PuertoRican_Lover
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Ho into a housewife?
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PuertoRican_Lover
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I can't believe all the garbage i'm hearing on this thread - devil advocates in the true sense of the word - but so typical of our american ***** culture - sluts seem so proud of their indiscretions and men r too obliged to please them. Dekka i cant believe people r so delighted that u r opening your mind to doing things that r so blatantly false and untrue to your values - don't b weakened by the dj philosophy that its all about getting the hos!
the true don juan of legend was not about getting hos - it was about pursuing that woman of virtue who was neither touched nor scarred by the lust of the flesh - yes a virgin!
He did not serenade a wh@re because *****s don't have to be chased they just have to b found! Why do women say romance is dead? Romance is inextricably tied to the "pursuit" of the honorable virgin but since virgins rarely exist and wh@res are in abundance this comes to the natural conclusion that romance is dead because the chase is dead - *****s do not require a challenge for their honor since they have none. Sadly it is now become the time that the men r doing the running and the women r doing the chasing - and thus not only has romance died (since man is the natural aggressor) but also the institute of marriage!
More on this later - SAY NO TO HOS!
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the true don juan of legend was not about getting hos - it was about pursuing that woman of virtue who was neither touched nor scarred by the lust of the flesh - yes a virgin!
He did not serenade a wh@re because *****s don't have to be chased they just have to b found! Why do women say romance is dead? Romance is inextricably tied to the "pursuit" of the honorable virgin but since virgins rarely exist and wh@res are in abundance this comes to the natural conclusion that romance is dead because the chase is dead - *****s do not require a challenge for their honor since they have none. Sadly it is now become the time that the men r doing the running and the women r doing the chasing - and thus not only has romance died (since man is the natural aggressor) but also the institute of marriage!
More on this later - SAY NO TO HOS!
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When you've had lots of sex, and had relationships fail because the sex wasn't enough to hold it together, you'll then know why sex does not equal love.
But until you've experienced sex in a relationship and all the complications that go with it, you'll never know, because you've got nothing to go by except your fantasies about what sex is.
But until you've experienced sex in a relationship and all the complications that go with it, you'll never know, because you've got nothing to go by except your fantasies about what sex is.
jakethasnake
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I find this odd, coming from a Puerto Rican.
Aren't you Latin types all about womanizing? PuertoRican_Lover
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Don Juan legend - latin lover steretypes had nothing to do with "womanizing" per se rather it had to with the pursuit of a"worthy" prize and the challenged that it entailed and the cost (non-monetarily speaking) one had to forfeit to be worthy of the honor of conquest. it took some work to get the woman and it was not to get get her in the sack but rather to get her admiration and her hand in marriage as well as the approval and respect of her father!'
Hos r ...
not a worthy prize
not a challenge
cost nothing - they give it up 4 free
have no honor
r not worthy of conquest
r not admirable
r not marriage material
do not require approval
do not require respect
in today's wh@rish environment u really don't need to know any don juan skills in so far as romance is concerned - just to know if she is interested in you is enough to get her on her back and dont be a afc - then throw her away like the wh@re that she is and say NEXT - this seems to b the prevailing philosophy and mindset at this site - that is why so much focus and concentration is on the approach and not the romantic pursuit - because once u have her interest u r damn near guaranteed to get into her painties cause she wants u to and not because u r worthy!
Its just too easy its sleazy!
Hos r ...
not a worthy prize
not a challenge
cost nothing - they give it up 4 free
have no honor
r not worthy of conquest
r not admirable
r not marriage material
do not require approval
do not require respect
in today's wh@rish environment u really don't need to know any don juan skills in so far as romance is concerned - just to know if she is interested in you is enough to get her on her back and dont be a afc - then throw her away like the wh@re that she is and say NEXT - this seems to b the prevailing philosophy and mindset at this site - that is why so much focus and concentration is on the approach and not the romantic pursuit - because once u have her interest u r damn near guaranteed to get into her painties cause she wants u to and not because u r worthy!
