How do beta guys land good looking women

[zekko]

I'm thinking how could he get a girl like her, I did give her the look she held my eye contact.

I don't know how many times I've read a post here where some guy talks about a girl who is with a "beta" and she gives him eye contact. Women will make eye contact with you for the validation, it doesn't mean she wants to dump her guy on the spot and be banged by the real "alpha" that looked at her.

You don't know the guy at all, you don't know what he's like, but you naturally assume that he is a beta.
Another thing is that in nature, high level betas do well with women.
Unlike most of the super alphas in here, there are guys in real life who are willing to offer a certain level of commitment to a girl, and the fact is most of the females in the world are with these guys.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

You seem to be talking about something totally different.

Who cares if women prefer alphas? Most of them will never get one. And alphas always have either looks, MONEY or status.

Always.

Losers are not alphas.

What is your point? She is still getting banged out in her best years and you are disputing the fact. Step your game up son.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

CTFU! I just fvcking choked on my food.

Probably saw your reflection and you unconsciously tried to put yourself out of your misery. Wait wut?

 

[051AV]

I should rephrase it to feminine men, I've noticed the younger generation of guys have become more feminine, the way they act, the way they present themselves. I'm a quiet confident guy, I throw women off because I look younger than I'am. I dress like a man I guess you can call me old school, I'm always wearing jeans and a snap button western style shirt. As I said I'm broad shouldered only stand 5'9" so I'm not overly tall, weigh 195 pounds I'm not fat, lets put it this way I'm not metro sexual, you won't catch me in skinny jeans.

I'm enjoying single life todays women have too many issues to even bother getting involved with them, I was with a BPD for a couple years its made me a little more aware women with issues, my bullsh*t meter is set on high. I have no problems talking to women I get them laughing, I do make women nervous they start stuttering or giggling, I can be shy, I'm mostly quiet thou. I'm a 41 year old guy that gets mistaken for a early 30 year old guy, I think I've missed the boat, I focused my sights on working and learning the trades instead of finding a woman. The woman in my generation class are either married or they have so much baggage its not worth getting involved with. The younger generation they have their issues they don't act like the woman I grew up with not sure what it is I can't describe it.

Anyhow these feminine guys can have todays women, I find todays women really insecure I don't know if its my imagination or not but its what I've observed, in all honesty its a turn off, I really don't think todays women can handle a manly man. I do enjoy stealing a look from these women their boyfriends get all jealous, they act all tough, ya don't mess with me I will give you a hurting.

 

[papa]

Lets set this straight I'm not a beta guy, I'm the lone wolf guy. Out at a local bar for lunch this weekend this couple is sitting behind me, she was fairly cute they were in their late 20s early 30s. He wasn't an alpha guy at all, he wouldn't stop talking she could barely get a word in edge wise. I'm thinking how could he get a girl like her, I did give her the look she held my eye contact.

With myself I seem to intimidate women it doesn't matter the age women seem to get really quiet around me. What is it with todays women do they actually prefer beta guys? I see decent looking women with really feminine men, I'm far from being a feminine man I'm broad shouldered.

Maybe they could be just friends. I remember my old days when I was madly in love with this girl (who was also one my closest friends) [ breaking friendship with her started me on my red pill journey ] I used to hang out with her (one-one) all the time. Even going on concerts, breakfasts etc.

I will tell you my story on how I (beta) ended up being friends with my friend(an alpha woman). I was friends with her boyfriend (an alpha), and he never used to give a damn about her. And after every fight she would be sad, and only I was available and that's how we got close and after leaving the University she got a job in a different city where she was bored, and somehow I ended up in the same city as her. That's how we became close.

My point is it shouldn't be your concern whether the chick you like is with an alpha, beta or an omega. If you like her, approach them. The worse that can happen is they will ignore you.

My "friend" evenutally got back with her ex and threw me like a used tampon!

 

[MatureDJ]

It's personality and social circle after getting foot in door. But if you have the looks and money, you can always remain relatively quiet and let them choose you. Some will drool for you till you open your mouth.

I get fat chicks that do this, but I don't want them.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I get fat chicks that do this, but I don't want them.

