How does it feel knowing most of you will end up with a slut?

[Who Dares Win]

hahahahahahaha whoa!

calm down guys!

"if she's ****ed more than one man, she's ruined."

what an AFC way to think in the first place (facepalm).

women who have f***ed more are likely to not stay committed. yes! but this is because they have grown some lady game and won't settle. just like us.

So. BOTTOM LINE. if you're an alpha male, you can attract and keep women like this committed to you. you can do this because women are hard wired to seek masculinity/testosterone. its like the head lion. he is the alpha. because he is so, the others in his pack know he will protect all of them, they know not to pick a fight with him, they know that he knows how to bring back resources for the pack, and he usually has a unique personality. because he bears all these qualities, is the alpha, the lionesses are ALL attracted to him.

to conclude, what i hear on here are a bunch of frustrated men. if you aren't alpha enough to keep women within your grasp, then take responsibility. think about it. become the man you were meant to be. if you man up, you will keep beautiful women orbiting you.

You completely missed the concept of "bonding" which is different from the imperative of women of staying with the top dog.

A women which stays with the top dog would not piss him off or nag him or doing that stuff average girls do to average guys but they wont feel any attachment to him nor will avoid cheating on him given the safe circumstances.

While a girl is bonded to a guy, thats the closest situation to "love", she will be great to him not out of a calculation but out of feelings, women lose this ability to bond proportionally to the men they had in their life.

So she still marry the overmighty CEO and doesnt piss him off cause she recognize his value but yet if he is out for business she wouldnt mind to get banged from the hot pool boy.

Instead if she is totally bonded to the dreamer adventures, her mind and her heart will be for him only even if he's out for some days.

Also its different to have a girl which is jealous of you because of losing you personally or losing what you can provide for her.

 

[Atom Smasher]

A woman carries every man she has slept with for the rest of her life. She takes in and absorbs his DNA.

My theory is that this is why a women's sexual history is repugnant to men, yet for women it's a plus (the man retains his pure essence and displays social proof).

That skank you might be banging consists of her, Charlie, Ronaldo, Jimmie, Frank, Victor, Matthew, and possibly even Atom Smasher.

Think about it... the woman is the receptacle for a man's life essence and she absorbs it into her body. Plus I believe there is a spiritual transference. Think what you will about that, but the physical transference is fact.

Yuuuuuuuck........!

 

[Epimanes]

Wow. I guess I was fortunate to get a virgin then. I took my wifes virgininty.. And she's still with me so I guess burroughs is right they never let go of their first one and bond only to that man.

 

[Zarky]

Who are all these dooshes who want to get married?

Here's my subroutine for a happy life:

10 F*CK LOTS OF GIRLS
20 IF YOU != DEAD THEN GOTO 10
30 ELSE DIE

And why the f*ck are married guys trolling a "how to seduce women" forum? If you're married... you lost!

 

[hockeyfreak79]

A woman carries every man she has slept with for the rest of her life. She takes in and absorbs his DNA.

My theory is that this is why a women's sexual history is repugnant to men, yet for women it's a plus (the man retains his pure essence and displays social proof).

That skank you might be banging consists of her, Charlie, Ronaldo, Jimmie, Frank, Victor, Matthew, and possibly even Atom Smasher.

Think about it... the woman is the receptacle for a man's life essence and she absorbs it into her body. Plus I believe there is a spiritual transference. Think what you will about that, but the physical transference is fact.

Yuuuuuuuck........!

DAMN that's sum DEEP shvt Atom! I need to look this up....

 

[hockeyfreak79]

Here's the thing, her secksual history only becomes an issue when YOU bring it up. If you ask for her past, you most likely aren't going to like what you hear. Generally, her response is either going to be a lie, or too high for your standards. So instead, I offer the following situation:

You never bring up anyone's secksual past in a relationship. She shouldn't want to know yours, and I sure as sh!t don't want to know hers. Judge her based on her personality and the way she treats you. If you have properly screened her, she treats you well, and is deserving of your attention, give it to her.

I think it's pretty insecure to care about a woman's sexual history. However, with that said I would be completely turned off by someone who fvcked 40 dudes. Pretty ironic, so I just don't even bring it up.

Bahaha, that's what I did. I never asked my ex wife how many, that shvt just Fss with your mind. 6-7 years together. I was curious after the split,(?) oh wow was I in shock. I probably wouldn't have married her!

 

[mr. kennedy]

If the woman you're currently with doesn't ask you how many women you slept with, do you assume she's slept with a lot of men? The reason for not asking is so that she wouldn't have to answer the same question.