Its just too easy its sleazy!
If you want to talk, talk to your friends. If you want a girl to like you, listen to her, ask questions, and act like you are on the edge of your seat.
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MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
Good posts PuertoRican Lover!
Dekka, I know what you are saying.
I will never marry again... why?
In any case the thought of marrying a women who gave it up left and right is unpleasant...
It is really true, you would be buying a cow that used to give away the milk... but now found an AFC willing to pay for it.
And believe me you PAY when you marry. You really pay...
Dietzcoi
I will never marry again... why?
In any case the thought of marrying a women who gave it up left and right is unpleasant...
It is really true, you would be buying a cow that used to give away the milk... but now found an AFC willing to pay for it.
And believe me you PAY when you marry. You really pay...
Dietzcoi
NewMan
Master Don Juan
In my mind this is ridiculous. We are living in the 21st century - not in the 1800's.
Are we tarnishing every woman who as slept with 6+ guys a wh@re? I don't think so.
Women are not getting married when they are 15 years old - they are not forced into marrage - no arranged marrages... People are getting married much later in life. To meet someone in their late 20's - and think that she will be a virgin is perposterous. In the lifestyle we now leed (for good or bad) where women have (in general) the same opportunities as men, it's silly to think that your going to find a virgin over the age of 25 - even 20.
It seems that it's OK for us guys to sleep around, but your saying that it's not OK for women.
Sex is great. And I don't see why it should be a no-no for two people to enjoy that.
If you connect with someone, then enjoy that person.
When getting married, thats a totally different proposition. It really doesn't matter how many guys the woman has slept with (within reason - sure you don't want to get hitched to a girl thats banged 200 guys) - it only matters how she treats YOU. If she takes care of your needs and is good to you, loves you for who you are - what's the problem?
People should not be so narrow minded.
smooth_as_silk
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I completely agree with you PuertoRican and it comes most probably from the fact that u are latin and I am Mediterranean.
We guys have a strong sense of pride and we settle for nothin less than a girl with virtue.
DEKKA be very careful with what you do from now on cause' u re going through a crucial period in ur life (early 20's) basically strongly influenced by people around you. Forget about all this de-programming bull****. A guy who was raised with strong values never lose them completely, even by getting into a relationship and starting to f*uck ANY girl. I suggest you give yourself some time to think carefully about what you really want in life.
What I read here is pure bull****, some guy regretting the fact he didnt shag tons of girls in order to adjust to some ho' with a tremendous mileage...
Is this being a DJ ? F*uck...
I want to be clear about something: my posts were meant to show that there is very little REAL connection between sex and love.
I do not think that a woman who has had sex is necessarily a "ho." Look at Tesuque's examples of women who have had lots of sex but wouldn't be called a "ho." His examples include a woman who has had faithful relationships with five guys each lasting a year that simply didn't work out and a woman who has been with one partner but who has done everything sexually possible with him. Neither of these women could be considered "ho's" in my humble opinion. They're not virgins, but they also are not ho's.
Having said that, there may be VERY GOOD REASON for one not wanting to be with a woman with "high mileage" or one who has been promiscuous or has had many different partners and might be termed a "ho." What is high mileage, what is considered "many" will differ for each person.
Some reasons why I personally would not be with a woman who has had a tremendous amount of partners (relative to her age, etc) is that I begin to question her sense of judgment, sense of self-respect and self-esteem, and, somehow, her ability to control her sexual urges. If she has been with many partners, for example, she *may* have some type of sexual addiction which she cannot control (like a drug addict or alcoholic) which *may* be a problem in a committed monogamous relationship.
I do not think that a woman who has had sex is necessarily a "ho." Look at Tesuque's examples of women who have had lots of sex but wouldn't be called a "ho." His examples include a woman who has had faithful relationships with five guys each lasting a year that simply didn't work out and a woman who has been with one partner but who has done everything sexually possible with him. Neither of these women could be considered "ho's" in my humble opinion. They're not virgins, but they also are not ho's.
