Yeah...Red pill theory was wrong in the end. The wall never came. They just looked for a supply of validation instead.
I also don't like slamming men for being weak. You don't start out strong, you need to be civilized and cultivated into it by the previous generation. And it needs real elite backing. You can't just have a subset of "the people" trying to do it on their own against the will of the upper classes and every institution.
Women used to be barred from owning a credit card, divorcing without approval of the church, and would get dunked in a pond by their local peers for infidelity. Men's groups used to be common and would get special employment and leadership opportunities. Early Americans were allowed to sue their children for disobedience. Today all of these things are banned.
So what backing do men today have to be strong men who have the power of making the final decision? A couple algorithm-suppressed bloggers and youtubers saying words to them and calling them pathetic? Words don't provide much, and hold no power on their own.
Let's say I was the head of, idk, a steel manufacturing labor union where most employees are men. I need to be guaranteed by the state that if I make a decision like "only men can be on the executive board" then that decision is actually respected, no questions asked. But today there are dozens of ways which my authority would get shut out and this is what the state guarantees today.
So for those who like railing on younger men for being weak, what exactly were they supposed to do? Where do they get to practice leadership and gain confidence in their authority? When are their decisions actually respected? Where are they taught that they're expected to be in charge? What institutions will back them up when they face controversy? What laws give them advantages? Where can men come together as an exclusive group to mutually benefit each other? Where can they go to set and enforce standards on their own?
What's the biggest men's group you know of? Does it have actual influence over the rest of society? And are men actually in charge of it, or is there at least one woman on executive staff to police it?
The husband in this story did everything right. He doesn't sound like a weak man, quite the opposite, but everything fell apart regardless. Countless stories like this one.
Bro i totally agree with most of what you say. I agree with the sentiment but you are giving too much leeway to men.
Men are weak because of govt policies, this is true. What is also true is that the majority of men have been weak since the beginning of time. We dont see the weak men because we dont date men.
Most men are not on SoSuave trying to better themselves. Most men people in general are not self aware. You wont believe how many men have serious vice likes extreme alcholism, gambling, strippers etc. We all have our vices but many men are too weak to keep trying to get rid of them.
The average dude does not lift weights, has never been in a fight, is afraid of being confrontational, does not work on his demons, has no spiritual base etc.
Make a profile on online dating as a female and you will see how weird men are. Most men are weird thats why OnlyFans girls can get away with selling farts and bath water.
It took me alot of pain, psychedlics and instrospection to even begin becoming a " good man". Most people dont want to do that.
Btw according to this chick the husband had a severe porn addiction and during sex he asked if she wanted to get railed by another man while he watched. She said that really messed with her self esteem.
She also said that at one point he was down on his luck and was doing Uber and laying around the house all day and not trying to improve.
He was far from perfect.
