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Yeah dude take the hint already.
 

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Re: Re: hints

Originally posted by Slickster
Her :"What did u do last night?"
You: "I can't remember it was too long ago."

Her: "What are you doing tonight?"
You: "I don't know I don't like to plan that far in the future."
Good quote. That was Rick Blaine (Humphrey Bogart) in 'Casablanca', wasn't it?
 

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Go and ask her out, although I know what you are going to do already since you have such a fragile ego. You are going to keep playing the games with her, wondering if she likes you. You will think about her all the time and about what she has said and done and if she likes you. You will become infatuated (that is if you already arent). Eventually you will think, FUKC this I am going to ask her out, by that time you will have lost your window of opportunity. Listen to me or not, but tell me if I am right in the end :D Bet I am wuss!
 

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ARG!!!!

I was like you once, now I'm not. You need to go up to her and ask her out, but it sounds like you have a major road block. By chance, do you have low self-esteem or confednce? Yes you do, well top it. I'm no doctor, but I will presribe this to you. For the rest of your life keep telling your self that you kick ass. You have to keep saying that to yourself until you ask her out. Dude, you are wasting all your time when you need to do it. She won't wait forever and she could be considering givin up on you. Don't screw up your best change.
 

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Like what was said before. Your window is rapidly closing.

The gym is a perfect place to ask her out.

Tell her your hungry and are going for a bite to eat. Does she want to come? Or better yet, Tell her your hungry and what is she buying you for dinner...

Move or loose...
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Originally posted by Reto
Like what was said before. Your window is rapidly closing.

The gym is a perfect place to ask her out.

Tell her your hungry and are going for a bite to eat. Does she want to come? Or better yet, Tell her your hungry and what is she buying you for dinner...

Move or loose...
Wrong.... If a girl has that kind of interest inn you it will seldom drop completely away and if you then start to work her later on (and she doesn't have a bf or anything) she will almost certainly give inn. But now is the best time since she is worked up.
 

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Thanks Kineti[C]harm...I was beginning to sweat as well as **** my pants at the thought that her interest is fading....the thing is with this girl is that she is very pretty and sweet....almost identical to Tara Reid.... which is intimidating. Someone that pretty...a guy begins to wonder if he can measure up even though im 6-2 and 275 pounds of muscle.
 

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I'd wait til next summer... Are you guys high?

Man, I have closed so many windows I can't count. You got to make a move or you're gonna become her girl friend...
 

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Hi all....Sunday Dec 7/03...I went to gym as usual and that fuking **** semi-ignored me...that same girl was there chatting with her.
They were discussing a girl we all knew and she said " why did u date her"? plus I bs'ed her that I went to a club sat night...and she said "usually You don't go anywhere" she made very limited eye contact...although she was flicking her hair. I made a few cracks and made her laugh but I played it cool...she also invited me to join her with sushi but that other girl was gonna come to, so I said next time. I think she gets cold because of that girl.:confused:
 

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Originally posted by Reto
I'd wait til next summer... Are you guys high?

Man, I have closed so many windows I can't count. You got to make a move or you're gonna become her girl friend...
Bullllshiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiit........................................

Gonna give you a tinsywinsy example:
Earlier in like august/september I was at a party with people I didn't know. I sat there talked with people and just drank and was my self. In the sofa sat two girls a HB8-8.5ish and her friend, I talked some with them. I didn't flirt or anything. A week later I met HB8s friend out and we shared a cab home (since we live at same place) and she told me her friend really liked me alot so she gave me her nr. So I got chatting with that girl some via SMS, flirting alot, alot of sexual inuendo etc. She asked me if we should just have sex or actually date and get to know eachother... Nothing happened cause I was swamped with other stuff, other girls etc so we never met. Now 3 months later without no contact I pass her for 3 secs in a door here and we exchange hi's and eyecontact. Later when I get to my room I send her an SMS "Hey nice to see you again darling. So you know after exams you are gonna take me out" and I got some msgs back the whole evening she was sending msgs about what she was doing, how nice it was to see me again etc.

3 months of ZERO contact, we meet for 3 secs and she's all prepped... ? So explain how does that work if it's not like that =) ?
 

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This has to be a joke =)
 

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Originally posted by italostud
Hey buddy, I see you're in Ontario like me. Where abouts do you live? It would be nice if you lived close to me so I could come and smack the **** out of you. Dude, if you can't pick up on those signs, join a monestary. :eek:
I think you should post more italostud... :D
Way to go with the 'light a fire under his ass' gig!!..

The Edge: ' Some have it, and some don't '
 

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Originally posted by Kineti[C]harm
Not refering to my post I assume =)
Nah...I was referring to toolbag.

Who the fvck asks for advice and continues to b!tch about the same sh!t after several people have offered perfectly sensible solutions? A troll, that's who.
 

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Not refering to my post I assume =)
as long as you were talking about SMS'ing some girl instead of grabbing your scrotum and picking up the phone and calling her like a man.. i hope he was referring to your post.. SMS is for pvssies, be a man and talk to her on the phone and ask her out on a date.. let your voice reek of confidence! im not trying to flame you but this SMS shyt is no different than this MSN chat bvllshyt.. its just an excuse for not doing what it takes to be a man, and don't worry, women notice this.. just my 2 cents.. good luck!
 

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What's the purpose of this forum then?

Advice from other men......by the way...fuk off! senior homo more like it....


to the rest of you gentlemen...she also asked "who did you go with" refering to nightclub...thoughts please
 

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Asxx, i gave you advice earlier, and i think you need to act quick. dont worry about this friend of hers because the less you let it bother you the mnore confident you will appear! just flat out ask her out! i doubt she will turn you down but if you keep waiting things out then you are gonna be doomed! do it already! good luck!
 

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Originally posted by OpenMind
as long as you were talking about SMS'ing some girl instead of grabbing your scrotum and picking up the phone and calling her like a man.. i hope he was referring to your post.. SMS is for pvssies, be a man and talk to her on the phone and ask her out on a date.. let your voice reek of confidence! im not trying to flame you but this SMS shyt is no different than this MSN chat bvllshyt.. its just an excuse for not doing what it takes to be a man, and don't worry, women notice this.. just my 2 cents.. good luck!
Dude it took me ONE SMS to get her to ask me out and plan a date.... I've never needed to call a girl, EVER. A simple single SMS has always been sufficient .
 

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hi

I was gonna...today.... but that **** friend of hers was there so i went in gym...waited an hour and she was still there!!! FUK!!!
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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