Having said that, there may be VERY GOOD REASON for one not wanting to be with a woman with "high mileage" or one who has been promiscuous or has had many different partners and might be termed a "ho." What is high mileage, what is considered "many" will differ for each person.
Some reasons why I personally would not be with a woman who has had a tremendous amount of partners (relative to her age, etc) is that I begin to question her sense of judgment, sense of self-respect and self-esteem, and, somehow, her ability to control her sexual urges. If she has been with many partners, for example, she *may* have some type of sexual addiction which she cannot control (like a drug addict or alcoholic) which *may* be a problem in a committed monogamous relationship.
im sad.
im jaded.
im tired.
this generation is not worthy of the thing called marriage.
if i join my generation in living my life chasing pvssy then im not worthy of marriage either.
to me, marriage is something that i want. i want to only love one woman and i want her to only love me.
i dont want my marriage to be a living hell where i know i could be getting pvssy with no strings attached somewhere else.
i want to be the ultimate MAN before i marry, but at the same time have oneitis for the woman i marry. i WANT to have oneitis for her. i dont want to have a "i want this but i dont need this" attitude towards my wife... and i dont want her to have that attitude towards me.
im going to approach approach approach
date date date
NEXT NEXT NEXT NEXT NEXT NEXT NEXT
but more importantly im going to forget about women and build a business. im going to make money, educate myself, do good, and focus on building MY life.
and then, if by some blue moon chance i find a woman that looks like a good mother and respects herself. i might marry
otherwise ill just stay a virgin for the rest of my life. fvck it. i dont need pvssy to live. i dont need to become a player.
bottom line: marriage doesn't work in a society without values. it just does not work (look at the divorce rate in this country as opposed to countries with strong values) theres not the same trust, respect, mystery, challenge, and honor. healthy families are essential to maintaining a healthy society and give the next generation an example.
im jaded.
im tired.
this generation is not worthy of the thing called marriage.
if i join my generation in living my life chasing pvssy then im not worthy of marriage either.
to me, marriage is something that i want. i want to only love one woman and i want her to only love me.
i dont want my marriage to be a living hell where i know i could be getting pvssy with no strings attached somewhere else.
i want to be the ultimate MAN before i marry, but at the same time have oneitis for the woman i marry. i WANT to have oneitis for her. i dont want to have a "i want this but i dont need this" attitude towards my wife... and i dont want her to have that attitude towards me.
im going to approach approach approach
date date date
NEXT NEXT NEXT NEXT NEXT NEXT NEXT
but more importantly im going to forget about women and build a business. im going to make money, educate myself, do good, and focus on building MY life.
and then, if by some blue moon chance i find a woman that looks like a good mother and respects herself. i might marry
otherwise ill just stay a virgin for the rest of my life. fvck it. i dont need pvssy to live. i dont need to become a player.
bottom line: marriage doesn't work in a society without values. it just does not work (look at the divorce rate in this country as opposed to countries with strong values) theres not the same trust, respect, mystery, challenge, and honor. healthy families are essential to maintaining a healthy society and give the next generation an example.
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ah, nevermind
princelydeeds
Master Don Juan
You are going to be very unhappy. You must learn to accept life for what it is. Perhaps it is you who have placed yourself so high above society that noone can live up to your expectations. I think you have put yourself up ona pedestal. Life is life, you only live once, your 20 years old you havent found a wife yet, GET OVER YOURSELF.
Im 29 I still dream of meeting that special someone. If it doesn't happen that will be fine I will keep on moving forward. Have fun, make the most of the cards you have been dealt. Your whole life is in front of you and it is ripe for success. You are going to blow chances and waste opportunity lamenting over this perfect god sent angel. Maybe its not your time to be married or have sum perfect ngel. Perhaps you aren't the perfect angel eitehr and perhaps you areen't ready or can't see whats already in your face.
