Every woman and HR lady thinks that she’s a private investigator now because she has Google. As a real private investigator with a license I find that hilarious. I’ve had women I’ve dated do their “background check” on me and think they found some real stuff. Then I run them and find 100 times more without using Google. But unfortunately The content on this site does get found in Google. That’s why, as has already been said, best to use a different alias here on sosuave than anywhere else. You won’t find me using logicallefty anywhere else. The others out there are not me. Nor will any of you ever get to know my real name. Nothing personal.
Are you saying we aren’t really best friends lefty?
For real though I agree completely. I also don’t use this username anywhere else, along with omitting some details in posts that I think could be searchable. I can’t help but feel like if I included details say, about her family, then that may allude to revealing ‘hey, this guy is actually writing about me!’. I remember reading one thread where a girl went through a guy’s web history (or similar) and found he was writing about her - that was pretty much it for whatever he had with her.
The chances are slim for that online, but I notice that this forum has a few dozen active posters, but in the hundreds or thousands of views. Some threads towards a million. Some girl may be adventurous and try searching relative details. So I prefer not taking the off-chance that it’ll be read. Now or later in the future.