How does it feel knowing you will never have any power in a relationship?

[JohnChops]

You're calling Rollo a faggot then, since he is married and has said that spinning plates is incompatible with marriage.

And the idea that you "consider yourself someone's property" based on whether you will or won't fvck some chick is completely ridiculous.

i like this.

And NN is just a shredded 40 year old man, who fvcks whoever he pleases because of his "betanesssss" and because he swings his nutsack in front of dem dat dere gurlz faces. winwin.

 

[YAboi]

ALL playherman's posts and threads reek of stinking thinking.

 

[skinnyguy]

I'm ok with spinning plates now but I certainly don't want to be doing that when I'm 35. I'm already tired of the bar scene, and spinning plates deals with a lot of flaking which frankly I find completely immature. When you engage with younger women, there is so much bullish*t to deal with it is ridiculous.

 

[PlayHer Man]

Sorry dude but anyone who thinks like you do is going to have one hell of a fvkced up life.

You must've gotten burned bad once or a few times and are in full blown consistant defensive "offensive" mode.

As if a dude should be so weak that he couldn't leave a chick on his own if things don't work out without needing "plates" or having to "go after them" if one presents itself because GOD FORBID a chick may turn on you for being such a great "catch" and you as such a "great catch" didn't jump on it.

A dude who truly improves himself for himself wouldn't need to "get over" first whenever he has the opportunity to do so to someone else. ESPECIALLY if he knows he's never had a serious issue with his chick.


You should change your username to: FearHer Woman.


Amazing how these "DJs" eat that sh1t up. It's very telling the types of chicks dudes are "confident" enough to go after and date/wife up on here. Then complain and plot to have to strike first.

Up your lives and standards kids. Might as well be the "man" who fvcks over all your friends to because "They could always do it to you first!"

sht is pathetic.

Looks like you lack reading comprehension skills dude. Or maybe you don't like my posts because they make you feel like a faggot? :crackup:

I already said a man doesn't have to spin plates 24/7. He just has to be open to it. If he is so committed to his woman that he will actually REJECT sexual opportunities from other women.. then he has oneitis. This makes him beta (a faggot).

What you are looking for is a way to justify being an enslaved beta faggot to ONE woman. Sorry but there is no justification that will allow you to keep your dignity.

This is not 1950. This is 2014. In 2014 the game is very different. In 2014 women don't pander much to men. They have enough power that they don't really need to. Even the top 1% of rich and famous men get raped in divorce court by women sometimes. We live in a world were women don't really respect men like they did in the past.

You are delusional if you believe you can keep leverage in a relationship just by "keeping frame" and "being ready to leave". None of that sh!t trumps female hypergamy bro. Women don't give a sh!t. They will go for the best deal available. Your mind games and manipulations won't help you. Women have too many options and society no longer shames them for bad behavior towards men.

The only way to win the game in 2014 is to have an abundance mentality. Spin plates and live a free and dynamic life. Any soul mate mentality is outdated and beta.

I notice a lot of men get mad at me because they don't WANT to spin plates. Fine. Don't spin plates then! Just understand you will have less leverage with women as a result.. no matter how much you lie to yourself to protect your frail ego.

 

[JohnChops]

Looks like you lack reading comprehension skills dude. Or maybe you don't like my posts because they make you feel like a faggot? :crackup:

I already said a man doesn't have to spin plates 24/7. He just has to be open to it. If he is so committed to his woman that he will actually REJECT sexual opportunities from other women.. then he has oneitis. This makes him beta (a faggot).

What you are looking for is a way to justify being an enslaved beta faggot to ONE woman. Sorry but there is no justification that will allow you to keep your dignity.

This is not 1950. This is 2014. In 2014 the game is very different. In 2014 women don't pander much to men. They have enough power that they don't really need to. Even the top 1% of rich and famous men get raped in divorce court by women sometimes. We live in a world were women don't really respect men like they did in the past.

You are delusional if you believe you can keep leverage in a relationship just by "keeping frame" and "being ready to leave". None of that sh!t trumps female hypergamy bro. Women don't give a sh!t. They will go for the best deal available. Your mind games and manipulations won't help you. Women have too many options and society no longer shames them for bad behavior towards men.

