how come girls like drama and want sh!t to be like a ****ing soap opera?

[wise_mage]

I still dont get it. I like stability and safety and honesty and no game playing. why do women relish in such energy draining absurd stuff like "mystery" and "drama" and ·excitement"? its completly absurd and boring. Id rather use my time productively furthering my talents and pursuing my dreams than partaking in those mindless tiring games women love to go through.
Id rather not have any girls. yes, thas about it.

 

[Omega]

Its the way their wired. Face it.


EDIT: Also, forgot to say, learn to enjoy it cause it can be quite fun at times messing with their heads

 

[Grey Fox]

Hey the plays the thing kid. Spoon it out to them, give the drama. The is an old chinese proverb: Be carefull what you wish for. She wants drama, then turn it into a soap opera for a little while, eventually she will tire of it, cause deep down she wants stability too. You just have to remind why its sucks when drama takes control of her life.

-Grey Fox

 

[TesuqueRed]

For the real mind-fvck, mage, ask why it is that these girls come into your life.

 

[selfcontrol]

Girls are highly emotional creatures. They need you to give them excitement. If you fail to give them excitement, they give you drama and play games in order to piss you off, because to them, having you be pissed off is better than nothing.

 

[Walden]

Guys get to blow sh!t up , girls get psycho drama.

Frankly, I like the blowing sh!t up.

 

[squirrels]

Originally posted by Walden
Guys get to blow sh!t up , girls get psycho drama.

Frankly, I like the blowing sh!t up.

Yeah, pretty much. Makes life interesting.

 

[elvis aint dead yet]

Men and Women want drama in their lives.


Why do you think soap operas and sports are so damn popular?


While there might be more women who seem crazy and psycho and show it, just take a look at this site, most of the subjects created are about "MY LIFE IS OVER" because some guy got dumped or rejected.

Guys like drama just as much as girls, just most of the time, guys pretend like they don't need drama.

Face the facts, most peoples lives are relatively boring as they get older. It's not because of somebody being better then anybody else, it's just that, as you get older, you spend more time with your career and job, then you do chasing things you used to love as much.

And there are very few people who have adventurous careers.

While it might be exciting for the particular individual, most other people would find it boring.

 

[Knicknack]

it's human nature... why do kids get bored with their toys so fast? nothing new or exciting comes from them anymore. if a woman has a man who is always a perfect gentleman, never willing to rock the boat, she will get bored.

 

[MackJr]

The Answer

Women think about relationships the way men think about jobs. Would you like a boring job where all you did was peel potatoes 8 hours a day? no.

Women don't mind doing boring jobs because they seek their stimulation through their relationships. Likewise, men don't look for conflict from a woman, there's plenty at work.

so if you consider that she thinks of her relationship as a job, it's easier to relate to the mindset she has, and why she needs some challenge.

 

[InLawsHateMe]

Men stir the sh8t too.... except we only see it when the women do it.

A lot of the time, it's out of boredom that we find sh*t to be b*tches about.

 

[Player_Supreme]

1. women are able to access both sides of the brain. This is a fact.

2. Women are emotional creaturs. If those emotions are not getting used...then they will create drama.

3. This means you need to start putting your women on a emotional rollercoaster ride otherwise life will get too boring for her and she will have to create something in order to get that emotional high that they crave.

4. Start acting distant and close...mix it up...keep her guessing on what kind of mood your in. This will give her adrenals the hit that she needs and she will be happy.

5. Don't be afraid to show your anger....she actually needs to see that...why do you think so many fine assed women are with ass h*oles who abuse them...and stay with them! I'm not saying give her the www.hoslap.net treatment. Just man up and don't take any shyt from her. Cop an attitude real quick if she says or does something that you do not like...just be sure to let her know why she is being punished.

 

[elvis aint dead yet]

"Women think about relationships the way men think about jobs. Would you like a boring job where all you did was peel potatoes 8 hours a day? no."


At least half of society, if not more, hates their jobs. MOst people do it to pay bills and to make money.

Some people go to college, maybe grad school, start out on a career track and suddenly they discover, their job/career is not what they thought it would be.


