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Help me get over my extreme negativity/defeatism with women

guru1000

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my best friend is 5'11 195 7% BF and he has had multiple women tell him he is too big and too ripped


it just doesn't look healthy or natural and face looks sickly. Why would you want to get below 9 to 10% BF dude? you look like a cancer patient
With weak facial bone structure, your face will look worse with sub 10% bf levels. With strong bone structure, your face will look better. Nothing a few CCs of Radiesse couldn't fix for those of you with weaker bone structure (cheekbones/jaw).

I range and look best at 8%-10%. Any lower than that requires too much time (which I don't have) and compromises my energy levels.
 

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With weak facial bone structure, your face will look worse with sub 10% bf levels. With strong bone structure, your face will look better. Nothing a few CCs of Radiesse couldn't fix for those of you with weaker bone structure (cheekbones/jaw).

I range and look best at 8%-10%. Any lower than that requires too much time (which I don't have) and compromises my energy levels.

I have a very strong jawline/chin as you saw and I think even for me 8 is too low
 

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Op you ain't as good looking as you think, especially now we've seen the car pic, you did it for reassurance, you need constant validation
 

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I have a very strong jawline/chin as you saw and I think even for me 8 is too low
You don't need 8%. 10% is sufficient. I guesstimate based on the stand-up munchkin pic in the OP, you're about 20% bf. Accordingly, to get down to 10%, you will have to lose 19.5 lbs of fat. Then you'll be sporting the 6s of your dreams pal.
 

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Op you ain't as good looking as you think, especially now we've seen the car pic, you did it for reassurance, you need constant validation
He looks alright. His swag and confidence is ate up right now. I know he will perk right up if he can get his life to where he can get good pvssy on demand.
 

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Swag and confidence?? Blokes a narcassist if there ever was one

May aswell spk 3rd person
 

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Swag and confidence?? Blokes a narcassist if there ever was one

May aswell spk 3rd person
If he a narcissist he needs to drop that narcissism. It obviously isn't helping him. He needs to humble himself and start all over lol.

That current image will keep him stuck exactly where he is at!
 
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