The problem is i came from a more traditional background, I expected to find a wife by 18 but nobody my age was ever serious about marriage.
My parents always ask when I'm going to find a wife, my sisters married at 18 as well to add insult to injury. Most girls I dated didn't want to get married till they are at least 30.
Seeing "modern" women waste their prime years on the cawk carousel is idiotic.
I think I know what you mean by that. For me, the bad news was that some women did want to get married...
Your RP already right ?
Look into the work of Richard Dawkins
Dawkins argued
that natural selection takes place at the genetic rather than the species or individual level..
Also if not already read, The Red Queen by Matt Ridley.
The two sets of information support each other, with a conclusion that the sexual market place is operating at a deep level that is built at the core physical level of humans (and other creatures as well). Women are indeed controlled completely by this at an instinct level that operates outside of their controllable thoughts. Life itself wants to continue and it has evolved into humans that are very successful in the competition for survival and growth. The crappy way that women behave is actually key in why humans are top of the food chain. By understanding this information we can start to catch on to the point that the issue is not who is the woman but
what is the woman. When that becomes clear the anger and irritation of and about them will stop and also how to deal with them becomes clear. As well men are part of it also and can be understood. Then it is a process of sorting them to find the ones .. that you can and want to deal with.
The genes in the women are confused and can not decide on the best choice or the best choice is not available. So her genes continue to look for the best choice. She is not forced to make a choice for survival and can continue to chase for a better choice and has information that so many choices are available. Her genes are stuck on the sort for the best, and the data set to sort is just too big. This is happening at the evolutionary level, not in the active thought. Men providing choices to them via the carousel have figured out or genetically are strong in some way so as to activate her evaluation subroutine. This includes sex to ensure and verify strength or in some cases to immediately take seed. But her genes know from her other senses that more choices are available and they might not have the best one so they keep looking. In some cases will take seed again the same day if another choice is presented that is strong. This is occurring at the genetic level in the fight for the survival of the species. The genes however get the information from the senses, sight, smell, sound, touch. The mind is just along for the ride.
This maps into all of it.
for example.
Orbiters = another set of genes that want to compete with yours.
Being on a purpose = your genes are going to win, and any that bond with you will also create a winner.
Money and or status = your genes have the ability for surviving and will do so.
Greedy, Dark Triad = your genes have the will to do whatever it takes to win. <- at the evolutionary level this is the top of the heap.
Kind and helpful = you have genes that will create a follower or a worker and will give away power.
you get the idea, the list can go on and on.