How do women perceive a guys tears?

[Blurred Elevens]

I never cry because **** is difficult or depressing or my feelings are hurt. That stopped when I was like 10.

I cry maybe once a year, and it's only because I see or hear something really beautiful, like the human spirit. It's not out of weakness, but seeing the power of god I suppose.


Playa_supreme pizza
Also, emotions don't make you weak, not living with emotion just makes you a scared ***** that can't live life without being guarded...You are than weak because you are afraid of your emotions...take that **** to the next level Mack Daddy...If your game is off the heart, it should'nt take long to break the broad.
Too $hort

 

[joey37]

Originally posted by Player_Supreme
***************You remind me of StarFag****************

1:

I did post my pics on DJGigalo's post up ya pics thread. Go look kid. Yeah I'm older by 10 years son. Height doesn't mean anything to me since my kid brother is 6'8. And I can toss his ass any day! We both started in martial arts as kids in Tokyo Japan and then to the korean styles and I went on from their. Size is cool but I'm big enough to handle myself in any situation kid.



I do respect you for fighting for our country...that is why I wouldn't tell you how to do your job or question your knowledge of being a soldier...I'm not going to say go dust of your camo's or something lame like that Joey.


2:
We each have our own areas of expertise. Mine happens to be women, you dig.


3:
Now put your nutz in check and stand tall soldja!


4:

My record speaks for itself. What record besides confirmed kills 10 or so years ago do you have? How many women are you currently working with? What qualifies you for "this" game?

Obviously your easily controlled due to your reponses and anger. Yeah another lesson from pops....control an enemy with his anger.

Like I've proved emotions will make you weak....Now the war **** is cool and with the soldiers crying and all that...but were talking about a different kind of war here. This forum is for getting pvssy, not the VC or Middle Eastern types. I am on the phone right now with one of my main and soon to be "only" girl discussing this subject:

" Crying at the drop of a hat is disrespectful, men need to be the rock and foundation...Women cry enough for 10 people...cause a woman can't turn to a man if they feel like the man is going to fall apart...you will not look to a man for comfort if you feel like they are going to fall apart and cry"

This one went on to say that crying over the death of a loved one is ok and a few other rare situations...but she complained about men being too sensitive these days. She also agree's that men have been led down the wrong path.

Words from the horse's mouth kid. Like I said I know my game and I will not try to advise you on your game.

Joey I think you need to quit while your behind.

Now I'm going to wait to see how you respond now. I'm sure you will be predictable.

I'll tell you what "playa". Some of your "ho's" in those pics looked like dudes in drag. They're a bunch of silly *****es who would fall for your bull****. You said you're brother is 6"8 and you can toss his ass? I'll tell you what, I was Pacific Fleet boxing champ back in 1997. 28-0 26 Ko's. Not trying to toot my own horn, but I have a proposition for you.


You think guy's who cry are "***** boys"? I train out in Los Angeles with some ex Heavyweights. I have a license to fight in California. I'm inviting you out here sometime(you can pm me to get the specifics) and I'll challenge your punk ass to a sanctioned boxing match. We'll do this legally, no street fighting, neither one of us need to be going to jail over it. I'll even help you obtain a boxing license. You bring those transvestite ho's ringside and we'll see who makes who cry first.


After you lose, then you can explain to your ho's that a "*****boy" whipped your ass......

 

[joey37]

BTW.....to be fair, this is my photo
http://f1.pg.photos.yahoo.com/ph/jabber_blonsky/my_photos

 

[joey37]

I also want to tell the moderators of this forum, that I do not wish to take away from the topics this board was meant to address.


Therefore, I will no longer engage playasupreme in a public forum. If he wants to continue our discourse, it will be done in private.


My apologies

 

[Mr. Latte]

This is ridiculous. If guys spent half the energy they expend on trying to appear "hard" on something constructive, we'd have no need for this entire forum in the first place. It's one thing to be a strong, confident man. It's one thing to be s crybaby sissy. It's quite another to be uber-macho. It impresses nobody. It's a thin charade.

It's sick that people on this board are saying they're too hard to cry at their father's funeral. After all the sacrifices that the people close to you in your life have made, if you can't put down your fake-ass machismo for a few minutes to honor their memory, they should return to beat your ass from beyond the grave.

It's a sad day when your self-image comes before the well-being of those close to you.

 

[Survivor]

Actually this is a pretty interesting discussion.

The danger in asking the question, "How do women perceive a guys tears?" is that any answer would be an unfair streotype of all women and all the types of relationships that we have with them.

That being said, how an individual woman perceives your tears depends on the woman and the type relationship you have with her. However in my opinion there are only two women that it should be safe to cry in front of: your wife and your mother. And even then you should proceed with caution.

I'm no pimp, but my experience compels me to side with Player_Supreme on this one.

 

[InLawsHateMe]

Well I'm a pimp...

....and I'm telling you..

 

[MR_PERFECT]

There is nothing wrong with crying as long as it's for a good reason. I went into an office at work to say hi to a female friend. She was crying, I thought maybe her boyfriend said something to upset her. She was crying because Prince cancelled his concert that night and she really wanted to see him. Now, imagine if this was a man.

If a man cries for all the wrong reasons and the woman still wants him, she's a woman you would never want.

 

[StockTrader]

This "alpha" talk about controlling your emotions is a myth, plain and simple. There is no human on this earth that doesn't have real emotions. Even an "alpha" dictator (alpha on the outside) who was a ruthless leader for many decades (Saddam Hussein) turned into a quivering, scared rat found hiding in a hole. There is no such thing as truely alpha.

You can cry when someone close to you dies, that doesn't make you any less of a man. Crying at the end of Titanic? Not recommended. If you've built up a strong enough level of attraction in a girl, I don't think she'll dump you if you cry only rarely (funeral, etc).

 

[joey37]

I agree guys. My point was that I've cried at very serious things that have happened in my life. I do NOT think guys should by blubbering wuss bags. My problem with playa was that he thinks if a guys shows emotion it makes him weak. THAT I DISAGREE WITH. I shouldn't have let my emotions get tweaked by his comments.


It's understood that there are appropriate times to cry. I've just never equated showing emotion with weakness.