When I was 18-22 I had the "perfect" woman right in my face. I couldnt see that then but I certainly see it now. At 29, she is everything I could hope for but at 20 I was looking for something, mindblowing, earth shattering and perfect. At 29, I know there was nothign wrong with her I was the one with all the problems. I wasn't mature enough to see what was right in front of my face. The real lesson is that what you think you want, you may not truly want.
PuertoRican_Lover
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"In my mind this is ridiculous. We are living in the 21st century - not in the 1800's."
in reply to newman...
there are certain immutable laws of nature regardless of what century or what time of day it is or what day of the week it is that are non-negoitable - the union between a man and woman and the roles of each is but one example of this natural phenomenon.
too deep to get into here but read pook's article in the dj bible...he explains at length our true nature as male and female - when u violate these laws chaos erupts and all hell brakes loose - hence the current american culture and the familial institutions that r the backbone of the culture r in complete disarray...
- no proof needed cause u already know - turn on your tv - radio - newspapers - magazines -- men have become effeminate and women have taken on masculine triats - so the man oobviously doesn't respect the woman (as evidenced by this website) and the woman doesn't respect her weak man counterpart - and both r left unsatisfied and bitter - and the fruit that they bare (children) pay the price and r lost in this vast wilderness of sexual predators - sexual perversions - lesbianism - homosexuality - teenage pregnancy - "who's my baby's daddy" syndrome - i am going to take you to court for child support fights - pass the kid around (like a hot potato) this week custody battles - i hope i dont have this disease fears - "that aint my baby" proclamations etc...
this society has gone sex sex sex sex crazy - and we r paying the price for this lustful thinking and action.
yes u r right, this sure the hell aint the 1800's - that is the only thing u got right in your post - men didnt bow down to wh@res as so-caled men do today, they put hos in their place - it was called a "house of ill-repute" (notice the prefix "ill").
to marry the liberated wh@re with the polluted womb that had 6+ sexual partners (y not 5 or 4+?) is your perogative but dont call others narrow-minded because they speak the truth - the truth is extremely narrow but the mind must be broad and open enough to embrace it. - and nature is embraced by truth - follow your nature as a man and accept nothing less than the true nature of a woman - which by the way is not a slutty ho - at one time this was a (ho)rror and an aberration however today she is commonplace - at least in the good 'ol US of A!
say no to hos!
in reply to newman...
there are certain immutable laws of nature regardless of what century or what time of day it is or what day of the week it is that are non-negoitable - the union between a man and woman and the roles of each is but one example of this natural phenomenon.
too deep to get into here but read pook's article in the dj bible...he explains at length our true nature as male and female - when u violate these laws chaos erupts and all hell brakes loose - hence the current american culture and the familial institutions that r the backbone of the culture r in complete disarray...
- no proof needed cause u already know - turn on your tv - radio - newspapers - magazines -- men have become effeminate and women have taken on masculine triats - so the man oobviously doesn't respect the woman (as evidenced by this website) and the woman doesn't respect her weak man counterpart - and both r left unsatisfied and bitter - and the fruit that they bare (children) pay the price and r lost in this vast wilderness of sexual predators - sexual perversions - lesbianism - homosexuality - teenage pregnancy - "who's my baby's daddy" syndrome - i am going to take you to court for child support fights - pass the kid around (like a hot potato) this week custody battles - i hope i dont have this disease fears - "that aint my baby" proclamations etc...
this society has gone sex sex sex sex crazy - and we r paying the price for this lustful thinking and action.
yes u r right, this sure the hell aint the 1800's - that is the only thing u got right in your post - men didnt bow down to wh@res as so-caled men do today, they put hos in their place - it was called a "house of ill-repute" (notice the prefix "ill").
to marry the liberated wh@re with the polluted womb that had 6+ sexual partners (y not 5 or 4+?) is your perogative but dont call others narrow-minded because they speak the truth - the truth is extremely narrow but the mind must be broad and open enough to embrace it. - and nature is embraced by truth - follow your nature as a man and accept nothing less than the true nature of a woman - which by the way is not a slutty ho - at one time this was a (ho)rror and an aberration however today she is commonplace - at least in the good 'ol US of A!
say no to hos!
