that I see over and over on sosuave. Things are not how you want them to be so everything must be the fault of women, society, balance of power, all that. What ever happened to manning up?
It is a good thing that we are moving away from traditional and Christian values. They are based on ignorant superstitions. They are closed minded, restrictive, hateful, and dehumanizing. Ever notice the world of knowledge opens ever wider with each passing day but for some reason many cling to “knowledge” developed by Neolithic goat herders as somehow superior to anything learned since. To traditional and especially Christian values I say good riddance. Get over it, there is no god.
That a man worries that women somehow might have the power to choose and run their own lives is equally puzzling. What’s wrong with it? Because a woman leaves or rejects you isn’t because she is a feminist, it’s because she doesn’t like you. Except for the very few lesbians out there most women want to be with a man or men as the case may be. If she’s not catering to your ideal of how a woman should act then maybe you need to get outside of your fantasy and deal with reality for awhile. Or is it those Christian values have you so locked into fantasy that you can’t see the real world as it is.
I have power over women, plenty of power. I can make them laugh and I can make them cry. I can make them forget other men are in the room. I can get under their skin and I can get them to follow me. It no real secret. I’m in control of my life, do the things I want, some of which are the best of their kind in the world. I take care of myself, of my business. I’m the type of man women want.
Actually by reading through forums like this I’ve come to see how I’ve been so successful with women. The competition is lacking. I’ve known women who go through life boldly stepping on men and grinding their heels in until they meet someone like me and suddenly she turns into the sweetest little thing that can’t wait until she gets me alone.
In a healthy relationship there is no power struggle as it is a cooperation.