The only way to win the game in 2014 is to have an abundance mentality. Spin plates and live a free and dynamic life. Any soul mate mentality is outdated and beta.

I notice a lot of men get mad at me because they don't WANT to spin plates. Fine. Don't spin plates then! Just understand you will have less leverage with women as a result.. no matter how much you lie to yourself to protect your frail ego.

Even though PHM is a phaggot who weighs 120lbs himself, I agree with most of what he said here. Living your life in an open way makes more sense than being tied to that soulmate propaganda .

 

[PlayHer Man]

Even though PHM is a phaggot who weighs 120lbs himself, I agree with most of what he said here. Living your life in an open way makes more sense than being tied to that soulmate propaganda .

This is the perfect example of a response from a man who KNOWS I'm right.. yet I've gotten under his skin so much that he must avoid stroking my ego too much.

I'm hear to help dude. My posts are tough love.

 

[zekko]

Living your life in an open way makes more sense than being tied to that soulmate propaganda .

I don't believe in "soulmates", but I do believe in respecting your partner, as long as her behavior is worthy of it. And if her behavior is not worthy of it, she should be dumped.

 

[Nostalgic.]

For god's sake, I am truly sad hearing this from A SOSUAVE member.


If you're a TRUE DJ, AN ALPHA. You're NEVER afraid to lose ANY WOMAN.

It's ALWAYS HER LOSS. You're the man. If you're a true DJ , you will always have women to pound.

 

[HumbleNinja]

Looks like you lack reading comprehension skills dude. Or maybe you don't like my posts because they make you feel like a faggot? :crackup:

I already said a man doesn't have to spin plates 24/7. He just has to be open to it. If he is so committed to his woman that he will actually REJECT sexual opportunities from other women.. then he has oneitis. This makes him beta (a faggot).

What you are looking for is a way to justify being an enslaved beta faggot to ONE woman. Sorry but there is no justification that will allow you to keep your dignity.

This is not 1950. This is 2014. In 2014 the game is very different. In 2014 women don't pander much to men. They have enough power that they don't really need to. Even the top 1% of rich and famous men get raped in divorce court by women sometimes. We live in a world were women don't really respect men like they did in the past.

You are delusional if you believe you can keep leverage in a relationship just by "keeping frame" and "being ready to leave". None of that sh!t trumps female hypergamy bro. Women don't give a sh!t. They will go for the best deal available. Your mind games and manipulations won't help you. Women have too many options and society no longer shames them for bad behavior towards men.

The only way to win the game in 2014 is to have an abundance mentality. Spin plates and live a free and dynamic life. Any soul mate mentality is outdated and beta.

I notice a lot of men get mad at me because they don't WANT to spin plates. Fine. Don't spin plates then! Just understand you will have less leverage with women as a result.. no matter how much you lie to yourself to protect your frail ego.

Sorry kid but I don't need other plates as if I could never get a chick while on my own IF I decided to leave.

Some dudes are confident enough to keep their word regardless. If things don't work out they don't. But to go after some chick who doesn't respect a dudes relationship let alone another chick she ain't worth it to fvck something up that is going good.

If things aren't. You leave.

Then again do you NEED to have plate "options" to feel "power" in a relationship or to give you the strength to just leave?

You seem to have serious issues with chicks. You must've been seriously damaged by some chick, either that or talking out of your azz in our basement. That and your excessive use of "f@g" would either suggest you are a few posts of coming out of the closet and or are subliminally trying to create an army of fags who harbor emo wittle feewings towards chicks who burned them to justify your own deep down h0mo urges.

Grow up or just come out of the closet FearHer Woman. Your posts read like they're typed with a lisp.

 

[JohnChops]

This is the perfect example of a response from a man who KNOWS I'm right.. yet I've gotten under his skin so much that he must avoid stroking my ego too much.

I'm hear to help dude. My posts are tough love.

Nah man you're on top of my skin, that's why I keep scratching you lolz.