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
Good thinkin PR Lover and SaS - a man should not settle for anything less than what makes him happy, and a man should learn to put first what is most important, and not settle for what will make him unhappy. IMO, there are more feminine women out there but they often get lost in the shuffle, especially in the US, because they are quieter, more reserved and less flamboyant.
Newman, to act like your view is the only correct one, shows how pro-feminist you are, even if subconsciously. Remember, feminism is a bad thing sir.
Newman, to act like your view is the only correct one, shows how pro-feminist you are, even if subconsciously. Remember, feminism is a bad thing sir.
NewMan
Master Don Juan
I'm not Pro nor Anti feminist. I'm a NewManist.
Everyone can do whatever they want.
My point is only, that by ignoring women who have slept with another guy is ignoring women who could make you very happy. Could be the "One".
It's your porogative to choose whatever woman you want - and I respect that.
I believe in 10 yrs time you will have a different attitude - age tends to broaden narrow mindedness.
Thats just my thoughts.
smooth_as_silk
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Come and share this happiness when 'this one' is gonna let you down 'cause u leave her unsatisfied when so many guys in the past were able to.
A woman who's had x (x>1) partners will have x+1 and her life will be about going from man to man and then settle with a loser who thinks she's 'his one' when what she has to offer depreciates (basically her looks and pu$$y tightness).
The worst is that this pathetic losers'attitude gives a justification for these ho's to keep on f*ucking whoever and whenever they want reassured by the fact that some morons will consider finding 'their one' among them. The influence of Men got weaker because of weak guys like you.
It's definitely time to react brothas and to send all these *****es where they all belong.... the garbage dump....
From my experience with some of my friends who have married was the realization after a few years of marriage that they indeed did marry a useless "HO". By then it's too late because they are trapped by "feminist" divorce laws which are geared towards raping men financially and emotionally while rewarding the "HO" with life-long pensions and support while she "HO's" another guy.
Men have been blinded by p***y to their own detriment and are their own worst enemies. We are the biggest victims of the sexual revolution because we let p***y cloud our better judgement and mistake hot sex for love. This to me is akin to slow suicide.
These days marriage has been cheapened from a holy sacrament to a temporay contract where the men end up being screwed. There are exceptions to the rule but today's man better think deeply and wisely about marriage because it has evolved into a "financial enterprise" for women.
I still believe in the old rule...... "There are women you screw and there are women you marry." If you marry the former you might as well sign your death warrant now because your life is over.
Men have been blinded by p***y to their own detriment and are their own worst enemies. We are the biggest victims of the sexual revolution because we let p***y cloud our better judgement and mistake hot sex for love. This to me is akin to slow suicide.
These days marriage has been cheapened from a holy sacrament to a temporay contract where the men end up being screwed. There are exceptions to the rule but today's man better think deeply and wisely about marriage because it has evolved into a "financial enterprise" for women.
I still believe in the old rule...... "There are women you screw and there are women you marry." If you marry the former you might as well sign your death warrant now because your life is over.
Zossima and Silk, you are both 100% dead on...
I have nothing against having lots of GFs, etc. But marriage is a real serious issue. Deadly serious with our divorce laws.
Marriage has the potential to destroy you... and marrying the whong person will ruin you.
Don't take the risk, not with the "ho's" we have running around nowadays.
Just don't do it!
Dietzcoi
I have nothing against having lots of GFs, etc. But marriage is a real serious issue. Deadly serious with our divorce laws.
Marriage has the potential to destroy you... and marrying the whong person will ruin you.
Don't take the risk, not with the "ho's" we have running around nowadays.
Just don't do it!
Dietzcoi
Never try to read a woman's mind. It is a scary place. Ignore her confusing signals and mixed messages. Assume she is interested in you and act accordingly.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.