How do beta guys land good looking women

[051AV]

Lets set this straight I'm not a beta guy, I'm the lone wolf guy. Out at a local bar for lunch this weekend this couple is sitting behind me, she was fairly cute they were in their late 20s early 30s. He wasn't an alpha guy at all, he wouldn't stop talking she could barely get a word in edge wise. I'm thinking how could he get a girl like her, I did give her the look she held my eye contact.

With myself I seem to intimidate women it doesn't matter the age women seem to get really quiet around me. What is it with todays women do they actually prefer beta guys? I see decent looking women with really feminine men, I'm far from being a feminine man I'm broad shouldered.

 

[user43770]

Lets set this straight I'm not a beta guy, I'm the lone wolf guy. Out at a local bar for lunch this weekend this couple is sitting behind me, she was fairly cute they were in their late 20s early 30s. He wasn't an alpha guy at all, he wouldn't stop talking she could barely get a word in edge wise. I'm thinking how could he get a girl like her, I did give her the look she held my eye contact.

With myself I seem to intimidate women it doesn't matter the age women seem to get really quiet around me. What is it with todays women do they actually prefer beta guys? I see decent looking women with really feminine men, I'm far from being a feminine man I'm broad shouldered.

There are plenty of broad shouldered men out there not having any success with women. You have to be able to connect with them on some level.

If every chick you meet is clamming up on you and not speaking, then you need to work on being more approachable. Lighten up. Crack a joke and smile. Pick on them playfully.

 

[wifehunter]

as much as I dislike Corey Wayne...

"when you stop caring, results happen."

 

[marmel75]

The obsession on this forum about alpha and beta shows how most people simply dont get it. As if reading a bunch of stuff and prtending you are alpha will suddenly get you laid like a rock star.

Nobody is 100% of either, people are some combination of the two. Also it can vary by circumstance...a person who is viewed as alpha at their job can be viewed as a beta when they are around their friends.

My advice is stop worrying about this nonsense and you'll be a lot better off for it.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Because ALL women don't want a bossy and controlling alpha. Sometimes they want someone that's going to "help" them. There is a market for everything out there.

 

[Macaframalama]

Because ALL women don't want a bossy and controlling alpha. Sometimes they want someone that's going to "help" them. There is a market for everything out there.

This is true too. I've gotten the "I don't need a daddy" or "why you always trying to tell me what to do" even if I what I was saying was true. In my case, it doesn't come from control, rather efficiency and experience. Sometimes, you've just got to shut up and let ppl learn from their own mistakes. I know where they're coming from though. I was the same way with my father, up until my mid 20's. Looking back, there are probably so many lessons, that I let slip by that I'm kind of regretful. Nowadays, if I care to, I find a way to rephrase it so that they think it's their idea. Not very many are worth the effort though.

 

[Urbanyst]

The idea that women only date alphas is pure horse sh*t.

What do you mean how do betas get women? That's like asking how does any woman who isn't a 10 get men? lol.

An alpha is the male version of a 10. Most women are not 10's. Most men are not alphas.

 

[KingofPuss]

It's trial and error. Simple as that. Approach, fail, learn, and try again. Until you figure out what works for YOU. Nobody on here can tell you verbatim what will or won't work for you. Anyone who tells you otherwise is full of sh!t.

I used to think it was cookie cutter. Experience has taught me otherwise. There are many things you can do to make the process easier such as getting muscular, making a lot of money, a good sense of humor, assertiveness, social proof, and other things you are specifically good at.

 

[Urbanyst]

It's trial and error. Simple as that. Approach, fail, learn, and try again. Until you figure out what works for YOU. Nobody on here can tell you verbatim what will or won't work for you. Anyone who tells you otherwise is full of sh!t.

I used to think it was cookie cutter. Experience has taught me otherwise. There are many things you can do to make the process easier such as getting muscular, making a lot of money, a good sense of humor, assertiveness, social proof, and other things you are specifically good at.

Looks, MONEY and status is a guaranteed foot in the door with HOT women.

Foot in the door. No guarantees after that.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Looks, MONEY and status is a guaranteed foot in the door with HOT women.

Foot in the door. No guarantees after that.

