Hey guys,
I am not quite sure how to act with this girl I have been dating. She has had a super high interest level since the start, to the point where at times I considered a few things red flags but others considered them sweet (like buying me a toothbrush the first night I stayed over)
Anyway we have been seeing each other for about 5 weeks, and recently she said she would be busy for a week or so, so I thought great a chance to see some friends and hang out. About halfway through the week she begged me to meet her and her uncle before they were having dinner, I already had plans so declined. The next night she invited me to a party but for the same reason I declined. Although I missed her I wanted to honour my plans.
She called me a couple days later and we argued over me not coming to the party, she was upset I was so nonchalant and didn’t want to see her. I actually did, but sincerely had made plans I couldn’t make it even though I said I would try.
I took her out to dinner, we chilled and everything was good, until last night. She was going to a party with a friend and invited me along. I went with a friend and ended up having a great time, so much so that when she was leaving I said I wanted to stay, especially because I knew her friend from inter-state was staying at her place.
She is p.issed with me for not coming with her. I have high interest in her but why is she busting my balls all the time? I think now she will distance herself from me because she thinks I don’t like her as much, but in all honesty I do and have told her that. Is she just insecure or is this some kind of weird test? I just wish she would cut me some slack. It’s too early in the relationship to be arguing?
I am not quite sure how to act with this girl I have been dating. She has had a super high interest level since the start, to the point where at times I considered a few things red flags but others considered them sweet (like buying me a toothbrush the first night I stayed over)
Anyway we have been seeing each other for about 5 weeks, and recently she said she would be busy for a week or so, so I thought great a chance to see some friends and hang out. About halfway through the week she begged me to meet her and her uncle before they were having dinner, I already had plans so declined. The next night she invited me to a party but for the same reason I declined. Although I missed her I wanted to honour my plans.
She called me a couple days later and we argued over me not coming to the party, she was upset I was so nonchalant and didn’t want to see her. I actually did, but sincerely had made plans I couldn’t make it even though I said I would try.
I took her out to dinner, we chilled and everything was good, until last night. She was going to a party with a friend and invited me along. I went with a friend and ended up having a great time, so much so that when she was leaving I said I wanted to stay, especially because I knew her friend from inter-state was staying at her place.
She is p.issed with me for not coming with her. I have high interest in her but why is she busting my balls all the time? I think now she will distance herself from me because she thinks I don’t like her as much, but in all honesty I do and have told her that. Is she just insecure or is this some kind of weird test? I just wish she would cut me some slack. It’s too early in the relationship to be arguing?