OK - guys I just wanted to respond to what some of you have said about me even sending the email - to some extent I agree and to some I don't.
I do agree that letting a woman know that she has made you angry does give her a certain degree of power over you - but I think the context is important - I mean if you never tell a woman that her behavior is unacceptable then ultimately she will think you are a spineless wimp who is not able to stand up to her or put her in her place when she is out of line.
Now I know the next argument is, well a DJ can do that without showing anger - and I somewhat agree - but here's my counter to that argument -
when I was a child and I would do something that I wasn't supposed to, my mother would yell at me - generally, me being the little pain in the ass that I was, that wasn't enough to get me to stop doing what I was doing. Most of the time my mother would have to walk up and give me a good smack in the head before I realized that I had better cut it out.
My point is, that sometimes an expression of anger, emotion(note: I am not advocating beating up women) is necessary to get your point across and to correct undesired behavior.
The more and more I learn about women the more and more I realize how childish they can be (petty, selfish, large mood swings, argumentative, etc) - so sometimes they need a metaphorical "wack in the head".
The other reason that I will sometimes show my anger to a woman is that if I don't, I feel as if I have somehow betrayed myself. I am the type of person where if I don't like somebody or somebody pisses me off, I tell them. I have always been this way and I have gotten in my fair share of fights in my time because of this. But even if somebody winds up disliking me or wanting to kick my ass, they will generally at least respect me for not being afraid to voice my opinion.
Anyway, I realized that I am this way with EVERYONE that I come in contact with EXCEPT a woman who I am trying to bed. For some reason, I will make excuses for these women and let them slide on a whole lot of sh!t that if any other person did, I would be all over them. I decided that I needed to stop that and remain true to myself regardless of who I'm dealing with.
Hope that makes sense.
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