How can one be good with women if your not that attractive?

[Trump]

Me I am 6'3.

The majority of girls (non-hoodrats) want successful dudes.

Was thinking, how did pretty boy get to sleep with so many girls at such a young age...there is your answer right there.

Come on bro, at your age, girls don't care about successful dudes, girls care about looks and height. You don't have spit tons of game either, in fact,the less you talk, the less likely you'll say something dumb and make her doubt she wants to sleep with you. Only around late 20s they start thinking about the coin.

 

[bigneil]

Lyle Lovett is butt ugly, but at ever concert of his there are literally thousands of screaming women who would kill to get him in the sack. Value, value, value.

That's because he's rich and famous. A poor, unknown Lyle Lovett would be alone.

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

He's succesful ^^^ bottom line which everyone should try to be.

Trump, ever since beginning of May (once school let out for summer) I've only been dealing with girls in Atlanta. They are older. 25-35. I don't want to hear any age excuse for anything.

So your telling me young girls don't like successful dudes? Then why are the drug dealers in Atlanta getting all the fine young women? Every girl on this planet wants an upgrade. Every girl wants a dude that successful. Not all of them will get it but they still want it.

 

[nismo-4]

He's succesful ^^^ bottom line which everyone should try to be.

Trump, ever since beginning of May (once school let out for summer) I've only been dealing with girls in Atlanta. They are older. 25-35. I don't want to hear any age excuse for anything.

So your telling me young girls don't like successful dudes? Then why are the drug dealers in Atlanta getting all the fine young women? Every girl on this planet wants an upgrade. Every girl wants a dude that successful. Not all of them will get it but they still want it.

@bigneil, this goes for most comedians and musicians. Without fame and fortune, women could care less.

Every woman ACTUALLY WANTS a man who is a young muscular millionaire with a mansion and a Mercedes and a lot of time to spend with her. But that guy hardly exists, so these women have to settle while still fantasizing about this guy.

All women go for greener pastures. Women f**k who they want. Men f**k who they can.

Age don't matter at all. I've dated women in Atlanta over 50 and EVEN THEY have entitlement issues! And they aren't even dime pieces! They seem to think "I have a pu$$y and evey guy wants it!"

I can't stand Atlanta women.

 

[CasanovaFrankenstein]

That's because he's rich and famous. A poor, unknown Lyle Lovett would be alone.

I'd be very surprised if Lyle wasn't making women wet with his music long before he was ever rich. It's the same reason PUAs do magic tricks and learn handwriting analysis and all that stuff. By demonstrating something that he's very good at, a guy sends the message to women's subconscious "he's got good genes to pass on to my offspring". There was no such thing as birth control millions of years ago when all this was getting hard-wired into women's brains through evolution, so demonstration of value that millions of years ago resulted in a lot of babies, today just results in guys getting laid.

 

[youngmack]

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=194587

HELP

 

[Ihateinitiatingalot7]

so women are not as attracted to looks, physical appearences, do not value it as much?

 

[CasanovaFrankenstein]

so women are not as attracted to looks, physical appearences, do not value it as much?

If a guy isn't good looking, there are more ways to compensate for it than there are for women. If a woman is facially ugly, she can work out and get a killer body but that's about it. And of course that's part of looks also, so yeah.

 

[floydb25]

so women are not as attracted to looks, physical appearences, do not value it as much?

No, its equal, and both genders are treated the same based on their looks. If a girl is cute, fit, and takes care of her appearance - guys will give her a chance. Same with women. People like good bodies and a presentable appearance. So, just by working out, getting some nice clothes, etc, you're already improving your chances greatly. You don't have to be hot, or you won't get any dates, ever. But your chances are even greater yet.

The scale works both ways for each gender. The hotter you are - the more appealing you are. But, you can still work on other things, and still be attractive. It's not hot or nothing. Nor is there no value on looks. Or less for them, and more for us.

Women are just as shallow as men. Men just admit it. But, men will give a cute girl a chance. They don't all need a barbie. This is just another stereotype. Possibly to make us look more shallow than them. Our standards are pretty much the same. They choose hot guys first - just as we choose hot girls first. But, just as they look for more - so do we. Just as we put up with too much BS from hot girls, and try to tame them, or get them to commit, or make up excuses for them - so do they. We get crushes, and so do they. It's all the same. Don't believe when women or dating guru's tell you otherwise. We ALL go for looks first, but the person doesn't have to be hot or gorgeous. It just makes them that more appealing to us. There are also other traits we look for - typically as we age and mature.

