pinoypower
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what's the best way to get to know a shy woman better?
we are both 22. We know each other from class in college.
I've never really delt with a woman this shy before.
I never really talked to her until close to the end of the semester. I talked to other women in class for most of the semester. One day I decided to sit next to her and start some light conversation here and there.
nearing the end of the finals, she called me (which is weird) cause i never gave my number to her. she said she got my number from one of the women that i know in class. she had some questions about the finals (haha, her excuse to talk to me).
because of this, i knew she was interested, so i asked her she she wanted to go out on a date. she said that she recently ended a really long relationship. and that she is not ready to date, actually she said that she has never dated before. she was quite excited to get to know me better and she immediately gave me her cell phone number without even me asking.
a week and a half after the semester I called her if she wanted to go out to lunch. LUNCH! she was very hesitant with her answer she actually said she isn't ready because she gets really really nervous around guys. then she told me that she went out with one guy before and she cried after the date because of how bad it went. She wanted to get to know me on the phone. I told her that i don't really like to get to know people on the phone. since phone conversations vs. real life are very very different. You just don't get that connection on the phone.
One thing about me is that i actually hate phones. there is no reason for using phones other that setting up plans/dates or emergency. which should not last more than 5 minuites. i wanted to tell her this but i didn't want to give a jerkish impression in the beginning so i did not.
she really wanted to talk to me on the phone so i tried to adjust but just couldn't hang with phone conversations. One of the things she told me was she was really surprised when i asked her out. She said that i was the only person who ever asked her out.
I said that I'll talk to her later and she asked me WHY???, i told her i don't know, i'll just talk to you later. she suggested talking through email if that was better (WTF?) i told her that i don't know what i will do and that i'll just talk to her later.
i really don't get this. what fun is there to talk on the phone??? and email?? uGHH! is this what technology has brought to people nowadays? it seems like people are becoming shyer and shyer both men and women.
what would jesus do? I'm thinkin of leaving her alone until she gets the courage to go out on a lunch date with me. LUNCH!! Which from what i am seeing she has many years until she gets the courage and confidence for LUNCH!!!
we are both 22. We know each other from class in college.
I've never really delt with a woman this shy before.
I never really talked to her until close to the end of the semester. I talked to other women in class for most of the semester. One day I decided to sit next to her and start some light conversation here and there.
nearing the end of the finals, she called me (which is weird) cause i never gave my number to her. she said she got my number from one of the women that i know in class. she had some questions about the finals (haha, her excuse to talk to me).
because of this, i knew she was interested, so i asked her she she wanted to go out on a date. she said that she recently ended a really long relationship. and that she is not ready to date, actually she said that she has never dated before. she was quite excited to get to know me better and she immediately gave me her cell phone number without even me asking.
a week and a half after the semester I called her if she wanted to go out to lunch. LUNCH! she was very hesitant with her answer she actually said she isn't ready because she gets really really nervous around guys. then she told me that she went out with one guy before and she cried after the date because of how bad it went. She wanted to get to know me on the phone. I told her that i don't really like to get to know people on the phone. since phone conversations vs. real life are very very different. You just don't get that connection on the phone.
One thing about me is that i actually hate phones. there is no reason for using phones other that setting up plans/dates or emergency. which should not last more than 5 minuites. i wanted to tell her this but i didn't want to give a jerkish impression in the beginning so i did not.
she really wanted to talk to me on the phone so i tried to adjust but just couldn't hang with phone conversations. One of the things she told me was she was really surprised when i asked her out. She said that i was the only person who ever asked her out.
I said that I'll talk to her later and she asked me WHY???, i told her i don't know, i'll just talk to you later. she suggested talking through email if that was better (WTF?) i told her that i don't know what i will do and that i'll just talk to her later.
i really don't get this. what fun is there to talk on the phone??? and email?? uGHH! is this what technology has brought to people nowadays? it seems like people are becoming shyer and shyer both men and women.
what would jesus do? I'm thinkin of leaving her alone until she gets the courage to go out on a lunch date with me. LUNCH!! Which from what i am seeing she has many years until she gets the courage and confidence for LUNCH!!!