See, I don't mind your sharing texts Hank, even if it were misconstrued by others as a humble brag. Looks like you got her where you want you her. Just don't let her words acquiesce your emotional surrender. They are just words buddy. Nice calibrations.
Or this one from a week ago (again no lies were told):
That's what I was curious about, that's a good txt example for any situation!
I don't know man, it seems childish, akin to the d1ck measuring contests. I can post dozens upon dozens of provocative txts but unless it has a purpose to serve in the right context I don't.
Like this one from a couple of days ago (and some get pretty detailed) but I don't see the point other than seeking validation/approval from unknown people on the interwebs. BTW, I didn't have to lie about anything to her, makes things so much simpler and easier when there's no deception to maintain.
Or this one from a week ago (again no lies were told):
That's what I was curious about, that's a good txt example for any situation!
Not to beat a dead horse here, but I can't help but think that this can be accomplished without lying, especially if you have some real value to begin with. When you said you weren't "dating" anyone else though, I'm not sure that is necessarily a lie, considering different people will define "dating" differently. Some only think you are "dating" if it is a serious LTR type thing. Anyway, for a man to "kiss and tell" could be considered unchivalrous. Bottom line, it's not her business who you're seeing anyway. This might fall under the "white lie" category.
What I took from it was that he was banging her in the @ss.
High value holds no value to her if you are not meeting her needs. If she needs exclusivity and that is not what are willing to provide, irrespective of your value, she’s history.Not to beat a dead horse here, but I can't help but think that this can be accomplished without lying, especially if you have some real value to begin with. When you said you weren't "dating" anyone else though, I'm not sure that is necessarily a lie, considering different people will define "dating" differently. Some only think you are "dating" if it is a serious LTR type thing. Anyway, for a man to "kiss and tell" could be considered unchivalrous. Bottom line, it's not her business who you're seeing anyway. This might fall under the "white lie" category.
Ha, that sounds just like something I woulds say. I just wouldn't be phased by it. Like you say, it's a spontaneous reaction, if it's gonna happen it's gonna happen. As un-PC as that may sound.
LOL
If it's with that intention sure and that's what I said earlier too.
What I took from it was that he was banging her in the @ss.
It's a 3 step process fellas...aim, acquire target, you know the rest LOL
An interesting scenario for sure. Even after you told her that you're only seeing her she wants to take sex off the table? sh1t test?
I didn’t arrange a place yet. Let’s remember her mother is her dating authority and watching lol. So I can’t pick my place or a place relatively close to me, as that will prompt her mother to tell her don’t go there. So I have to be sly. THIS is “game.”
Haha
Yes, I know with a reasonable certainty that she may fall for me. I know this by my track record of success in similar situations and her relative inexperience. Though I do not know that she will get hurt because No matter how emotionally unavailable I might intrinsically be or how experienced I am or she may not be, if I spend enough time with her and she meets my needs, I, too, might fall for her. The exact outcome of where the chips will fall is not certain although probabilities due to our experience levels might demonstrate differently.
Change of plans.
Sounds like you're tired of being water.
Man doesn’t always feel like hunting. The meta-frame is getting hunted.
If men just lose their desperation and give her room to come, she’ll come, assuming adequate interest. And if her IL is not adequate, the relation will end regardless.
