It sounds like oxymoron, doesn’t it? Being unbothered by women’s existence, but then an attractive one crosses your path, you get this incredible urge to pursue and interact with her, and then all of the sudden you become bothered since you let the opportunity slip out of your hands?
You should consider whether you’re having enough social interactions while you’re focusing on getting your finances in order. Many people use their leisure time to hang out with friends, play sports, or stay in touch with family. If finances are a concern, affordable date options are available. If time is your issue, spending a few minutes texting a friend or talking to someone you cross paths with shouldn’t hinder your progress—after all, dating should be enjoyable. In fact, activities like playing video games, watching TV, or browsing social media might be more detrimental to your goals since you will need social skills when you move to the new city.
But anyways, to answer your question, you have to have the mentality of “grass is not always greener on the other side when you water your own”.