@zekko I concur brotha but spinning plates isn't cheating. But would talking to other girls on the side and NOT doing anything be a sign of disrespect from the man? I am 50/50 on this.

 

[PlayHer Man]

Sorry kid but I don't need other plates as if I could never get a chick while on my own IF I decided to leave.

Some dudes are confident enough to keep their word regardless. If things don't work out they don't. But to go after some chick who doesn't respect a dudes relationship let alone another chick she ain't worth it to fvck something up that is going good.

If things aren't. You leave.

Then again do you NEED to have plate "options" to feel "power" in a relationship or to give you the strength to just leave?

You seem to have serious issues with chicks. You must've been seriously damaged by some chick, either that or talking out of your azz in our basement. That and your excessive use of "f@g" would either suggest you are a few posts of coming out of the closet and or are subliminally trying to create an army of fags who harbor emo wittle feewings towards chicks who burned them to justify your own deep down h0mo urges.

Grow up or just come out of the closet FearHer Woman. Your posts read like they're typed with a lisp.

If you want to be an enslaved passive beta faggot then do it. Just don't try to justify it because there is no justification. :crackup:

For god's sake, I am truly sad hearing this from A SOSUAVE member.


If you're a TRUE DJ, AN ALPHA. You're NEVER afraid to lose ANY WOMAN.

It's ALWAYS HER LOSS. You're the man. If you're a true DJ , you will always have women to pound.

This guy gets it.

 

[HumbleNinja]

If you want to be an enslaved passive beta faggot then do it. Just don't try to justify it because there is no justification. :crackup:


Are you seriously just a functioning retard or just really good at playing the part?

How in your diseased mind does keeping your word, having honesty and integrity for yourself, and being a man in a relationship while having the confidence to leave it on your own equal "enslaved beta f@ggot"?

Jesus you are one sick, little disturbed monkey. Hahahaha.

Some chick did a number on you kid. Or are you some closeted pillow biter who's trying to plant subtle "f@g" influences in other bitter dudes who've been ruined by some chick? Maybe you'll influence a few other dudes to start batting for the other team. LMAO

You are one suspect mofo FearHer Woman.

 

[PlayHer Man]

Are you seriously just a functioning retard or just really good at playing the part?

How in your diseased mind does keeping your word, having honesty and integrity for yourself, and being a man in a relationship while having the confidence to leave it on your own equal "enslaved beta f@ggot"?

Jesus you are one sick, little disturbed monkey. Hahahaha.

Some chick did a number on you kid. Or are you some closeted pillow biter who's trying to plant subtle "f@g" influences in other bitter dudes who've been ruined by some chick? Maybe you'll influence a few other dudes to start batting for the other team. LMAO

You are one suspect mofo FearHer Woman.

Do you have a point to make here? Do you have any useful information to share that can help men? OR do you just want to sling insults like an angry coke wh0re? :crackup:

The stuff you talk about: "keeping your word, being totally honest, and being a model boyfriend in a relationship" is all in 1950's context. It doesn't work anymore idiot. That's what I'm trying to tell you.

But keep doing that if that's what works for you.

My advice is all about how a man can maximize his benefit in relationships with women while minimizing cost. If you're on some soul mate sh!t then go do that. You do you and I'll do me.

 

[HumbleNinja]

Do you have a point to make here? Do you have any useful information to share that can help men? OR do you just want to sling insults like an angry coke wh0re? :crackup:

The stuff you talk about: "keeping your word, being totally honest, and being a model boyfriend in a relationship" is all in 1950's context. It doesn't work anymore idiot. That's what I'm trying to tell you.

But keep doing that if that's what works for you.

My advice is all about how a man can maximize his benefit in relationships with women while minimizing cost. If you're on some soul mate sh!t then go do that. You do you and I'll do me.

Soulmates? LMFAO. Again it's about honesty and integrity for yourself and knowing you are confident enough to walk on your own not to "make it work" because you "need" some chick or she "has" to appreciate it.

If not? You leave. Simple. (If they can't do that than I can't help the "men" on here.)