 

[cof33]

If you a man you shouldnt waste time wit this theres nothin you can do about it or try to b the 1st and see how annoyin it is

 

[devilkingx2]

How come when A male loses his virginity to a girl he Dosent feel emotionally "attached" to her whereas A female gets attached??

supposedly some do, just like there are those men who sound like chicks and talk about how they only want to sleep with their one true love and how sex is all about feelings and meaningless without an emotional connection(and it might even be the same guys too)

19 year olds are not pure anymore

not the hawt ones anyways

group sex, DPs, ski-ing sessions are the norm...really common actually. I was in a band in college I know how this goes down. Girls pack in the sausage any time any place. and its cool...just fvck em and keep it moving...we as men need to have slvts on rotation...what we don't want is every girl we MIGHT want to wife up being a cvm junkie which is pretty much how it is now.

that cute girl sitting in the college library sunday afternoon, that isn't dried milk on her face she forgot to wash off

I don't know what school you went to where everyone is a hardcore super ***** unless you went to the top party school, college in the ghetto or this was hyperbole

Your error is in assuming that a man hasn't had a lot of partners if he thinks 8-10 for a woman is slutty. You make the same mistake as others in thinking that men = women.

8-10 isn't slutty unless she's still in high school, anyone who isn't a bitter virgin or a hypocrite in denial could see that.

If you had 5 women of the same age (early 20's) with the following partner counts.....

1. 1 man
2. 5 men
3. 10 men
4. 20 men
5. 50 men

.....which one is a slut and why?

50 is super slutty, 20 is slutty, 10 is borderline, 5 is normal, 1 is prude

At this point my question becomes.....

1. Murdered 1 person
2. Murdered 5 people
3. Murdered 10 people
4. Murdered 20 people
5. Murdered 50 people

.....which one is a murderer and why?

for that to be a fair question it'd have to be which one is a SERIAL KILLER(the answer is that 20 and 50 are for sure, 1 isn't and by definition 5 and 10 could be spree instead of serial), kinda think of it 50 could be mass murderer and possibly so could 20

also, sex =/= murder

my god, you sound like a radical muslim.

Can you spot the subtle feminist shaming here?



Hmm. Too arrogant and lazy to read the many threads on the biological and psychological differences between men and women. Well then, exactly what about you does she care about, and exactly what about her do you care about? "Caring about caring" is circular reasoning.



When I was a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child, I spoke like a child. When I became a man, I put away childish things.

counterquote to your bible quote(never thought I'd ever be making a counter argument to my holy book):

"When I became a man I put away childish things, including the fear of childishness and the desire to be very grown up."

 

[devilkingx2]

Perspective cupcake. It is your friend.

It isn't slutty to you, because you have become numb to it. It is the new normal. However, there was a time, when it was considered slutty by everyone.

Now? Your standards have just lowered compared to the historical norm.

you do realize that if we held white people to the standards of history, they'd still be incredibly racist A-holes who care only about destruction and conquest and we'd be ok with that right?

if we held men to historical standards... how many men are broke and unable to provide in this day and age? how many wouldn't even be able to polish a weapon let alone kill with it?

if we held rich people to historical standards... the occupy wall street protesters probably would've been massacred not ignored

standards are different today.

Sex doesn't have to be murder to make the comparison, and I don't have to be a radical muslim to point out how partner count used to be identified.

The main point is, you insult men who have different values than you, or who have standards. Why does that bother you so much? Did you commit to a h0r?

it has to be near murder for the comparison to make the comparison

can I compare vanilla ice cream to hitler and chocolate to stalin?

your values just seem ridiculously stupid to me(partially because of the massive hipocrisy, partially because your sex life would be awful by your own standards so you wouldn't exactly be very happy if you got what you wanted), so I couldn't resist commenting

I also notice that you ignored the person who asked if you'd be willing to wait for a virgin who wants to wait for marriage

 

[devilkingx2]

ugh, different strokes for different folkas

 

[SamTheHobit]

It isn't slutty to you, because you have become numb to it. It is the new normal. However, there was a time, when it was considered slutty by everyone.

Now? Your standards have just lowered compared to the historical norm.

Very well said.

 

[betheman]

cant get away from the thread title...so true

 

[MrNiceGuy23]

Get real my partners past sexual history and circumstances is my business. Don't you want a person with similar value as you. Who would want the village bicycle as a wife?

I want her to be committed and devoted to me as I am to her.