If your not getting alot of pvssy at the level you want at least let some of the more attractive fat ones give you head.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

I should rephrase it to feminine men, I've noticed the younger generation of guys have become more feminine, the way they act, the way they present themselves. I'm a quiet confident guy, I throw women off because I look younger than I'am. I dress like a man I guess you can call me old school, I'm always wearing jeans and a snap button western style shirt. As I said I'm broad shouldered only stand 5'9" so I'm not overly tall, weigh 195 pounds I'm not fat, lets put it this way I'm not metro sexual, you won't catch me in skinny jeans.

I'm enjoying single life todays women have too many issues to even bother getting involved with them, I was with a BPD for a couple years its made me a little more aware women with issues, my bullsh*t meter is set on high. I have no problems talking to women I get them laughing, I do make women nervous they start stuttering or giggling, I can be shy, I'm mostly quiet thou. I'm a 41 year old guy that gets mistaken for a early 30 year old guy, I think I've missed the boat, I focused my sights on working and learning the trades instead of finding a woman. The woman in my generation class are either married or they have so much baggage its not worth getting involved with. The younger generation they have their issues they don't act like the woman I grew up with not sure what it is I can't describe it.

Anyhow these feminine guys can have todays women, I find todays women really insecure I don't know if its my imagination or not but its what I've observed, in all honesty its a turn off, I really don't think todays women can handle a manly man. I do enjoy stealing a look from these women their boyfriends get all jealous, they act all tough, ya don't mess with me I will give you a hurting.

Yea like those hipster guys.

Wtf is that sh1t?

 

[Macaframalama]

Probably saw your reflection and you unconsciously tried to put yourself out of your misery. Wait wut?

Child please. Lol

 

[Urbanyst]

What is your point? She is still getting banged out in her best years and you are disputing the fact. Step your game up son.

What facts am I disputing?

You need looks, MONEY or status to consistently get HOT women. Alpha or not.

 

[AJ84]

I don't know how many times I've read a post here where some guy talks about a girl who is with a "beta" and she gives him eye contact. Women will make eye contact with you for the validation, it doesn't mean she wants to dump her guy on the spot and be banged by the real "alpha" that looked at her.

You don't know the guy at all, you don't know what he's like, but you naturally assume that he is a beta.
Another thing is that in nature, high level betas do well with women.
Unlike most of the super alphas in here, there are guys in real life who are willing to offer a certain level of commitment to a girl, and the fact is most of the females in the world are with these guys.

I notice that more than occasionally a guy will refer to another guy he sees and doesn't know as beta, because that guy is with a cute girl. Maybe he's just successful with women. I think throwing the beta term around when referencing men with girlfriends is sometimes an accurate observation and most times bitter thumb sucking. Literally no different than when women see a hot girl getting all the attention and assuming she's a slut, when maybe she's just a nice approachable person who also happens to be hot.

 

[El Payaso]

Question for the OP: Is Mark Zuckerberg an alpha or a beta?

 

[zekko]

I notice that more than occasionally a guy will refer to another guy he sees and doesn't know as beta, because that guy is with a cute girl. Maybe he's just successful with women. I think throwing the beta term around when referencing men with girlfriends is sometimes an accurate observation and most times bitter thumb sucking.

I think there's something in males that make us think that we are somehow superior to the next guy, even if there is no evidence to believe that whatsoever. I used to have problems with feeling inferior and insecure, and yet I still found myself thinking I was better than other guys. Like "If that girl was smart, she would be with me instead", even though it was utter nonsense. I had built little value at the time. I think this attitude is just instinctual in us to drive us to compete - to do our mating dance and outdo the other guy so we (and our DNA) get chosen.

Is Mark Zuckerberg an alpha or a beta?

Zuckerberg is a beta. I saw him and his wife out for dinner one evening, and she gave me eye contact. That's when I knew she wished she was with me instead

 

[papa]

Zuckerberg is a beta. I saw him and his wife out for dinner one evening, and she gave me eye contact. That's when I knew she wished she was with me instead

Woah! That means having money does not mean you are an alpha?

 

[Fruitbat]

It depends what they want a man for. Sex? Partnering? Come on, can you not see that girl, the ditsy blonde? You'd bang her so hard but you wouldn't wife her up, would you? This, I assume, is how women view the "alpha". Social status also plays a role. Even when I was fat as hell, plenty of hot girls in my support team seemed to want time and attention, because my level is a higher level in the business.

Plus, the term "alpha" is about as blunt as a rusty spoon.