You ain't doing jack but keyboard cowboying. So you keep doing "you" KJ. LMAO

 

[playa99]

Sh!t i don't usually post on here anymore just lurk and read interesting posts but this has really got my back up.....

Does being in an LTR with the right woman after spinning plates to find the person you think best suited to you at the time make you a *****.... hell the fvck no!!!!

At the end of the day it's about you..

If you choose to lie down and have no power in a relationship.. you choose that.

Yeah she has options, but are any of them you?? No!

Do you have options yet in a different way to her?? Yeah you do, you've just got to be the instigator as opposed to the approached!

If you're deep down insecure and lack self esteem then you are going to struggle in a relationship.. you gotta have your sh!t together, I am a strong man who has a lot to offer to a woman, so in turn I expect a strong woman who has her sh!t together!

If she cheats.. I walk away

If she p!sses me off a lot.. I walk away

If she gets boring... I walk away

If she treats me as lower than her... I walk away

I would expect the same from her also..

If your broke, you choose to be broke, there's always something you can do!

My GF apologizes if we don't have sex every night, i'm indifferent to it which makes her want to give it all the time! I have a good relationship which is right for me at the present time!

If it ends I know i'll keep on my road to success, being happy and being me, what else could I want!?

Some of these dudes need to get a serious grip of themselves!

 

[zekko]

Playa99 has the right attitude.

@zekko I concur brotha but spinning plates isn't cheating.

It depends on how you define plate spinning. I'm not one of these guys who believe that a "plate" can be a hobby, or a girl you're just talking to. To my mind, a plate is a woman you are going out with, and there is at least the possibility of sexual activity between the two of you.

But would talking to other girls on the side and NOT doing anything be a sign of disrespect from the man? I am 50/50 on this.

I don't see anything wrong at all with talking to other girls. You have to stay social. I talk to other girls all the time. Unless I'm actually taking them out then there's no disrespect. I always keep open the possibility of my LTR ending (even after 10 years), so I keep a mental list of potential options. But I see nothing wrong with talking. I think even some mild flirting is okay, as long as it isn't too over the top.

 

[dutchmaster]

Fvck facebook and her male attention on it.. In no way does that give her power. Don't forget how easy u can draw in Hbs just by having a hot gf. And how baly u can tarnish her rep for cheating on u. Tell everyone she knows that she's a deceiving slvt. A woman's image is everything to her

If she's willing to leave me for some shmuck on Facebook she's hardly a quality woman worthy of a LTR and I'd happily drop her ass. I know my value and if she doesn't want the pleasure of having me in her life then I'll find girls who actually appreciate me for who I am.

In a woman's dreams she has the power

 

[thatfeel]

I'd just like to interject and ask a question, if a man is committed and denies sexual opportunities from other women, why does this make him a faggot? Wouldn't that mean he is disloyal? If you're committed and you're taking up external sexual opportunities then you're not committed. The original claim is a fallacious appeal to consequences of a belief.

 

[PlayHer Man]

Soulmates? LMFAO. Again it's about honesty and integrity for yourself and knowing you are confident enough to walk on your own not to "make it work" because you "need" some chick or she "has" to appreciate it.

If not? You leave. Simple. (If they can't do that than I can't help the "men" on here.)

You ain't doing jack but keyboard cowboying. So you keep doing "you" KJ. LMAO

So this is your argument AGAINST spinning plates? :crackup:

You believe a man should be enslaved in the name of "integity". This is the most beta thing I've heard for 2014.

I repeat --> there is NO justifying beta fag behavior. End of story.

This must be why you're a 44 year old Virgin --> http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=211164

YOU are the KJ my friend. :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

 

[usernamedox11]

So this is your argument AGAINST spinning plates? :crackup:

You believe a man should be enslaved in the name of "integity". This is the most beta thing I've heard for 2014.

I repeat --> there is NO justifying beta fag behavior. End of story.

This must be why you're a 44 year old Virgin --> http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=211164

YOU are the KJ my friend. :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

Your username

sounds like --> the title of a rap song.