When you see dating articles saying women don't put as much emphasis on looks as men do - this is common sense. But, it works both ways. What they mean is, they'll still give a guy a chance if he looks nice, takes care of himself, is social, interesting, fun, etc. No ****. So do we. It doesn't mean they don't care about looks, or that we're any different in our standards. Again, we don't all chase after barbie, nor do we all have one. Same goes for them. Not everyone is dating a hot person. We will all give an attractive girl a chance. It's not hot or nothing for either gender. This is probably just clever wording to get people lured into their marketing bull**** - by making you think looks don't matter, or that women are different in this respect. This is not the case. They just don't all go for (or can get) a hot guy, because there aren't enough to go around. Most dating advice you see is very basic - they just use clever wording to catch your eye, and make it seem like a big deal; something you could never figure out on your own. Like, having confidence. OMG.

It also depends largely on the type of person you're going after. Not everyone is shallow or obsessed with status. But, the higher in looks you go - the more shallow and superficial they tend to be. It's a double-edged sword, really. Hot people tend to want other hot people - until they realize they hate each other, and should drop their standards.

Mostly its the fake hot girls that are like this. The ones who wear too much make-up, are obsessed with appearance, talk in a very shallow manner, dress like skanks, act prissy and snobby, hang out with the popular girls, etc. They tend to be the most insecure and crazy, and need to fit in and be better than everyone else. The girls most guys on here go after, ***** about constantly, and generalize an entire gender over. Ah, good times... Good times. . :crackup:

 

[Ihateinitiatingalot7]

No, its equal, and both genders are treated the same based on their looks. If a girl is cute, fit, and takes care of her appearance - guys will give her a chance. Same with women. People like good bodies and a presentable appearance. So, just by working out, getting some nice clothes, etc, you're already improving your chances greatly. You don't have to be hot, or you won't get any dates, ever. But your chances are even greater yet.

The scale works both ways for each gender. The hotter you are - the more appealing you are. But, you can still work on other things, and still be attractive. It's not hot or nothing. Nor is there no value on looks. Or less for them, and more for us.

Women are just as shallow as men. Men just admit it. But, men will give a cute girl a chance. They don't all need a barbie. This is just another stereotype. Possibly to make us look more shallow than them. Our standards are pretty much the same. They choose hot guys first - just as we choose hot girls first. But, just as they look for more - so do we. Just as we put up with too much BS from hot girls, and try to tame them, or get them to commit, or make up excuses for them - so do they. We get crushes, and so do they. It's all the same. Don't believe when women or dating guru's tell you otherwise. We ALL go for looks first, but the person doesn't have to be hot or gorgeous. It just makes them that more appealing to us. There are also other traits we look for - typically as we age and mature.

When you see dating articles saying women don't put as much emphasis on looks as men do - this is common sense. But, it works both ways. What they mean is, they'll still give a guy a chance if he looks nice, takes care of himself, is social, interesting, fun, etc. No ****. So do we. It doesn't mean they don't care about looks, or that we're any different in our standards. Again, we don't all chase after barbie, nor do we all have one. Same goes for them. Not everyone is dating a hot person. We will all give an attractive girl a chance. It's not hot or nothing for either gender. This is probably just clever wording to get people lured into their marketing bull**** - by making you think looks don't matter, or that women are different in this respect. This is not the case. They just don't all go for (or can get) a hot guy, because there aren't enough to go around. Most dating advice you see is very basic - they just use clever wording to catch your eye, and make it seem like a big deal; something you could never figure out on your own. Like, having confidence. OMG.

It also depends largely on the type of person you're going after. Not everyone is shallow or obsessed with status. But, the higher in looks you go - the more shallow and superficial they tend to be. It's a double-edged sword, really. Hot people tend to want other hot people - until they realize they hate each other, and should drop their standards.

Mostly its the fake hot girls that are like this. The ones who wear too much make-up, are obsessed with appearance, talk in a very shallow manner, dress like skanks, act prissy and snobby, hang out with the popular girls, etc. They tend to be the most insecure and crazy, and need to fit in and be better than everyone else. The girls most guys on here go after, ***** about constantly, and generalize an entire gender over. Ah, good times... Good times. . :crackup:

yeah, like a guy can be hot, good-looking, physically attractive, but he has the wrong attitude, wrong mindset, has below-average social skills or conversation skills, low self-esteem, no life, he won't be getting any

 

[ilikecharlene]

to say looks don't matter is being PC.

However, they are not everything. Most people in the world, I'd imagine, are of average looks. yet many get in relationships or are married. This is unscientific, but IMO only about 20% of all humans in the world now are above 7 in looks.

 

[Demonicale]

CONFIDENCE is ALL YOU NEED, ok aslong as you don't look like a complete ugly bastard, then your set

 

[Bossman90]

By being witty....