No Offense but it seems like you have an inferiority complex! Not trying to bust on ya just trying to open your eyes.
Dj jr...none taken. Your right I do have an inferiority complex. And I use women for the love I never got from my moms. What I posted was just about me, since he asked for that info. I'd rather leave it private...especially there are those out there who would call the station and try to cause problems....As a kid black parents drill into their kids heads "never trust.....folks" no offense and no diss intended or racial slurs or any of that crap.
I know my weaknesses. I know why I post here is for ego alone selfish and self centered. but look at my average postings and look at others who have a daily rate as high as 7.8 and you will see the bigger ego.
I like to share what I know for vanity reasons alone. I've paid my dues. Oh about keeping girls longer, my problem is that I can't get rid of them with a stick...lol..just making a joke gentlemen.
Here is something I posted at another site in the area of being a player:
The Game
What is slowing a lot of players down is that they falsely believe that they are harming someone by being a player. You need to think the game as a world that you enter. Think of it as a separate world from the world that you live in with it’s own set of rules.
In the real world you have a balance of power, democratizing, political correctness. Rules that say you should act humble and modest and do not offend others.
In the game you need to be more of the real you. If you think that timid, humble, overly polite person is the real you, then you need to think again. “No one is born timid: timidity is a protection we develop. If we never stick our necks out, if we never try,, we will never have to suffer the consequences of failure or success, If we are kind and unobtrusive, no one will be offended- in fact we will seem saintly and likable.”
“In truth, timid people are often self-absorbed, obsessed with the way people see them, and not at all saintly”
In the game you need to take off that false face you wear out in the world and be more of the real you. Yes you were born self absorbed, self centered, selfish, an ******* as I’ve been called numerous times. You need to let your shadow side that needs expression free. “In a dance, two people cannot lead. One takes over, sweeping the other along.”
In the game holding back cause you think there is some kinda need to share power is stupid and will get you played and nowhere…actually in no puszsy land.
This arena is not for the stupid and faint of heart, cause you will get played by craftier women for all you have. You will get taken on an emotional roller coaster ride with a crashing finish at the end, instead of the reverse.
In this game you “man up”, that means step the fu*ck up. Don’t worry about the consequences or the other person. “console yourself with the thought that the pleasure of the one who surrenders is often greater than that of the aggressor.”
In this game the end result is your pleasure. That is all you care about. Like I say when your in the game you’re their to play. “this is chess not checkers”-Denzel Washington.
In this university you need to learn to leave the normal world that you live in and take the correct pill to a new reality.
peace
Now you guys being gentlemen and all that may not like what I have to say....but there are plenty who do.
On this site see that there are a few factions:
1. symp player wanna be's
2. symps looking for a girlfriend
3. true players like matt ala casanova and a few others
My message is for those who want to be like number 3 and for number 3's alone. Just hit your ignore button and you never have to read another word that I spit (urban for speak, say, write or communicate).
This being a free enviornment all are allowed to voice their opinions and ideas so let's keep it that way! Not all black folks are quiet... humble and shuffle their feet and bow their heads....just jokin again gentlemen....just jokes...don't get your panties in a bunch...
peace,
Oh and of course Starman is right on the money with his post here. My purpose in arguing with him was to get him to become more productive and not harrass others by engaging him in our little display....by pointing out this weakness he has tightened up his game...so I accomplished what I set out to do. Am I manipulative? hell ya...by any means necessary. Now he is a productive member on this board not a wise ass. I don't mind taking some blows to create a desired goal...just as I did with Helter Skelter...he knows by private email what I wanted to accomplish.
