He was the right guy all along

[drmeathead]

GENERAL TENDENCY: both men and women go after the BBD. women when they are younger and more physically attractive, period they do this until they cannot. once they cannot they either fall in love with a quote unquote nice guy or become more sexually promiscuous in an attempt maintain male attention
. some men trade go after the BBD when they are young and in shape go through women because they are the attractive purely on a physical level.some men have to aquire power money or social status (or the appearance there of) which they do later in life.


personally i dont date women with children. i dont feel like dealing with the womans emotions over the child(ren)s father. let the men with children date the women with children.

 

[Tazman]

How else can people respond to this without "assuming" things based on the information given, even if it's negative? It almost sounds like wishful thinking on your part, in that your friend was the right (what do you mean by "right"?) guy all this time so he eventually got what he deserved/wanted, which was this woman who wasn't interested (enough atleast) in him before.

Is it so out of bounds to assume that her value has dropped and she is settling? It's quite a common situation to see, even celebrities aren't immune to this, so why then would you be so offended that some of the people here simply disagree with you?

It's like you're using this story to make it easier to deal with rejection, by believing that in time people will see your "true" value or something.

That's just my perception of it because of how emotional you got:

In the future, I'm keeping my feel-good (at least what I think are feel good) stories to myself."

I've seen many people here given encouragement and congratulated on their or other's success stories, why would this be any different? Most of the people who've responded just don't see it the way you do, that's all. Why take it so personally?

 

[WestCoaster]

It's like you're using this story to make it easier to deal with rejection, by believing that in time people will see your "true" value or something.

That's an enormous reach (hope you didn't pull any muscles), not even close to being true. This thread is eventually dead, please lock it mods.

 

[bigjohnson]

I have a personal philosophy. I will never give a chance to any woman who turned me down during my undergraduate years in college because she wanted the excitement she believed she would get from the bad boys. Never. It's a new day and the tables have turned.

I have a "one bite at the apple" policy as well, but that only applies to LTRs ... of course that's for me to know and them to find out. I'm not evil, just diet-evil, as the saying goes.

 

[Fantasy]

I don't care if I'm first or last, I just want to be next.

You can't be next if you're first.

 

[KarmaSutra]

no offense WC, but this ain't hte WC i know. i've never seen you react this way before. you're trashing posters, trashing the site, basically shooting down people's views based on an emotional perspective you have on their reactions, etc.

not cool dude. not sure if your just stressed out lately, but to be honest, its almost like your trying to pick a fight with folks.

I agree. WestCoaster it seems from your demeanor that you're on a revenge trip? Looking to pick a flame war like a scab. It's uncool brother.

We're in this fight together. Remember that sh!t.

 

[Luthor Rex]

Why can't women see a quality guy when they're right in front of their face?

Like attracts like in mating.

They can't see quality men, because they aren't quality women...

 

[WaterTiger]

Isn't that what women are about anyway? Whatever fits the bill at the time? (and not just women but people in general) Party years enjoy your prime, after that find a nice guy to settle down with.

And yet, I've seen you guys post the same rant. "She's a wonderful, sweet, pretty girl, she'd make a great wife. BUT I want to go party and fvck 100 more women!"

It's not so much a bad choice, but bad timing. She wasn't ready to get married, he probably wasn't either. (I think the 50%-60% divorce rate would go down if people had to wait till 29 to marry.)