Her Going Feminine

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Is that what happened to you Spazm? Guru crushed your ego in both threads, and because Spazm didn’t want to go egoless as guru humbly suggested and foresaw, you developed the Spazm alter ego to align with pink Ranger and Jagoff the pvssycat, to make the new gay trio to join hands and sing Dancing Queens.

You’re right, the ego is multi-layered and multi-dimensional lol
 

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Is the facade gone Ranger? Do you still need Guru’s advice via PM or are you going to follow a little guy who can’t form a logical thought in a third world country?
It looks like you found a girl or two to hang out with you on this thread. Good for you buddy.
You go gurl.
 

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It looks like you found a girl or two to hang out with you on this thread. Good for you buddy.
You go gurl.
Is this Epically Back-Door or Pink Ranger? To which ego or alter ego am I speaking??

Seems like all the Dancing Queens have alter-egos except Jagoff the Pvssycat. Or is he the third brownie Queen not worthy of the alter-ego?
 

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Is this Epically Back-Door or Pink Ranger? To which ego or alter ego am I speaking??

Seems like all the Dancing Queens have alter-egos except Jagoff the Pvssycat. Or is he the third brownie Queen not worthy of the alter-ego?
I'm sympathetic to ur condition.

I won't be replying directly to you since I'm not medically qualified in cases like this, a proactive measure just in case you get unhinged further and start shooting people in the streets of NYC while chanting my name.

But feel free to post as you deem fit, it might help you reconcile.
 

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Why is there continued in fighting within the community.

When in Rome ...

Consider this a service to the community. I’m destroying egos and then alter egos to create the egoless. It’s for the greater good.
I'm sympathetic to ur condition.

I won't be replying directly to you since I'm not medically qualified in cases like this, a proactive measure just in case you get unhinged further and start shooting people in the streets of NYC while chanting my name.

But feel free to post as you deem fit, it might help you reconcile.
Spazm-Gurgler, remember this is a thread in leading. So who leads, you lead him as Epically Back-Door, and he leads you as Pink Ranger?

Now instruct us on how the big bad Feminine Imperative made you do it.
 

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When in Rome ...

Consider this a service to the community. I’m destroying egos and then alter egos to create the egoless. It’s for the greater good.

Spazm-Gurgler, remember this is a thread in leading. So who leads, you lead him as Epically Back-Door, and he leads you as Pink Ranger?

Now instruct us on how the big bad Feminine Imperative made you do it.
Well I guess we can all see that the fake guy is gone now. How can we make it better for you?
 

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Guru gives practical advice. Things that might actually help someone. I'll give him that.
That would depend not just on results but sustainability.

And if you wish to go down in that rabbit hole, we could then test ur game knowledge vs mine.

You'll be just like Alice in Wonderland, ain't that exciting?
 

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That would depend not just on results but sustainability.

And if you wish to go down in that rabbit hole, we could then test ur game knowledge vs mine.

You'll be just like Alice in Wonderland, ain't that exciting?
That and Guru more or less admitted that he’s willing to destroy the mindset of someone in order to get them to see things the way he does, which is in itself despotic. He worded it to the effect of “I get rid of the egos and make the egoless”. So, as it turns out, Guru doesn’t care about another man’s point of view, or his beliefs. If he’s against Guru he needs to be “educated”, attacking their self worth and molding them to the way he thinks they should be.

Quite the opposite of helpful. His education is a barrage on a man’s mind. Not actual solutions.
 
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That would depend not just on results but sustainability.

And if you wish to go down in that rabbit hole, we could then test ur game knowledge vs mine.

You'll be just like Alice in Wonderland, ain't that exciting?
Ok, boy.

I've seen guru give top notch advice on how to get laid. All I've seen you say is some vague sh1t about being a leader.
 

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Ok, boy.

I've seen guru give top notch advice on how to get laid. All I've seen you say is some vague sh1t about being a leader.
Pick any topic you feel you're really good at in ur game.

Then elaborate on it.

And it better be real good.
 
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Pick any topic you feel you're really good at in ur game.

Then elaborate on it.

And it better be real good.
I'm good at reading people. I'm reading you as full of sh1t.

How can anyone find the time to consistently post dozens of times a day? I honestly don't know..enlighten me boy
 

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I'm good at reading people. I'm reading you as full of sh1t.

How can anyone find the time to consistently post dozens of times a day? I honestly don't know..enlighten me boy
Then it will be very easy for you to explain how does a CEO like Elon Musk is so free to post on twitter, fvcks around, enjoys his time, flies to multiple countries and yet runs several companies?

You see buddy, the higher a man goes the more free time he has.

And the lower he is the more busy he is, that's why you have a hard time comparing because you're only ever been at the lower end.
 
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Then it will be very easy for you to explain how does a CEO like Elon Musk is so free to post on twitter, fvcks around, enjoys his time, flies to multiple countries and yet runs several companies?

You see buddy, the higher a man goes the more free time he has.

And the lower he is the more busy he is, that's why you have a hard time comparing because you're only ever been at the lower end.
Typical spaz. Point out something obvious and try to make it your own.

I respect your hustle, but I don't like you
 

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Typical spaz. Point out something obvious and try to make it your own.

I respect your hustle, but I don't like you
Who do you think is gallivanting around town, in gentleman clubs or in other establishments whilst most, like u, are busy working?

Go ahead and check it out, you'd be surprised to see how full those places are at 10:30am to 3pm.

You might even see ur company owner there.
 

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Three more components of effective leadership:

1) Giving value to your clients and employees;
2) Serving your employees’ and clients’ needs before your own (seems like #1 but disparate);
3) The will to be great and expansive which demands other people to assist, whom you can lead

This discussion began with how to lead women and took a tangent. However, an effective leader can also lead women as a consequence of who he is, not as a stratagem.

Welcome all counters to further the discussion, @taiyuu_otoko @fastlife @samspade. Absent counters, then it is agreed.
@guru1000 applaud you for fighting the good fight in the face of dog pile, changing goal posts, tautologies, & ad hominem. My interest in this thread was to clear up misinformation. When something sounds good and all these accounts are agreeing with it, even though it has no basis in reality, it's easy for guys who don't have that experience to get sucked in and waste their time.

I'd hesitate to use the word 'effective.' Tyranny can be effective leadership. So can manipulation. But it comes back to the idea of being egoless. Benevolent. Abundant. High-quality people see through low-quality leadership (for the most part, given enough time). People with options will bounce. But I think it comes down to making a choice about who you want to be, and realizing that the standards you hold yourself to are for your benefit, and for your relationship with yourself and others. It's easy to get ego-invested in the idea that doing the right thing is the reason for your success, when really the same outcome could be achieved by being low-quality, and fvcking people over along the way.
 

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The greatest teacher is the one with the most students, but one who has graduated the most to the point where the students feel like they have nothing more to learn from him.

The greatest master is not the one with the most followers but one who creates the most masters.

The greatest leader is not the one with the most people relying on him, but one who empowers the most to rely on themselves. He delegates responsibilities to his subordinates so that he can be free to focus on his vision.

The greatest parent is not the one who's child does not want to leave, but one who propels the child into the world.

The greatest lover is not the one with the most admirers, but one who left every person better than when he found them.....and so they don't need him anymore.

And the greatest god is not the one with the most worshippers, but one who creates the most gods. God's vision is that his children will one day be like him. Unlimited potential.
Very perceptive stormrider.

And that's how it's supposed to be.

A leader is 1st and foremost a teacher who empowers others.
 

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Very perceptive stormrider.

And that's how it's supposed to be.

A leader is 1st and foremost a teacher who empowers others.
A leader always serves others
 
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