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[apvcovenman_79]

If you guys are dating a girl you of course like a lot ....but she has a very bad and distant relationship with her DADdy .....does that indicates automatically that she will have a bad attitude or relationship towards me ??? .....a lot of people say that what you see at home is what you will get ..... but I don't know how much this is true.... if it is true at all ..... what you see is what you get ???

 

[ryoshi]

This is actually a good point and is something that has come up recently.

The last two heartless psycho b¡tches I took out did not have any contact with their fathers. In turn they ended up having horrible relationships with guys in the past and treated me like sh¡t. They end up being more wild then others but not in the fun way. These b¡tches are only good for banging. No LTR relationship with these unless she can prove otherwise. Usually you can tell right away.

I've noticed that guys who have good relationships with their mothers end up as good mates for women too.

 

[journey]

Well, some studies (sorry I dont have the source at the momment) have concluded that girls who have an absent male role model will be more likely to be sexually active and at a younger age. Basicly looking for love in all the wrong places.

 

[Starman]

Yes, this is a good topic.

Ladies with abusive fathers will often grow up dating "the jerks" who will treat them as if their father did.

If the Father yelled and hit her..this becomes "normal" in the childs mind..and thus guys who display those characteristics will appeal to women like this.

Why?

The father is the "role model" figure in the household. The one people look up to (even if it is abusive) the child will begin to think she deserved to be verbally/physically assaulted.(thus lowering their self worth/esteem drastically)

This then grows into adulthood..where the female adult accepts bad treatment by jerks. Because they associate the jerk with their fathers (i.e. the head of the household)

Sadly, AFC's even come short with these women because they DONT act like their fathers..they are too nice..too polite..too caring...which sends confusing messages to the girl..

"This guy is too good for me..I dont deserve to be treated this way..I should be treated the way daddy treated me"

absent fathers tend to send girls into a sexual frenzy..even to a point where they subconsciously hate men..they turn towards alcohol, drugs, same gendered sex, multiple partnered sex..

Because there really was no direction, guidance or template about sexuality the female child had to follow..she was like a loose cannon

But there are too many circumstances to lump and stereotype..but this is the typical impact of absent/abusive fathers on women

 

[ryoshi]

Originally posted by journey
Well, some studies (sorry I dont have the source at the momment) have concluded that girls who have an absent male role model will be more likely to be sexually active and at a younger age. Basicly looking for love in all the wrong places.

True, which is why a lot of them are fücked up in the head both sexually and mentally.

One thing that seems to be common with them is the fact that a lot cannot or have not achieved a real orgasm in their lives.

 

[apvcovenman_79]

interesting ...

you mean guys that even with all the knowledge about DJskills that we have it won't work on girls like this? just because of the daddy ? ....we still should be abusive? acting like an abusive jerk ?

I think that DJ skills are for clinically sane women...
but abusive is for a fvckyn id1ot

 

[Starman]

apv , its the other way around..DJ skills work on the most insecure women..the really secure ones have their heads on straight..

and wont tolerate any B.S. from any guy..I know a few adjusted women like this..they are usually a bit older and wiser..and most likely have learned from their mistakes

Psycho chicks are easy to get in their mind

 

[Player_Supreme]

Originally posted by Starman
Yes, this is a good topic.

Ladies with abusive fathers will often grow up dating "the jerks" who will treat them as if their father did.

If the Father yelled and hit her..this becomes "normal" in the childs mind..and thus guys who display those characteristics will appeal to women like this.

Why?

The father is the "role model" figure in the household. The one people look up to (even if it is abusive) the child will begin to think she deserved to be verbally/physically assaulted.(thus lowering their self worth/esteem drastically)

This then grows into adulthood..where the female adult accepts bad treatment by jerks. Because they associate the jerk with their fathers (i.e. the head of the household)

Sadly, AFC's even come short with these women because they DONT act like their fathers..they are too nice..too polite..too caring...which sends confusing messages to the girl..

"This guy is too good for me..I dont deserve to be treated this way..I should be treated the way daddy treated me"

absent fathers tend to send girls into a sexual frenzy..even to a point where they subconsciously hate men..they turn towards alcohol, drugs, same gendered sex, multiple partnered sex..

Because there really was no direction, guidance or template about sexuality the female child had to follow..she was like a loose cannon

But there are too many circumstances to lump and stereotype..but this is the typical impact of absent/abusive fathers on women

I hate to say this but you are right in your post starskum. Women like those described above make perfect ho's for pimps to prey upon.

Where did you get your info...most laymen do not know this stuff.

