Hmm, the "Bad Boy" method seems to contradict the general method I've learned.

[Reloaded]

I've learned to approach, show eye contact, be funny, engage in alot of conversation and what-not. However, the bad boy method teaches the exact opposite! It teaches to make yourself scarce, not to freely offer information, and to make it seem that you don't really even care! Which method should I choose? Is there a way to merge them? Plz help!

 

[Reloaded]

You guys are hurting my feelings right now.

 

[rocky_mtn]

rule #1: bad boys don't let their feelings get hurt.

 

[Reloaded]

It was a joke! I was just kidding!

 

[DonJuanForever]

Reloaded, you said this:

"I've learned to approach, show eye contact, be funny, engage in alot of conversation and what-not. However, the bad boy method teaches the exact opposite! It teaches to make yourself scarce, not to freely offer information, and to make it seem that you don't really even care! Which method should I choose? Is there a way to merge them? Plz help!"

When you do what I said in the other thread, this is what happens. Before, you seen women more as something to be conquered, that's why you wanted to seduce them, run patterns, be ****y funny, or do any method to get her interested. Once you got her interested and had sex you said, "I won! I conquered her!" But in reality, she conquered you. Because she took your time and energy. The energy and time you spent on seduction was a lot, and then you had to take her on the date, (you probably paid for it), you had spend your energy making her exciting and thrilled to get her to fvck, or like you said, using your eye contact, Gunwitch stuff.

When do become the alpha male using the strategy I used, I call it "becoming king" you view women and the world differently. Women are no longer things to be conquered but things to be used ( I don't mean that in a bad way), guys are no longer competition but people to make yourself look better ( I don't mean that in a bad way either) You won't really see this until you did what I did. When you do, women will be like fast food restaurants. You'll have 6 to choose from, and all of the 6 will be fighting for your business, for them to get your business, you tell them to give something first (clean, cook, clothes, dinner) before you invest your time with them. YOU ONLY HAVE THIS POWER ONCE YOU HAVE HER LUST. She only lusts after the alpha male, I told you how to be him. Once you have that, you have the same power that women have, you can get what you want, you have options, you have people kissing your azz, everything..................

Sexuality is the key. Women use theirs to get what they want, why don't we use ours?

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

WTF is the "bad boy" method? What you described sounds like the @sshole method.

 

[Reloaded]

That was a long post...

 

[Reloaded]

WTF is the "bad boy" method? What you described sounds like the @sshole method.

ROFFL!

:kick::rockon: :trouble: :moon:

 

[GatorBait]

The key is to integrate facets of bad boy behavior, but to put a more "positive" spin on them. Refer to the article I posted in the other bad boy thread.

 

[Reloaded]

The key is to integrate facets of bad boy behavior, but to put a more "positive" spin on them. Refer to the article I posted in the other bad boy thread.

OMG! That's what started all the trouble in the first place!

:flowers:

 

[GatorBait]

OMG! That's what started all the trouble in the first place!

:flowers:

Ok, I'll say this then. Integrating parts of bad boy attitude can be a good thing. But, you've got to ask yourself what your goal is with each particular women, then adapt.

If you want a one night stand, engage in more conversation, kino, ****y/funny, and try to instantly build attraction and sexual tension. If you've got more time, then you don't need to communicate with them all the time and try so hard to gain their approval.

I don't see what the problem is, everything in the article is something you should be doing regardless of what "method" you practice:

Be more confident and feel as though you're the "catch".
Don't smother the girl. Be a mystery and a challenge.
Exude sexual confidence.
Don't tolerate BS from women.
Keep women guessing. Be more indifferent.
Be more independent. Don't put the rest of your life on hold because of a girl.

All those sound like good traits to me, so what exactly is the problem?

 

[Reloaded]

I don't know. Why?

 

[GatorBait]

I don't know. Why?

You asked for help. Being a bad boy isn't a "method", just integrate those traits into whatever method you are currently practicing.

 

[Reloaded]

Oh, ok. Thanks.

 

[KoalaKing]

DO YOU KNOW WHY MY FRIEND "SHANE" IS SO DAMN SUCCESSFUL WITH GORGEOUS WOMAN, IT IS BECAUSE HE ACTS LIKE A "KING" AND HE COULDN'T GIVE A FU-CK IF ANY HOT BABE LIKED HIM OR NOT, THAT IS WHY THEY DO AND AS A RESULT HE ALWAYS GETS A "FU-CK" AND HE IS ONE VERY FUSSY MAN WHEN IT COMES TO LOOKS, HE NEVER FU-CKS BELOW A HB8. :yes:

 

[Bvbidd]

DO YOU KNOW WHY MY FRIEND "SHANE" IS SO DAMN SUCCESSFUL WITH GORGEOUS WOMAN, IT IS BECAUSE HE ACTS LIKE A "KING" AND HE COULDN'T GIVE A FU-CK IF ANY HOT BABE LIKED HIM OR NOT, THAT IS WHY THEY DO AND AS A RESULT HE ALWAYS GETS A "FU-CK" AND HE IS ONE VERY FUSSY MAN WHEN IT COMES TO LOOKS, HE NEVER FU-CKS BELOW A HB8. :yes:

Why is this all in caps and written with different grammer then all your other posts?

 

[oakraiderz2]

Why dont you try to be a good guy. Not many of those these days. That way youll actually get to where you want to go in life, not just with girls.

 

[Luke Skywalker]

You'll have 6 to choose from, and all of the 6 will be fighting for your business, for them to get your business, you tell them to give something first (clean, cook, clothes, dinner) before you invest your time with them. YOU ONLY HAVE THIS POWER ONCE YOU HAVE HER LUST. She only lusts after the alpha male, I told you how to be him. Once you have that, you have the same power that women have, you can get what you want, you have options, you have people kissing your azz, everything..................

But my mother already does that stuff (cook, clean, clothes, dinner), why would I need one of them girls to do that? They would have to give me accomidation that I can move out of here, and live at their place or something rent-free. So, you think this can be extrapolated as follows: I can become an alpha-male, and move out of here by leaching on some broad that has their own place?

 

[SELF-MASTERY]

This is sickening.

 

[GatorBait]

Why dont you try to be a good guy. Not many of those these days. That way youll actually get to where you want to go in life, not just with girls.

I hate to tell you this, but there are a lot of successful, rich, businessmen that aren't "good guys". I might not necessarily agree with it, but it's true.

I wouldn't suggest a guy ever try to be a "bad boy" just to get women. But, the big problem is that most AFC's are the polar-opposite of a bad boy. They're unconfident wusses who supplicate women to like them. And, once a woman shows an ounce of interest towards them, they end up basing their life around the woman and suffocating them.