namismybabe
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lol.. too many bitter men on this forum lol..
And i think it's way more complex than that. For purposes of discussion, it's convenient to find one thing and say "this is it". But, it's far deeper than that.49au said:All women really care about is other women. Their competition, and their metrics for success, are all based on the women in their social circles.
Are you combining money and social status together? I don't classify them the same.49au said:If you are a plumber and all her friends are married to doctors, you better have some super tight game.
It's more than sex. It's more than **** sizes... It's more than money. It's more than jobs.... It's more than how good he makes her feel. It's more than how pathetic they are somethings...49au said:What do you think women sit around and talk about when they compare men? Just sex?
The problem with this.... Is women's primitive brain know nothing of what you're talking about here. This is her social side.49au said:Women want RESOURCES. Money is a resource, just like a large circle of friends, and useful connections in the professional world. She knows that a man who can shell out cash, pull strings, and call in favors, has a much better chance of taking care of both her and her children long term.
Do you have a link to the article? I'd like to read it.bukowski_merit said:I wrote an article on here years ago about how sex can be just as powerful of a social status object as money can.
Sure...49au said:Do you have a link to the article? I'd like to read it.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.