How do you make a girl fall in love with you?

[_sideways_]

??

 

[Bingo-Player]

Make her think she has lost you

 

[RobbyDog]

Make her think she has lost you

Or that you could leave at any minute

 

[derby1]

with a lot of push pulling,
making her earn your commitment over a few months.
making her invest by buying stuff from the grocery store etc on her way to yours.
making her dependable on you and your validation a certain amount.
making your smv 3 points higher than hers, by being ripped/lean etc.

careful........one wrong move you'll come across as disingenuous, and these modern chics are neurotic.#

I was reading a female dating blog the other day and the top 5 red flags, were basically describing a High value male. thats how backwards women are. they think the behaviour of a confident accomplished man is a red flag, because he doesnt behave like a simp.

 

[Rakeboy]

let her invest to you, time, effort and money. Even the act of thinking of you is a form of investment.
If you take her virginity, it is 100% that she will love you!

 

[RobbyDog]

I was reading a female dating blog the other day and the top 5 red flags, were basically describing a High value male. thats how backwards women are. they think the behaviour of a confident accomplished man is a red flag, because he doesnt behave like a simp.

Yup. Those types of articles are only useful as entertainment value, nothing more. Much of the behaviour women claim to want from a man is actually apt to get him blown off .

 

[bat soup]

??

Give it to her in the mouth and then call her a slag.

 

[RangerMIke]

I was reading a female dating blog the other day and the top 5 red flags, were basically describing a High value male. thats how backwards women are. they think the behaviour of a confident accomplished man is a red flag, because he doesnt behave like a simp.

This is called 'dating with purpose'... The 'purpose' is finding a man that they can emotionally control and get something out of. And yes, all women do this at some level. There will always be a time when you are dating a woman that she will begin to try and game you, by pulling back. It is going to happen, so just know that.

You CAN NOT control this, it is what they do. All you can do is respond to it. The best way to deal with it is to be non-reactive, and move on to other women. If she is falling for you, she will come back... if she is only interested in using you... she will move onto another target.

You could just start sipping, which is a strategy that can work... she'll go along with you because you are meeting her needs, but she will get bored, and start stirring up chaos, it's what they do. When a women is not REALLY in love with you she will look for that emotional rollercoaster to stimulate herself. Being with a woman that doesn't really love you is a living hell, with you as the man constantly trying to up you game to keep her happy. But the sad truth is that it NEVER works long term... she is looking for that loving feeling that you are not capable of providing. If you find yourself in a relationship that no matter what you do you can never make her completely happy, you are with a chick that doesn't really love you. At that point you have to put on the "I am an @sshole hat!" and dump her.

Once that happens, she won't be able to stop thinking about you... that is if she was actually physically attracted to you... that is when she falls back in love. Women can not 'love' a man she does not respect, she can not respect a man that will do ANYTHING to keep her. If she isn't having to put in some level of effort to keep you, then you are on your way out.

 

[Chuck Taylor]

Call her repeatedly. Be persistent. Make sure she knows how you feel about her.

 

[bat soup]

Call her repeatedly. Be persistent. Make sure she knows how you feel about her.

Doesn't work. I tried it every day for 5 years and all I got was a restraining order.

 

[Robert28]

This is called 'dating with purpose'... The 'purpose' is finding a man that they can emotionally control and get something out of. And yes, all women do this at some level. There will always be a time when you are dating a woman that she will begin to try and game you, by pulling back. It is going to happen, so just know that.

You CAN NOT control this, it is what they do. All you can do is respond to it. The best way to deal with it is to be non-reactive, and move on to other women. If she is falling for you, she will come back... if she is only interested in using you... she will move onto another target.

You could just start sipping, which is a strategy that can work... she'll go along with you because you are meeting her needs, but she will get bored, and start stirring up chaos, it's what they do. When a women is not REALLY in love with you she will look for that emotional rollercoaster to stimulate herself. Being with a woman that doesn't really love you is a living hell, with you as the man constantly trying to up you game to keep her happy. But the sad truth is that it NEVER works long term... she is looking for that loving feeling that you are not capable of providing. If you find yourself in a relationship that no matter what you do you can never make her completely happy, you are with a chick that doesn't really love you. At that point you have to put on the "I am an @sshole hat!" and dump her.

Once that happens, she won't be able to stop thinking about you... that is if she was actually physically attracted to you... that is when she falls back in love. Women can not 'love' a man she does not respect, she can not respect a man that will do ANYTHING to keep her. If she isn't having to put in some level of effort to keep you, then you are on your way out.

And women wonder why so many men are walking away from dating them these days. This is why.

 

[bat soup]

And women wonder why so many men are walking away from dating them these days. This is why.

You can filter out women that are "dating with a purpose" as they call it (i.e. manipulating men to get something they want rather than working on achieving it themselves) by leading the interaction and not letting yourself be led.

The person who has the cash should lead. Parents don't get led by their children and men don't get led by women.

 

[Bandolero]

Just be the price my man

Keep the energy

 

[Striker_93]

There's no tricks or techniques to it, they just fall in love with you, if that makes sense.

 

[Bethatsocialguy]

Become someone worthy of being fallen in love with. Are you better than the next guy? Are you just a regular guy? Why would a girl with 1000s of options choose you? Why are you special?

 

[RobbyDog]

Call her repeatedly. Be persistent. Make sure she knows how you feel about her.

April fools has come and gone

 

[Velasco]

Fvck her a lot -> initiate intimate things with her (cuddling, massaging) in the bedroom -> go for walks and drives to places while holding hands

 

[Velasco]

Totally bluepill.

She initiates. Not you. You’re the prize. You almost want to have a bored attitude to sex.

You’re way too horny to ever be successful with women. You know what your horniness communicates to women? That you’re not getting laid.

Holding hands? That is beta comfort bullsh1t. That isn’t what you want surely. Women do holding hands in public to show that she owns you - it’s beta.

The fact that anyone 'liked' this comment shows how truly clueless you guys really are.

 

[Old Balls]

Never verbally tell her you like her. That's a death sentence.

 

[2Rocky]