That why there are many mid-career changers.


the problem is, as you get older, it's a lot harder to change careers because you have responsibilities and bills. YOu have more responsibilities and bills single or married. that's just the way it is.

Not everybody has a mommy and daddy to run to when you don't like something or when you need money. Not everybody can quit their jobs and go back to college full time at 40 years old. That's just not the way it works.

So the whole relationship and work drama is BS to me. there are more people then not who hate their jobs because it is boring.

WHy do men and women create drama, nine times out of ten, it's because they are bored with their lives and they go overboard about some small issue.

People can't face the fact that life is not like Reality TV. Most of the time, you wake up, go to work, come home, eat, then do some stuff, then go to sleep. ANd you do it all over again the next day.

While some people will jump off a bridge and try and create a better life for themselves, others will not, so they either live the adventurous through their sister or brother or friends or they exaggerate their own self-worth to create drama. It makes them feel like they actually are doing something.

 

[b's nuts]

its just how it is, its how you deal with it that can make a difference in your attitude about it. My current gf for a while I thought was a total drama queen. For a week straight it was something new every day. Each time, I would be like, whatever reason you have for acting like this, deal with it, because I don't put up with it, and drop her off or hang up the phone. Basically, you have to let them know that you find it un acceptable and then its smooth sailing from there on.

 

[InLawsHateMe]

Originally posted by b's nuts
its just how it is, its how you deal with it that can make a difference in your attitude about it. My current gf for a while I thought was a total drama queen. For a week straight it was something new every day. Each time, I would be like, whatever reason you have for acting like this, deal with it, because I don't put up with it, and drop her off or hang up the phone. Basically, you have to let them know that you find it un acceptable and then its smooth sailing from there on.

..after ya hang up the phone, fire up a victory blunt... they'll be calling you back after they think about what they have done, they always do.

 

[NatureGuy]

Women think about relationships the way men think about jobs. Would you like a boring job where all you did was peel potatoes 8 hours a day? no.

Pretty much describes my job these days !

 

[MackJr]

1. women are able to access both sides of the brain. This is a fact.

so can men. the left-brain/right-brain split goes between creativity and stability lines, not male-female ones.

 

[b's nuts]

Originally posted by InLawsHateMe
..after ya hang up the phone, fire up a victory blunt... they'll be calling you back after they think about what they have done, they always do.

so true, they love it. I hav actually decided that its usually a test to see if you have backbone and how far they can push it. People can say whatever they want about this but I think its like training a dog. If you give them a positive reward (hug, kiss, "oh its ok") then they will run all over you. If you tell them right out of the gates that its un acceptable, you will be more happy than ever. Im not trying to sound like an ass, but i have my girl trained. She told me that one reason she won't cheat on me (cuz i guess she used to with all her other bf's, i know i know, red flag but this chic is so damn fine ) is because she knows I won't take her back like all of her other bf's had, well that and she says she loves me . Its all about training them - hey, InLawsHateMe, pass that victory blunt!

 

[Eileen]

Originally posted by Walden
Guys get to blow sh!t up , girls get psycho drama.

For the first time in my life, I want to be a guy.

Not all girls are into psychodrama. Though I will admit that younger girls do seem to have a fondness for it. It's unsettling even for me sometimes.

Normally, the drama come in because the girl wants something and is afraid to or feels unable to ask for it. Or she might not even be sure what it is. (Hormones, especially in younger girls are a b1tch.) As a man, what you should do is calmly call her on it. "Ok, you're getting all dramatic on me. Is there something you're wanting or needing?"

b's nuts is somewhat correct in that you have to stand your ground. Sometimes the drama is simply for attention. If that's the case, you certainly don't want to give it to her. That will teach her to be dramatic to get attention. His only flaw is that women, unlike dogs, are able to reason. Talking to them and flat out telling them that the drama is unnecessary is a quicker way to achieve your goal.

 

[princelydeeds]

Originally posted by Eileen
Not all girls are blah blah blah.

Why is it that every post by a so called female includes these same words?