this girl that I have been talkin to for like a while now says that she likes me a lil now. I asked her y a lil and she said before she used to like me alot and now a lil cause I act different, so i wanna know how to raise that interest level bak to the max any advice
how do I raise the interest level bak
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No.
She is playing games with you. She can either
A) Take you for who you are, or
B) go away
That's it.
She is playing games with you. She can either
A) Take you for who you are, or
B) go away
That's it.
You need to learn that way a girl says about you means nothing... It's how she acts that counts. So keep doing what you were doing, see if it seems to be working. If it isn't, change it. Very easy.
Did you not listen to the posts above? Her saying "wow, I used to be interested in you but I'm not anymore" probably actually means "wow, please pay attention to me." So don't call her or talk to her or anything for about a week, then ask her out on a date.
Then go read the DJ bible.
Then go read the DJ bible.
prolly?
you siad prolly, wat if you wrong man, so you sayin I shouldn't call her cause you think she PROLLY want attetion. so i ain't pose to say nothing to her at all, being that I sit rite behind her in class everyday, I'm sure theres something else I should do
you siad prolly, wat if you wrong man, so you sayin I shouldn't call her cause you think she PROLLY want attetion. so i ain't pose to say nothing to her at all, being that I sit rite behind her in class everyday, I'm sure theres something else I should do
but damn
i got class wit the girl, i sit rite behind her, I'm just pose to say nothing, I shouldn't say nothin to get her thinking at all? wow but wat if another guy try and holla wat I'm pose to do just look cause you said say nothing, give me more advice man
i got class wit the girl, i sit rite behind her, I'm just pose to say nothing, I shouldn't say nothin to get her thinking at all? wow but wat if another guy try and holla wat I'm pose to do just look cause you said say nothing, give me more advice man
Don't initiate conversation with her in class. Be somewhat distant. If other guys hit on her, ignore it. Who cares? If her interest is down, you need to be more of a challenge to bring it back up. If she just wants more attention, not giving it to her will make her respect you more. Either way you win.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Ignore her a little. Give her attention on and off. Let her see you with other girls, that should make her jealous. From there just do what you know how to do playboy.
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Da Game wrote:
Da Game wrote:
I agree with most of what he says. Pay less attention, not NONE. If she initiates conversation, talk back, keep it short. If other guys' hit on her and you're acting like you dont care, she'll either be surprised and her interest lvl will get high, or if she really doesnt like you, then nothing will change. I don't agree with the "not giving [attention] to her will make her respect you more." part. She won't necessarily respect you more because you ignore her (think about it, would you give more respect to someone because they don't talk to you as much?) but she'll be intrigued, and that's your one ticket in.
James Cox IV pn outc
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To raise her intrest level you need to be unpredictable. One day be normal then to tommorw act like you dont want to be around her are to talk to her. Then be normal again. Call her one day have give her the attention she needs stimulate her emotions. Say you have to go and get off the phone before she does leave her wanting more. Act like you cant wait to talk to her again.
Then dont call her in 5 days and if she asks whytell her you were busy. Return her calls some of the time like a 1 to 5 ratio. Always leave her wanting more. She will be begging for your attention and dont forget to be ****y and Funny with this. Always end conversation before her when shes enjoying the most leave her wanting more.
She will be begging for your
attention and to get it she will have to follow your guidelines to get it. Key to this is to stay unpredictable. Stimulate all her emotions piss her off one day and the next make her feel like she is unique and a strong connection to you. But stimulate all those emotins and keep it intresting and she will do anything for your attention. If you don't know how to stimulate those emotions hit me back.
P.S all you DJ's and wannabes this macking if you want to be a DJ forget my knowledge if you want to be a mack follow me.
Then dont call her in 5 days and if she asks whytell her you were busy. Return her calls some of the time like a 1 to 5 ratio. Always leave her wanting more. She will be begging for your attention and dont forget to be ****y and Funny with this. Always end conversation before her when shes enjoying the most leave her wanting more.
She will be begging for your
attention and to get it she will have to follow your guidelines to get it. Key to this is to stay unpredictable. Stimulate all her emotions piss her off one day and the next make her feel like she is unique and a strong connection to you. But stimulate all those emotins and keep it intresting and she will do anything for your attention. If you don't know how to stimulate those emotions hit me back.
P.S all you DJ's and wannabes this macking if you want to be a DJ forget my knowledge if you want to be a mack follow me.
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Are you 13 years old?
James Cox IV pn outc
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I just posted how to on on the forum on the first area. and im 14
I just posted how to on on the forum on the first area. and im 14
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You are way too worried about his one girl, just calm down and don't worry so much, do thinks you want to do and let her come to you, if she's really interested and you already have rapport then she'll come around, trust me. Talk to other girls and let her see you making them laugh. Just calm down and quit worrying so much about what she thinks.
Listen man, if you grasp this, you will be ahead of 75% of this board. It's quite simple. She either likes you, or she doesn't. If and when she doesn't, there is nothing you can do to make her feel attracted to you. You can do something like hit the lottery, or make her feel jealous and hit her ego to MAYBE make her feel pressured into hooking up with you. But that's NOT attraction and that's NOT interest level.
Being unpredictable won't do a damn thing if she doesn't like you. Imagine a fat ugly girl who liked you, and now doesn't. You weren't and aren't feeling her...so by being a challenge she is doing you a favor. If you can understand this you will be in a huge position of power because you won't waste time trying to 'change' chicks with tactics. Go in there, be real, be a man...free yourself of the old way you thought you need to be to get chicks (AFC) and free yourself from the new way you thought you needed to be to get chicks (DJ). Go in there and say what you want, when you want. Get her into a position where she has to SHOW you if she's into you or not. Based on that, you know whether it's time to move on or not. Don't take it personally.
-Blitz
Being unpredictable won't do a damn thing if she doesn't like you. Imagine a fat ugly girl who liked you, and now doesn't. You weren't and aren't feeling her...so by being a challenge she is doing you a favor. If you can understand this you will be in a huge position of power because you won't waste time trying to 'change' chicks with tactics. Go in there, be real, be a man...free yourself of the old way you thought you need to be to get chicks (AFC) and free yourself from the new way you thought you needed to be to get chicks (DJ). Go in there and say what you want, when you want. Get her into a position where she has to SHOW you if she's into you or not. Based on that, you know whether it's time to move on or not. Don't take it personally.
-Blitz