You're not very intelligent.

Your partner's sexual history and past is NONE of your business. You've never hear the saying "Don't kiss and tell"? It's in the past for a reason, while it has some impact on who the person is today, it's not the be all end all definition of a woman's values.

There's people who have been drug addicts, alcoholics, etc who then found the lord and cleaned up their acts, they are now wonderful people with stable and successful lives. Are you saying they have ****ty values because of their past? Get real.

The number of partners doesn't really matter in my book, it's more a concern of who the guys were to her at the time. If you get married at 27 to a woman who has had 6 sexual partners before you, but all of them were boyfriends whom she dated for an average of 2 years, how is she a slut? That means she started dating at 15. What is wrong with any of that scenario?

If a girl has never had any real serious relationships but has had many sexual partners, then it's a red flag, but otherwise, let their past be their past.

OP wants to know his girl's sexual history but will complain when she tells him that he's the smallest she's ever had lol.

 

[MrNiceGuy23]

Perspective cupcake. It is your friend.

It isn't slutty to you, because you have become numb to it. It is the new normal. However, there was a time, when it was considered slutty by everyone.

Now? Your standards have just lowered compared to the historical norm.

Not true at all. It isn't slutty because society has changed. There was a time when girls were married off to men without any say at the age of 13 or 14 or whenever they first "became a woman." I suppose you think that's how things should be and society messed it up for you?

There was a time when society deemed it acceptable to own other humans as slaved, that is outlandish and horrible by today's standards, but historically speaking, slavery has been the norm for thousands of years. I suppose you agree that slavery is acceptable because in the grand scheme of things, slavery has been prevalent for thousands of years and only in the past 200 years has it been deemed abominable.

Society dictates the norms. In the 50s people got married at 17, so yes if a woman had even 2 sexual partners before her husband she was deemed a slut (because she was only 17 years old so she was shacking up at 14 or 15). Today people on average don't get married until much later than life, so for a 25-30 or older to get married and have had multiple sexual partners, there is nothing taboo about that at all.

I wish all you fools luck on finding a "virgin" to get married to. She'll most likely cheat on you / leave you because you're all she's ever had and frankly you aren't that good in bed, but at least in your own mind you'll think she's pure and just for you.

 

[Zarky]

Enjoying the fear in this thread

 

[Jules_Winfield]

Enjoying the fear in this thread

I've tried not to think about this but a lot of women bring it up, or make it obvious you're being lied to. I was seeing a woman a few weeks ago who was drinking and casually said, "Remember when I told you that I've never slept around like my sister? Well there was one time when I met three guys online and slept with all three of them in one week." I was a little disgusted but more upset about the lying.

 

[betheman]

women almost always lie regarding their past, Id say about 95% + what they tell any guy is a lie, its a quation of how much they lie.
was talking to a female work colleague last week, on her second marriage, singkle parent when she met the new guy. between marriage she was working in a driving job, "it got me a lot of dates, met one guy and rang home to tel her parents she wouldnt be home that night...Ill bet any amount of money the new hub doesnt know half of the sh!t she told me

 

[FortunateSon]

It's quite saddening to read such cynicism from such a young mind.

You don't have to end up with anyone, a slut or otherwise. I don't plan on ending up with any woman. I'm at my happiest when I have a women free life, because a women free life means a stress free life and that's the life I want to lead.

 

[SamTheHobit]

You're not very intelligent.

Your partner's sexual history and past is NONE of your business. You've never hear the saying "Don't kiss and tell"? It's in the past for a reason, while it has some impact on who the person is today, it's not the be all end all definition of a woman's values.

There's people who have been drug addicts, alcoholics, etc who then found the lord and cleaned up their acts, they are now wonderful people with stable and successful lives. Are you saying they have ****ty values because of their past? Get real.

The number of partners doesn't really matter in my book, it's more a concern of who the guys were to her at the time. If you get married at 27 to a woman who has had 6 sexual partners before you, but all of them were boyfriends whom she dated for an average of 2 years, how is she a slut? That means she started dating at 15. What is wrong with any of that scenario?

If a girl has never had any real serious relationships but has had many sexual partners, then it's a red flag, but otherwise, let their past be their past.

OP wants to know his girl's sexual history but will complain when she tells him that he's the smallest she's ever had lol.

You are delusional. And obviously have a thing for other guys banging your gf.

Tell me what's the difference of her blowing 10 guys before she was dating you or while she's dating you because either way you're still gonna have the taste of d1ck in your mouth After you kiss her