I'm pretty well paid, got an executive role in a big company. With some friends, my working class roots make me somewhat of an outcast. With others, I'm the "alpha". It's all subjective.

The OP mentioned "talking too much" as a signifier of beta-ness. Why? Are we just equating some stoic mechanic or IT consultant as alpha? Do you think Donald Trump says nothing? One of the mlost powerful men on earth is a beta?

We are getting into the misunderstood nature of what we coin "alpha". A lot seem to view it as some boring fvck who just thinks birds, manual labour and gym ratting. That's the hallmark of cannon fodder.

Also, perosnally I thank the lord that "beta" can score chicks, as a lot of "alphas" are just plain playground bullies who age poorly. Theres only so far being a jackass and working out can take you, and living like a 21 year old into your 40s just isn't good for society on any level.

 

[Fruitbat]

I should rephrase it to feminine men, I've noticed the younger generation of guys have become more feminine, the way they act, the way they present themselves. I'm a quiet confident guy, I throw women off because I look younger than I'am. I dress like a man I guess you can call me old school, I'm always wearing jeans and a snap button western style shirt. As I said I'm broad shouldered only stand 5'9" so I'm not overly tall, weigh 195 pounds I'm not fat, lets put it this way I'm not metro sexual, you won't catch me in skinny jeans.

I'm enjoying single life todays women have too many issues to even bother getting involved with them, I was with a BPD for a couple years its made me a little more aware women with issues, my bullsh*t meter is set on high. I have no problems talking to women I get them laughing, I do make women nervous they start stuttering or giggling, I can be shy, I'm mostly quiet thou. I'm a 41 year old guy that gets mistaken for a early 30 year old guy, I think I've missed the boat, I focused my sights on working and learning the trades instead of finding a woman. The woman in my generation class are either married or they have so much baggage its not worth getting involved with. The younger generation they have their issues they don't act like the woman I grew up with not sure what it is I can't describe it.

Anyhow these feminine guys can have todays women, I find todays women really insecure I don't know if its my imagination or not but its what I've observed, in all honesty its a turn off, I really don't think todays women can handle a manly man. I do enjoy stealing a look from these women their boyfriends get all jealous, they act all tough, ya don't mess with me I will give you a hurting.

Go abroad to find a women. Veto western women. There are literally millions of girls, pretty, young, who dig solid guys.

 

[Vantagepoint34]

I think there's something in males that make us think that we are somehow superior to the next guy, even if there is no evidence to believe that whatsoever. I used to have problems with feeling inferior and insecure, and yet I still found myself thinking I was better than other guys. Like "If that girl was smart, she would be with me instead", even though it was utter nonsense. I had built little value at the time. I think this attitude is just instinctual in us to drive us to compete - to do our mating dance and outdo the other guy so we (and our DNA) get chosen.


Zuckerberg is a beta. I saw him and his wife out for dinner one evening, and she gave me eye contact. That's when I knew she wished she was with me instead

That's cool you live close to celebrities. Where I live I mostly see models or at least young 18 year old start up models. Talking about concepts like competing isn't that a concept on women. Kitty cats compete where you let the women fight over you not the other way around... I love that mentality though THE WOLF PACK!!

 

[RichardTheFrog]

I don't know how many times I've read a post here where some guy talks about a girl who is with a "beta" and she gives him eye contact. Women will make eye contact with you for the validation, it doesn't mean she wants to dump her guy on the spot and be banged by the real "alpha" that looked at her.

You don't know the guy at all, you don't know what he's like, but you naturally assume that he is a beta.
Another thing is that in nature, high level betas do well with women.
Unlike most of the super alphas in here, there are guys in real life who are willing to offer a certain level of commitment to a girl, and the fact is most of the females in the world are with these guys.

I hate how true this is.

 

[051AV]

The guy never stopped talking for the 45-50 minutes I sat behind them, I was thinking to myself, let the girl fvcking talk, he was blah blah blah, she made a few sounds but nothing much more than that. When the waitress came over to ask them something he finally stopped talking and I finally heard her voice when she was asking some questions. No she wasn't a blond bimbo.

 

[zekko]

That's cool you live close to celebrities

Just to clarify, I don't live near celebrities. I was making a joke about Zuckerberg, I didn't see them out at dinner. I thought I made that clear by the smiley face, but apparently not.