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help! - in love with married co-worker

romangod

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Twistedreality said:
Thanks for all the replies, guys.

romangod -
Wow, you're right. I know she's fully capable of chewing me up and spitting me out - and I can sure confirm that it would be without a second thought. Guess I need a kick in the ass to get me motivated to get away from this woman.

Get that kick in the ass as soon as possible. You've dug yourself a hole that will only get deeper and darker. It's time to work on yourself and forget about this "soul mate". Cheers!
 

Nelford

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You had the chance to get those guts in the beginning, but you choose platonic friendship over casual sex. While you were out drinking with her you should have told her exactly what you wanted instead of being the nice guy. Why do you want to marry a women that cheats on her husband?
 

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I am assuming he is as old as 45 and as young as 28. My assumption is based on the fact that the woman is 10-years his junior (and based on how she acts). Not knowing the age...the issue here is that this dude was unemployed for 5 years. Being unemployed for five years during your adulhood life is not a laughing matter.

And NOW that he finally has a job, he is risking it with this crap. I know of several cases in which a man has been fired, after the spouse of the woman that man was pursuing complained to their boss. This dude gets fired, he might not find another job for another 5 years!

That's the DJ way of seeing things, IMO.
 

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Don't bother. Even if you some wild, passionate affair...they never leave the marriage. Do you really want to go through years of that kind of crap? No, you don't. Find a quality woman who wouldn't cheat. Remember, if they cheat with you, they'll cheat on you.
 

DonGorgon

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LOL.... nothing new here... 80% of cheating and infedelity happens with coworkers or classmates.. basically we tend to find mates where ever we spend most of your time...LOL

Your wife /girlfriend is at work and she is flirting and fing guys there that is life adn denial is 90% of the game so dont expect admition..
 

Don't always be the one putting yourself out for her. Don't always be the one putting all the effort and work into the relationship. Let her, and expect her, to treat you as well as you treat her, and to improve the quality of your life.

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tick37

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All I had to read was the title. Get your head out of your a$$ and find available women. This woman is taken and is not for you. If you get hung up on this woman, you'll get hung up on any woman. Don't be a fool!
 

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tick37 said:
All I had to read was the title. Get your head out of your a$$ and find available women. This woman is taken and is not for you. If you get hung up on this woman, you'll get hung up on any woman. Don't be a fool!
No women is "taken"... they are shared around among men just cause you dont know who else is fing "your woman" does not mean its not happening.
 

tick37

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No women is "taken"... they are shared around among men just cause you dont know who else is fing "your woman" does not mean its not happening.
Regardless of you philosophy, she's off limits.
 
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