The older I Get the more I agree with the OP to a great extent. If you think about it, for all the *****ing that men do on this site about how women have it made, if you actually took a step back and thought about this for 1 minute, I wouldn't trade places with the prettiest of women in 2014.
Here are 2 very practical things you need to consider
1. Inflation. Not ***** inflation. Actual inflation. Inflation has rigged the game for women. Think about it. I live in LA. You live in LA you go to school, you wren't super duper smart so you get a student loan, it takes you 4 years to graduate and now you have 60k in student debt. Whereas 25 years ago that would have been 20k in student debt
On top of that, everyone you know has a bachelors degree so that's not good enough. You have to go to graduate school and pack on more debt.
AT that point, rather a woman goes to graduate school ro doesn't she's ****ed either way lol She's ****ed if she goes to school until she's 25-26 because she will be forced to work hours that are not conducive to dating and raising a family, but she needs the money.
IF she doesn't go to graduate school, now she has a regular 25k job with 60k in debt living in LA. Back to staying at home with mom and paying off bills plus no dude in his right mind is going to marry a chick with 50k in student loans. My friend in the other thread I'm getting so much heat on that's the sole reason she's not married; her BF won't propose to her until her student loans are paid off. She owes 25k.
So what's the alternative? Be stupid and dumb which is what you see a lot of today.
IN that sense the game is really rigged for women. The good ones, the ones that didn't' go to college just to drink and have sex, put their nose in books and then when they get out of college, they aren't 20 anymore. It's kinda ****ed up.
Saving up for a house, that that costs money and takes time. "Then by the time the dude who you've been with for 4 years is now 28 instead of 24 and now he has 21-22 year olds looking at him now you have to compete with that..
2. Women have the exact same problem AFC men have. They've been lead to believe lies.
While my mom was telling me to hold doors open, eat with my elbows off the table and to be a gentleman and women would swoon for me lol, women were telling their daughters that they could have it all. Don't make the same mistakes that we made, go live! Go to college. Don't settle for a man just because he has a steady job go look for love!
Now granted there are some women who are just.. ****s... for lack of the better word, but alot of women are not operating under the guise of being manipulative *****es or anything they are...
really, you get posts on this forum alot talking about "female AFCs" all the time and guys will say oh she's AFC over me.. really a female AFC is the above.. a woman who bought that you can have it all line, hook line and sinker. That's how male AFCs are made that's how women AFCs are made.
Then both of the women get to their 30's and then factors that wren't calculated for start to come into effect. No matter how much I stay in shape, no matter how educated I am, 22 year old women with perky tit's keep popping up. I want to put off kids until I'm 35 but my man wants kids and is going to leave me so he can find a woman with kids. Doesn't he understand that I can have it all? why doesn't he want me to have it all?
Life is like a roller coaster ride for men and women, we are all on the same roller coaster... better yet, it's a roller coaster that's in the dark, you don't know what turn is going to come, you don't know what is about to happen but men here, the red pill in general act like women have been on the roller coaster 10 times already and that they are using the roller coaster to manipulate us. At the end of the day we are all just as confused. Us just later than them.
Then the woman gets bitter about the age of 30.. no different than when men start to get bitter around the age of 22-24 when they realize just how stacked the deck is against them.
My wife has a female friend who is one of these woman. she's very pretty, she has a BF, she works very hard and is pretty smart. You talk to her she has her entire life mapped out. she's 27. she's saving to buy her first house now while trying to secure the raise at work working 45-50 hour work weeks, she will buy a house at the end of the year with her BF, then when she's 31-32 get married and have a baby when she's 35-36. And you get get mad at her and laugh at her when she hits the wall and none of that happens like she wants it to happen but how is that any different than women laughing at you when you were going months/ years without a date? It's not. Both of you are just realizing just how lied to you were by others.
This chicks doesn't understand her curves aren't going to be there like they are now in 7 years. She doesn't understand her BF is going to be wanted beyond belief in 7 years he's a good looking dude with his head on his shoulders . And she's not a prick she's not stupid she's not anything. she just believes she can have it all.
On the other hand, there are plenty of women who know what they do to men and abuse the **** out of their powers and those I feel no remorse for. One of the benefits I have being married to my wife is having all of her female friends over here all the time, and after half a decade of being with her and around them, I can tell you that most women really are just as confused as we are. The more you listen to them the more sympathy you have for them. We have different problems but we both have problems. most women in their 20's believe that they can have it all all the time just like most men in their 20's seem to believe that they will never ever get laid. Its subjective short term thinking by both parties.
I mean in the grand scheme of things, it may suck getting used and going sexless in your early 20's,b ut that's a problem that pales in coma prison to having to 1. get educated 2. find a husband 3. pay off your debts 4. have a child all before 30. And if you don't do one of the 4, you've hit "the wall" or you're stupid or you have too much baggage.
On top of all that. If the above wasn't enough. There's NO room for error for women. Let's say you find a woman and she gets the fact that she needs to do her thing before she's 30 and she gets educated and has a job and has a kid at the right time.. what if she married the wrong guy? By wrong guy I don't mean she feel out of love I mean, he beats the **** out of her or something like that. OR he's a raging alcoholic. I mean, you can say tough ****, and that's pretty much what I would say but at the same time, I mean **** I got a second chance. I'm a drug addict lol. I cleaned my ass up and 8 years 11 months later no one is the wiser. ****, I not only got a second chance I started dating HOTTER women lol. I became more social, I got in the gym, I rededicated myself to my work, my life took off in the women department. Women don't' get that. I could lose everything I have tomorrow and while it would suck, I would be comforted by the fact that 5 even 10 years from now I'd be right back here if I work hard. If you made me Job in the bible and took my kid away from me and took my wife away from me and my money I have the ability to get it all back again.. I mean that in theory of course I could not replace my wife or my son but you get what I 'm saying.. women can't do that. You're done lol. You **** up and marry a guy that became an alcoholic at 24 and you are now 29 with a child and an EX game over thanks for playing get your door praise lol. Now you're just that annoying ***** on POF that is always showing her kid off lol. Then you got dudes, walking around here pissed off because a HB8 won't return his phone call. That's missing the forest between the trees. If you do your thing right you have the rest of your life to swing your **** everywhere lol. Most women have at most, a solid 15 year window for that and that's being generous.