Originally posted by Kineti[C]harm
Dude it took me ONE SMS to get her to ask me out and plan a date.... I've never needed to call a girl, EVER. A simple single SMS has always been sufficient .
Yes. Use all tools at your disposal. It's all in how you use it, and how you come across.
You can use messaging, and come across as a guy who's too scared to pick up the phone.
Or, you can come across as a guy who is using messaging because it's simply convienient for him and doesn't care what medium he uses to contact people. Ideally, she'll contact YOU through messaging.
Different things work for different people. Don't jump too quickly and make generalizations like "Messaging is for pu55ies with no ballz"
Peace- -E-Z