how come girls like drama and want sh!t to be like a ****ing soap opera?
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Player_Supreme
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Originally posted by elvis aint dead yet
"Women think about relationships the way men think about jobs. Would you like a boring job where all you did was peel potatoes 8 hours a day? no."
At least half of society, if not more, hates their jobs. MOst people do it to pay bills and to make money.
Some people go to college, maybe grad school, start out on a career track and suddenly they discover, their job/career is not what they thought it would be.
That why there are many mid-career changers.
the problem is, as you get older, it's a lot harder to change careers because you have responsibilities and bills. YOu have more responsibilities and bills single or married. that's just the way it is.
Not everybody has a mommy and daddy to run to when you don't like something or when you need money. Not everybody can quit their jobs and go back to college full time at 40 years old. That's just not the way it works.
So the whole relationship and work drama is BS to me. there are more people then not who hate their jobs because it is boring.
WHy do men and women create drama, nine times out of ten, it's because they are bored with their lives and they go overboard about some small issue.
People can't face the fact that life is not like Reality TV. Most of the time, you wake up, go to work, come home, eat, then do some stuff, then go to sleep. ANd you do it all over again the next day.
While some people will jump off a bridge and try and create a better life for themselves, others will not, so they either live the adventurous through their sister or brother or friends or they exaggerate their own self-worth to create drama. It makes them feel like they actually are doing something.
Church! Preach on brutha!
Words of wisdom mahon. A mans worst nightmare could be a bored girlfriend.
elvis aint dead yet
Senior Don Juan
That is the problem I see with this site and people in general these days. I don't know, maybe it's always been like this, but it seems everybody wants more then their slice of the pie.
They want a girl who is hot, won't cheat, is exciting, has goals, yet they don't want her to have any drama in her life.
While girls do have a tendency to dramatize every single thing, there are plenty of men who do the same damn thing.
Again, just take a look at this site. Every other post is about "MY LIFE IS GOING TO END CAUSE I GOT REJECTED,"
Now you tell me, is that not over dramatic?
On the other side, who the hell wants to date a girl who every time you ask them "What's up?" they say, OK.
If you learn to filter through all the BS from men and women, sometimes you'll find out some people have interesting things to say.
And do not ever think you are better then somebody else because something you think is stupid, they might dramatically stress over.
Because as the saying goes, what is important to you, is not important to me and vice versa.
Learn to Filter through the BS.
They want a girl who is hot, won't cheat, is exciting, has goals, yet they don't want her to have any drama in her life.
While girls do have a tendency to dramatize every single thing, there are plenty of men who do the same damn thing.
Again, just take a look at this site. Every other post is about "MY LIFE IS GOING TO END CAUSE I GOT REJECTED,"
Now you tell me, is that not over dramatic?
On the other side, who the hell wants to date a girl who every time you ask them "What's up?" they say, OK.
If you learn to filter through all the BS from men and women, sometimes you'll find out some people have interesting things to say.
And do not ever think you are better then somebody else because something you think is stupid, they might dramatically stress over.
Because as the saying goes, what is important to you, is not important to me and vice versa.
Learn to Filter through the BS.
Player_Supreme
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And your a senior Don Juan who calls himself Wise_Mage?Originally posted by wise_mage
I still dont get it. I like stability and safety and honesty and no game playing. why do women relish in such energy draining absurd stuff like "mystery" and "drama" and ·excitement"? its completly absurd and boring. Id rather use my time productively furthering my talents and pursuing my dreams than partaking in those mindless tiring games women love to go through.
Id rather not have any girls. yes, thas about it.
You posted something odd "absurd stuff like "mystery" and "drama" and ·excitement"? its completly absurd and boring." I can't quite think of the word I'm looking for perhaps someone else can help me. It's kind of like an irony....oh well.
You listed the same qualities that create excitement but you call them boring. Are you a computer genius type or something?
You also obviously do not understand women. If you did then you would just accept that they are emotional creatures. Nothing we can do about this. So what life isn't fair. We just got to learn to deal with it to our advantage. If you mastered the game they wouldn't be such a problem for you.