boogalooboy
Don Juan
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- May 12, 2004
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I went in to work today and cos of xmas i knew there was going be some new people hired and was looking foward to macking any new HB's.
My work is a big dept store with 1 main manager, then about 5-6 assitant mangers. These managers are on rostered weekends and alternate and there is usually 2-3 working at a time.
So i go in today and im standing around doing nothing and this FINE HB9 Hawaiin or something comes walking in. I almost screamed.
She asked me and this guy if we where busy and if we could help her. I said No we arnt busy, and went and helped her carry stuff. She asked if we where in her department and we said no and she said "NO FAIR how come we dont get any guys!!".. Shes pretty young. I wouldnt say shes over 26.
I knew she was new so i figured i needed to make some kinda conversation with her but i didnt. I just talked work related stuff.
Stuff i did do (but its only small stuff):
- When she handed me this box to help her (1 minute after i first saw her) i held eye contact with her as she was tallking to me for a few seconds more than i usually would. She did like a half-smile while looking at me. She seems pretty confident
- Whenever she wanted me to do something i said. YEP or SURE... Deep down i knew i should bust on her for making me slave for her. But shes so petite and hot and already above me.
- When we where walking and carrying stuff she was walking ahead of me which KNEW was bad, like her was her dog or something. SO she stoppde to look at some table, and i didnt stop for her, i kept walking and she was walking behind me, i could sorta tell she was trying to catch up but i kept walking like "i aint waiting for you"
- So after i felt like her dog i was walking back to the storage area and she walked passed me and goes "thanks for that" and i just smiled like i didnt care. My aim here was to do HOT/COLD. HOt being me so eager to help her earlier, and NOW im knida just like "Yea whatever"
What i wanna know is. How do i go about this?? I dont have a clue. She already has status on me, being sort of my manager. BUT she is around my age and she is FINE. There must be a way. Is it a bad thing to BUST on your BOSS?? when shes fine, and pretty petite?? i couldnt exactly say "no u lift the heavy boxes".
I lurk here sometimes nad read the bible and hav alot of sucess. But this seems totally different, mainly cos of the status she has on me. It sucks. I have made sure NOT to put her on a pedestal, and when she talks to me. Really i just need pointing in the right direction and ill try my best from there.
If anyone has any experience with this kinda thing id appreciate it alot.
I was thinking of tell her that im only there part time and ill have a degree in 6 months and i can stop with the MacJob bull****. Which is all true. Maybe ill put myself up a bit, if i talk myself up subtly.
My work is a big dept store with 1 main manager, then about 5-6 assitant mangers. These managers are on rostered weekends and alternate and there is usually 2-3 working at a time.
So i go in today and im standing around doing nothing and this FINE HB9 Hawaiin or something comes walking in. I almost screamed.
She asked me and this guy if we where busy and if we could help her. I said No we arnt busy, and went and helped her carry stuff. She asked if we where in her department and we said no and she said "NO FAIR how come we dont get any guys!!".. Shes pretty young. I wouldnt say shes over 26.
I knew she was new so i figured i needed to make some kinda conversation with her but i didnt. I just talked work related stuff.
Stuff i did do (but its only small stuff):
- When she handed me this box to help her (1 minute after i first saw her) i held eye contact with her as she was tallking to me for a few seconds more than i usually would. She did like a half-smile while looking at me. She seems pretty confident
- Whenever she wanted me to do something i said. YEP or SURE... Deep down i knew i should bust on her for making me slave for her. But shes so petite and hot and already above me.
- When we where walking and carrying stuff she was walking ahead of me which KNEW was bad, like her was her dog or something. SO she stoppde to look at some table, and i didnt stop for her, i kept walking and she was walking behind me, i could sorta tell she was trying to catch up but i kept walking like "i aint waiting for you"
- So after i felt like her dog i was walking back to the storage area and she walked passed me and goes "thanks for that" and i just smiled like i didnt care. My aim here was to do HOT/COLD. HOt being me so eager to help her earlier, and NOW im knida just like "Yea whatever"
What i wanna know is. How do i go about this?? I dont have a clue. She already has status on me, being sort of my manager. BUT she is around my age and she is FINE. There must be a way. Is it a bad thing to BUST on your BOSS?? when shes fine, and pretty petite?? i couldnt exactly say "no u lift the heavy boxes".
I lurk here sometimes nad read the bible and hav alot of sucess. But this seems totally different, mainly cos of the status she has on me. It sucks. I have made sure NOT to put her on a pedestal, and when she talks to me. Really i just need pointing in the right direction and ill try my best from there.
If anyone has any experience with this kinda thing id appreciate it alot.
I was thinking of tell her that im only there part time and ill have a degree in 6 months and i can stop with the MacJob bull****. Which is all true. Maybe ill put myself up a bit, if i talk myself up subtly.