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OK I just got back from HB no1's house. We had a deep discussion about "renegotiating our relationship". Basically I didn't "dump" her, but we are no longer BF and GF, just Bugsquish and HB no1. I told her she is still my special chick and we can still hang out and have amazing sex, just without this massive LABEL hanging over our heads that's gonna fu*k things up.
She says, "So things are the same, except you **** other girls?"
I say, "That's just a small part of it. We can both see other people if we like, but the main thing is that we don't have some big 'relationship' concept to live up to, and be disappointed by. We can just hang out, and have fun. If I can't handle a relationship with you, then you don't need to worry about me going into a relationship with anyone else. Let's just be young, and have fun."
She seemed quite happy with this setup. We had another pretty good fu*k before I left. And I can now screw as many chicks as I like without cheating.
THANKS EVERYONE! ESPECIALLY TESQUE!
OK I just got back from HB no1's house. We had a deep discussion about "renegotiating our relationship". Basically I didn't "dump" her, but we are no longer BF and GF, just Bugsquish and HB no1. I told her she is still my special chick and we can still hang out and have amazing sex, just without this massive LABEL hanging over our heads that's gonna fu*k things up.
She says, "So things are the same, except you **** other girls?"
I say, "That's just a small part of it. We can both see other people if we like, but the main thing is that we don't have some big 'relationship' concept to live up to, and be disappointed by. We can just hang out, and have fun. If I can't handle a relationship with you, then you don't need to worry about me going into a relationship with anyone else. Let's just be young, and have fun."
She seemed quite happy with this setup. We had another pretty good fu*k before I left. And I can now screw as many chicks as I like without cheating.
THANKS EVERYONE! ESPECIALLY TESQUE!