Help me understand this girl's BS

[New_Journey]

because she's saving herself for this guy to ask her out, though she clearly doesn't respect him if she's making out with me

Cause you're the Alpha Fvcks and that guy probably is the Beta Bvcks. Don't be suprise if one day she asks you to go over there to fvck her.

 

[Solomon]

That's fair, I just didn't understand her reasoning.

The whole fact that she was interested in me, but doesn't want me over, because she's saving herself for this guy to ask her out, though she clearly doesn't respect him if she's making out with me...

Anyway, I'm building a business so if she can't wait that's cool if that's her standard, I'll just have to meet somebody else.

Something that rarely gets talked about on here but is important when it comes to dating or dealing with women Is being in a mentally good place. I'm not saying OP you're in a bad spot mentally. However having women reject you, play games with you, or not take you seriously, using your example because you don't have your own place can mess with your head and can be emasculating. Women are fickle. I had a woman a few years ago drop me and part of her reasoning was my old apartment was "too small" Clearly, she was looking for a provider( and I'm glad I did not fit the role cause I was broke at the time working to be where I'm at now). Some women will overlook or make concessions for things they deem deal breakers if you are their type physically and bang them like a stud, however, most women do not give men grace if the man has something that for women is a deal breaker i.e. no job, live with their parents, fat etc. This can affect you mentally. This is why it's important to not just focus on your physical health but mentally as well so that when you're dating you have all your ducks in a row. I'm not saying you have to be perfect we all deal with shyt but if you're dealing with stress, depression, or not having your own place it can mentally affect you. Women are far more judgmental when it comes to these things than men are(hence they love all that therapy jargon)

Personally I take breaks all the time to focus on my mental health or focus on other endeavors it not only refreshes my mind but also my soul. This chick wants you over the other guy but the other guy like @New_Journey says is the beta bucks so he's a safer option, however, he's not making her coochy wet. Hence she is exercising the dual strategy most women tend to do when they are dating different men (Alpha fux, Beta Bucks)