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Or that you could leave at any minuteMake her think she has lost you
Yup. Those types of articles are only useful as entertainment value, nothing more. Much of the behaviour women claim to want from a man is actually apt to get him blown off .I was reading a female dating blog the other day and the top 5 red flags, were basically describing a High value male. thats how backwards women are. they think the behaviour of a confident accomplished man is a red flag, because he doesnt behave like a simp.
Give it to her in the mouth and then call her a slag.
This is called 'dating with purpose'... The 'purpose' is finding a man that they can emotionally control and get something out of. And yes, all women do this at some level. There will always be a time when you are dating a woman that she will begin to try and game you, by pulling back. It is going to happen, so just know that.I was reading a female dating blog the other day and the top 5 red flags, were basically describing a High value male. thats how backwards women are. they think the behaviour of a confident accomplished man is a red flag, because he doesnt behave like a simp.
Doesn't work. I tried it every day for 5 years and all I got was a restraining order.Call her repeatedly. Be persistent. Make sure she knows how you feel about her.
And women wonder why so many men are walking away from dating them these days. This is why.This is called 'dating with purpose'... The 'purpose' is finding a man that they can emotionally control and get something out of. And yes, all women do this at some level. There will always be a time when you are dating a woman that she will begin to try and game you, by pulling back. It is going to happen, so just know that.
You CAN NOT control this, it is what they do. All you can do is respond to it. The best way to deal with it is to be non-reactive, and move on to other women. If she is falling for you, she will come back... if she is only interested in using you... she will move onto another target.
You could just start sipping, which is a strategy that can work... she'll go along with you because you are meeting her needs, but she will get bored, and start stirring up chaos, it's what they do. When a women is not REALLY in love with you she will look for that emotional rollercoaster to stimulate herself. Being with a woman that doesn't really love you is a living hell, with you as the man constantly trying to up you game to keep her happy. But the sad truth is that it NEVER works long term... she is looking for that loving feeling that you are not capable of providing. If you find yourself in a relationship that no matter what you do you can never make her completely happy, you are with a chick that doesn't really love you. At that point you have to put on the "I am an @sshole hat!" and dump her.
Once that happens, she won't be able to stop thinking about you... that is if she was actually physically attracted to you... that is when she falls back in love. Women can not 'love' a man she does not respect, she can not respect a man that will do ANYTHING to keep her. If she isn't having to put in some level of effort to keep you, then you are on your way out.
You can filter out women that are "dating with a purpose" as they call it (i.e. manipulating men to get something they want rather than working on achieving it themselves) by leading the interaction and not letting yourself be led.And women wonder why so many men are walking away from dating them these days. This is why.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
April fools has come and goneCall her repeatedly. Be persistent. Make sure she knows how you feel about her.
The fact that anyone 'liked' this comment shows how truly clueless you guys really are.Totally bluepill.
She initiates. Not you. You’re the prize. You almost want to have a bored attitude to sex.
You’re way too horny to ever be successful with women. You know what your horniness communicates to women? That you’re not getting laid.
Holding hands? That is beta comfort bullsh1t. That isn’t what you want surely. Women do holding hands in public to show that she owns you - it’s beta.
If you want to talk, talk to your friends. If you want a girl to like you, listen to her, ask questions, and act like you are on the edge of your seat.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.