 

[Dell SkyCat]

Originally posted by Player_Supreme
I hate to say this but you are right in your post starskum. Women like those described above make perfect ho's for pimps to prey upon.

Where did you get your info...most laymen do not know this stuff.

He's a clinical psychologist. Just talks to us in laymen terms.

 

[Howie Farkes]

Originally posted by journey
Well, some studies (sorry I dont have the source at the momment) have concluded that girls who have an absent male role model will be more likely to be sexually active and at a younger age. Basicly looking for love in all the wrong places.

Or because there's no one on the porch with a shotgun scaring off potential suitors.

 

[Starman]

Originally posted by Player_Supreme
I hate to say this but you are right in your post starskum. Women like those described above make perfect ho's for pimps to prey upon.

Where did you get your info...most laymen do not know this stuff.

My info is in my head..somewhere you are dying to be in .. but sadly..you will never attain this vast amount of knowledge I have..I can go on..but I dont write sermons like you do

Quick and to the point

 

[apvcovenman_79]

?

if they had an abusive father ....but if they had a nice guy as a father would they go for a nice guy ?

some1 clear this mess

 

[Player_Supreme]

Don't bother I just looked up your profile and went to a post listed there. You are a minor leage head shrink. I'm dissapointed in you. For someone in your field engaging in games like this. I guess it's true...you guys go into that to find out what is wrong with yourselves.

I will never trust a psychologist again. It shows even you guys can be corrupted and bought down to baseness and benal behavior. What a shame. Also a shame with your education I know it's not as exhaustive as a real psych. person with a medical degree but you should of known better!

Oh in the area of long post, I can't help if I have a lot to say. Intelligent people usually do have alot on their minds.

I pray for your clients...you probably fantasize about them.

 

[Player_Supreme]

Oh don't bother, I've never been to a psychologist...but I have trained a few of them...the last one was a real nut case....

 

[Starman]

Let me show you exactly how you humiliate yourself over and over again in public with your frivilous and nonsense motor mouth

I am a Research Psychologist, and going into criminal profiling working for the courts

Betchya didnt know all psych's aren't shrinks didja??

Do black men blush from humiliation?? because right about now you should be lookin like a rotted plum

 

[apvcovenman_79]

????

if they had an abusive father ....but if they had a nice guy as a father would they go for a nice guy ?

some1 clear this mess

 

[SLIKKER_THAN_AVG]

this is an interesting topic.

What about hyper sensitive dramatic girls? Would that also be a result of their relationships with their fathers?

Or..is that just something that comes about from other factors.

 

[Starman]

Unfortunately Apv..Psychologists dont study "healthy" individuals as much as they study ones with issues..

I would say..if a girl had a good relationship with her father..she would become a "daddy's girl"..still trying to appease her father by making smart choices in dating..and marriage

where abused women dont have a good relationship with their father..but still want to appease their fathers..so they mistakenly.."project"

that is, they date jerks subconsciously thinking "daddy was a jerk..my b/f is a jerk" so I will try to appease my boyfriend/dad in ANY way I can

 

[Player_Supreme]

Uhh sorry I did know that...remember I have trained a few of them. I know you guys don't have medical degree's. So your one of those research geeks...that explains alot.

Paper pushers. Bean counters. You continue to engage in this type of behavior even though your a trained psychologist? WOW! Thats all I can say. And to think I gave you a compliment above.

As far as your chosen field sorry I'm not impressed. I've been to parties where pyschologist were smoking weed and lot all respect for you guys years ago.

I've had a friend of a relative married to a psychiatrist and lost all respect for them years ago.

I had a friend who was paid to have sex with the wife of another psychiatrist years ago and never re-gained respect for them.

Maybe you should take your college degree and 1 year of internship and put it to use and psychoanalyze yourself into some Pu*ssy kid.

And don't bother making racial comebacks. I didn't ask what race you are but I can guess judging by your big nose and your horsey face in your photo.

Stick to research and leave the reality of handling women to the pro's.

 

[Starman]

hahahahah you are so full of Sh1t your eyes are turning brown..

What exactly did you "train" a few psychologists to do?? Use Windows ? Load the Internet??

AGain you are flaunting your nonexistant skills

Yes, Ive seen shrinks, cardiologists, professors, dentists, grade school teachers..and many others do drugs and binge drink

your point?? That Shrinks are More human than the average person??

Please..just hang your head to the ground where it belongs..and step out..and save yourself a shred of dignity

and WHO was making a racial remark?? Thats just your own insecurity.. I simply asked if african americans blush..

dont play the race card with me Ving Rhymes