It's personality and social circle after getting foot in door. But if you have the looks and money, you can always remain relatively quiet and let them choose you. Some will drool for you till you open your mouth.

 

[KingofPuss]

Looks, MONEY and status is a guaranteed foot in the door with HOT women.

Foot in the door. No guarantees after that.

For guys in their 20's I can tell you DO NOT need money to pull 8s and 9s (I don't believe in the 10). Looks, being funny, and a normal guy (meaning not a beta weirdo who doesn't know how to interact with a woman) will get you laid way easier than money. Sure pulling up in a Porsche to pick her up will help a little, but the money thing is a cop out for way too many guys on here.

 

[Urbanyst]

For guys in their 20's I can tell you DO NOT need money to pull 8s and 9s (I don't believe in the 10). Looks, being funny, and a normal guy (meaning not a beta weirdo who doesn't know how to interact with a woman) will get you laid way easier than money. Sure pulling up in a Porsche to pick her up will help a little, but the money thing is a cop out for way too many guys on here.

This still follows the looks, MONEY and status rule.

Remember you only need one to pay. Never said you need all three. But if you don't have a least one you have no chance in hell with most attractive women.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Rollo discussed this in Rational Male. Its a case of beta yet physically aesthetic unaware male is liked by hot young girl. She is unaware that he is beta and will cuck him later on but, until the blinders come off, she will pursue. This is not a measurable tactic nor applicable to most men. Most males are beta and reek of being as such.

 

[Von]

Maybe he wasn't beta at all....

Cause he got the girl (if that was even his GF)

Whatever fill the girl emotions, whatever fill the guy needs.... it's out that work

In a relationship you need 1 Alpha, 1 Beta... which one you want to be?

Often I see relationship fails... because both seek to be the Alpha

 

[btownbuck2012]

their late 20s early 30s.

There it is. People drop their standards as they get older and for women their late 20s is when they start thinking more "provider" over "guy I want to f*ck". Just because a guy is with a woman like that doesn't mean she likes or is even sexually attracted to him.

Getting a girl like that is not success. Getting a girl like that who likes, respects and enthusiastically wants to f*ck you, is.

 

[Urbanyst]

Rollo discussed this in Rational Male. Its a case of beta yet physically aesthetic unaware male is liked by hot young girl. She is unaware that he is beta and will cuck him later on but, until the blinders come off, she will pursue. This is not a measurable tactic nor applicable to most men. Most males are beta and reek of being as such.

There is beta and there is desperate.

Its a myth that only alphas are attractive to women. Most alphas are either in jail, famous or the heads of powerful organizations/groups/companies, etc.

The normal everyday man walking around is not an alpha. And no one on this forum has even been an alpha.

Women are a trivial matter to alphas, so a site like this would never interest them.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

There is beta and there is desperate.

Its a myth that only alphas are attractive to women. Most alphas are either in jail, famous or the heads of powerful organizations/groups/companies, etc.

The normal everyday man walking around is not an alpha. And no one on this forum has even been an alpha.

Women are a trivial matter to alphas, so a site like this would never interest them.

There is a deficit in the masculinity dept these days. Still, you are Delusional. It is more telling about your exp with women or lack there of.

Women enjoy a good beta once their best days are over, once the milks gone bad, bulking season kicks off, and the alphas stop blowing up her phone. This will be something to remember when your wife tells you she is not in the mood and when you never see a blow job again.

Thanks for coming.

 

[Vantagepoint34]

One word just don't be beta. Man up. Read up on pook and DJ Fingz the two most successful Don Juans and you will land the Hb8 just ask Joe Rogan

 

[Macaframalama]

This will be something to remember when your wife tells you she is not in the mood and when you never see a blow job again.

CTFU! I just fvcking choked on my food.

 

[Urbanyst]

There is a deficit in the masculinity dept these days. Still, you are Delusional. It is more telling about your exp with women or lack there of.

Women enjoy a good beta once their best days are over, once the milks gone bad, bulking season kicks off, and the alphas stop blowing up her phone. This will be something to remember when your wife tells you she is not in the mood and when you never see a blow job again.

Thanks for coming.

You seem to be talking about something totally different.

Who cares if women prefer alphas? Most of them will never get one. And alphas always have either looks, MONEY or status.

Always.

Losers are not alphas.