How does it feel knowing most of you will end up with a slut?

[Mike32ct]

what women say their kill count is and what it actually is, usually varies significantly. working with women you get to pick up on their pasts, just little things but I get to hear stuff their husband or partner will never be privvy to

^This. I work in an office that is 70% women, so I know EXACTLY what you are talking about.

 

[zinc4]

OP....Sam The Hobbit...you reek of insecurity and hypocrisy...3 partners does not make a woman a slut...even 7...geez man...with that attitude, i feel sorry for whoever you do settle down with...quit being so uptight and get off your high horse man...what a horrible thread....and since when did it become a fact a woman only bonds to her first sexual partner...lol...from ancient times huh? ok it's definitely a fact now because some poster here said so...some of you people kill me on here..

 

[zinc4]

honestly, i don't want a virgin and don't see why anyone would want one...they have zero experience..i would feel like i was corrupting her or something...actually a major turn off IMO

 

[youngmack]

There this girl I have class with she's 18 and has about 11 partners. No one in the school knows. Everyone thinks she's a smart innocent goody two shoes. I happened to find out through her best friend since forever who is also fwb with me.

See sh1t like this gives me another reason why not to trust these hoes and not get married.

 

[5string]

Not down on anyone here but don't get so hung up on the numbers. All that counts in the end, is that your girl is faithful and respectful to YOU.

 

[youngmack]

What happen to the old saying " you can't turn a ho into a housewife" ?

 

[SamTheHobit]

Not down on anyone here but don't get so hung up on the numbers. All that counts in the end, is that your girl is faithful and respectful to YOU.

Frankly a girl that's fvcked other men and then wants to settle down with me, is pretty disrespectful to begin with.

 

[Mike32ct]

I'm more concerned about these two things than her exact count per se:

1. Is she likely to cheat?

2. Is she "done" with sex, so would I be the one she's celibate with?

Unfortunately, both of these are sort of related to her count.

Slightly off topic, I know three men that are still married...

Two have conservative C h r I s t I a n wives. Probably were virgins but not sure.

The other guy married the town bike to the fifth power. I mean you could catch an STD just breathing the same air as her lol. The only reason they are still together is he is bi (ie closet gay) and he brings home other men for both of them lol.

 

[incognito42]

I know we're all young so this may only apply later on, but how does it feel knowing you'll end up marring a girl that's had 3-7 average sexual partners before you?

Even if you don't get married you will most likely one day want to settle down with a girl in a long term relationship.

My take on this is that I want a girl that still a virgin, I've just never felt the emotional attraction of promiscuous girls.

I don't think it's unreasonable to want a wife that has the same values as I do.

Ask yourself, Do you think it's unreasonable if your future wife wants the same? That you be a virgin?

You're only 18, the type of girls you feel emotionally attracted to will be entirely different in 10 years, and prolly different 10 years after that too.

If that's what you REALLY want, get married right now. The vast majority of chicks have banged several guys by the time they're 20 years old.

 

[C-quenced]

What happen to the old saying " you can't turn a ho into a housewife" ?

It still applies. Always has and always will.

What I find ironic is the mob of people preaching the failed grrrrl power ideology, claiming that the OP is "insecure", "hypocritical", and "judgmental" while at the same time JUDGING HIM harshly for even having standards in the first place lol. Talk about hypocrisy.

As far as insecurities go this is the number one reason why women hide these kinds of things or they lie about it. Every different sex partner a woman has lowers her value and very deep within her hollow self she know this.

Mike32,

A buddy and I tore right through a slew of church girls. I wouldn't bet on them being virgins!

But they sure put up a good front though. All of those church guys thought these women were pure as snow. One of them (Jen) gave both my buddy and I bl0wjobs only a week apart from eachother. When it was found out that she had sucked off my friend, she told everyone that he blackmailed her into doing it.


I made a few posts about these christian chics sometime back. Another one of them went (Natalie) on to have a threesome behind her husbands back and got pregnant by one of the men. Told her husband she was "raped, they decided to keep the baby. Fast forward two months, they are doing the photographs of him holding her belly......and worst of all, one of him on his knees kissing her pregnant belly and all that crap. Posted on facebook for the world to see.

And everyone telling them how great of a guy he is of course. Ah, whatever benefits the feminine imperative.


Back before she was with this guy, I had been fvking this girl off and on for about a year. Thank god for condoms.

I'm all ears for stories like these I even have several of my own.

 

[moon goddess]

5 sexual partners is enough to see a drastic shift in a woman's ability to long term pair bond. 5 partners will see an increase in a woman initiating divorce by 70% compared to her non slut sisters and it only rises from there.

So yeah for all intents and purposes she's a slut in it's truest form. As in generally worthless as a viable long term prospect.

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Not saying a DJ couldn't nail her down by any means, but all things being equal why bother when you would have better odds if she had a clean sheet.

Women are just not mentally cut out to ride the carousel.

So, if a man has had 5 partners, he's not long term material or hubby material, either? Gtfoh.

 

[betheman]

So, if a man has had 5 partners, he's not long term material or hubby material, either? Gtfoh.

the mans value does not decrease, in fact it could be argued his value increases

 

[C-quenced]

So, if a man has had 5 partners, he's not long term material or hubby material, either? Gtfoh.

