Hmm, the "Bad Boy" method seems to contradict the general method I've learned.

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I've met Badboy he is a little arrogant but you can tell he gets women and I have met some other well know PUA's that are ****y, funny, they use eye contact and engage in conversation and they get a lot of women. I use my methods which differ from both the above and I get a lot of women.

What is my point you ask?

Well to use an old cliché there is more than one way to skin a cat.

The methods you use should be methods that compliment your personality. Learning to seduce women is not about becoming an entirely different person, it’s about becoming a better person. Use methods that amplify who you are, not methods that are unnatural to you.

If I meet a guy that is a bit arrogant and a bit of a di*khead but has problems with women I will teach him something akin to the "BadBoy" method because it complements the attitude and skills he already has. If I meet a happy go-lucky person I will teach him methods akin to DYD because that’s a more open method. If I meet a guy that’s shy and shadowy he can easily pickup Mystery Method because it compliments his character.

Understand what I’m saying?
 

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I tried many different styles and the one that works for me is the one that feels right and is a natural part of my personality.

I am very cool and charismatic, and I enjoy interacting with people. I make people feel good about being with me and that's a big part of my initial appeal. Yet I also have a more serious and mature side where I can listen and hold conversations, and people always leave feeling a deep connection with me.

That's just my style and that's what I am natural with. I don't try to be the alpha male either. I'm not the guy who leads the way or arranges nights out, but I'm the guy everyone invites first. I don't try to compete with other men, because I have nothing to prove - I compliment them and encourage them instead.

Just find all your good points and emphasise them, while ironing out your negative points, and you will find your natural style.
 

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I would also like to point out, I'm not trying to be a bad boy-I've been a bad boy by nature.
 

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Interesting.
 
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