Lol, Well what do you know? I purposely left room for this argument to surface and now lo and behold. Assuming you come back it's going to be more fun reading your posts brimming with self doubt and hatred in regards to truth and logic as opposed to just giving you a direct answer.

 

[Mike32ct]

So, if a man has had 5 partners, he's not long term material or hubby material, either? Gtfoh.

You can still marry him and have a monogamous celibate relationship with him . Just kidding.

 

[perseverance]

I know a girl who is 22 and slept with 40 guys in a year. Lol@who she marries.

Oh mighty mints! Her vagina must be riddled with sexually transmitted infections.

 

[Fatal Jay]

Man almost every girl in America is a slut, they start as young as 14

I banged this chick yesterday, I asked her when was the last time she banged,she told me 2 or 3 months back, I knew she was lying

2 months mean 2 weeks, she text me a few hours after that saying she feel bad for lying, I said lying for what

She told me she bang the guy 2 weeks instead of 2 months, I knew the whole time

Whenever say they haven't had sex in so and so months, reduce that number by half that


If a women is going to be my wife she will have to be flawless and perfect, I'm talking virgin

Cause the women these days are scoundrels bro

Also if she says she only slept with 4 guys,that mean she really slept with 8.

 

[C-quenced]

Man almost every girl in America is a slut, they start as young as 14

I banged this chick yesterday, I asked her when was the last time she banged,she told me 2 or 3 months back, I knew she was lying

2 months mean 2 weeks, she text me a few hours after that saying she feel bad for lying, I said lying for what

She told me she bang the guy 2 weeks instead of 2 months, I knew the whole time

Whenever say they haven't had sex in so and so months, reduce that number by half that


If a women is going to be my wife she will have to be flawless and perfect, I'm talking virgin

Cause the women these days are scoundrels bro

Also if she says she only slept with 4 guys,that mean she really slept with 8.

You will never be certain. My oneitis from a very long time ago (this was way before I even had sex. I was 19 at the time) has told me she's only slept with two men and the only reason she did so was because she thought she was going to marry them. I never even asked for this information but she volunteered to tell me anyway after putting me through a series of sh1t tests (I knew nothing about sh1t tests at the time and passed SOME of them through sheer luck). I eventually found out that she was one of the bigger town hoes through testimonials of other men. She ends up getting gang banged by high school football and basketball players, sluts it up at parties and I also heard she gives the best bl0wjobs in town. You can even cvm on whichever part of her you want.

Remember that this was my oneitis and she was only 16 at the time. I was hoping none of these rumors were true and was convinced that they weren't. After all they did seem too exaggerated... only problem was they weren't too far from the truth. I confronted her about it and she told me it was her sister (that looks exactly like her) to blame. I wanted to believe that too because the pain from the truth was so unbearable so I did.

One of my ex girlfriends was much sneakier. Her partner count was 1 at the time we met however she didn't wanna disclose the many different d!cks that were in her mouth way before we met. Near the end of the relationship she seemed overburdened with guilt and had the audacity to tell me that she was disappointed with Rachel (her best friend) and the fact that she slept with 8 different guys in under a months time. I reacted with disgust and she reacted similarly. Turns out this was a sh1t test and it was her (my ex) that slept with these 8 different guys.

There was another time at a party (this was before I met my ex and after my heartbreak with my oneitis), two of my friends were talking to this girl (very cute too and about 16 years old as well) and she was spewing venom about her boyfriend of over a year. After a little pushing and finally convincing her she gave them both bl0wjobs and they came in her mouth. She didn't even bother to wash her mouth or even brush her teeth. Guess who shows up later? The boyfriend does. She begins acting really loving around him and you would think this was a truly loving relationship at first. I nearly passed the fvck out from shock the second I saw their lips meet in a full blown make out session. I knew exactly what happened just a couple of hours earlier. From that moment forward I was never the same again but only wished I found a woman that was the exception to the rule. Overtime I took it for what it was... a wish that is unlikely to come true. This is why you hear me around this forum telling guys to drop the mentality of being loyal to women and to be loyal only to themselves, their values, friends and family.

 

[incognito42]

Fatal jay is correct, every girls a slvt or goes through a slvt phase ad it will benefit you to have that mindset. You should look at all girls like they're slvts. Not saying treat em bad, but have that mentality and you'll get laid a lot more than if you're walking around thinking a chick u don't know is a "good girl"

 

[PlayHer Man]

I'm actually surprised so many men here plan on "ending up" with someone at all. Why would you ever want to limit yourself to one woman? Today's culture in the developed world does not promote high quality women who are marriage material. Marriage today is actually a waste of time and just another way to castrate men.

Women are to be used for fun and reproduction. Simple as that. When/if you decide to have kids.. locate a young woman with high quality genes and impregnate her. Who cares if she has been with 1 man or 200? As long as she has high quality genes, she will more than likely create genetically strong (and attractive) offspring. If she wants a commitment after that.. great, but I will continue banging women on the side regardless.

Women are not meant to be committed to. If you are thinking in terms of commitment.. that's your first mistake.

 

[5string]

Oh man, I'm gonna take hits for asking this question.

So you are a guy in his 30's. You've slept with 50 or so women. Does that make you a man slvt? Does it make you unable to commit and be faithful to a woman who really rocks your world? Do you think less of yourself as a man because you pounded so many women? Should others think less of you? Is your character flawed at this point in life?

Just a question to debate and comment on. Please don't kill the messenger.

Be honest.