Haven't FAP for 6+ months.

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Clench2465 said:
Look guys, I don't know if I'm one pill short of what you guys are taking but I've made the 20th day today and if anything, I've only seen the opposite of all the results you guys are seeing. I'm more jittery and nervous now, and my hormones is through the roof around women. I'm less confident and find it harder than ever before talking to a female. Before I started this ****, I was calm and natural with conversation with people, especially females. Now it's the complete opposite. I'm sweating under the arms now and sweat busting out on my forehead when talking to females. Just nervous as hell. Problems I didn't have before. Sorry but **** this ****.
The effect of no fapping that we observed is that it causes loss of energy, which in turn, makes us quiet, calm, and slow. It lowers your aggression. This is probably what you are getting, mistakenly think that you were confident in this state. In a perspective, yes, because it makes you care less.

No fapping can cause you to go hyper, which in some cases, can be helpful to attract attentions in social situations. I had gone for 60 days several years ago, before going crazy that I felt I wanted to rape somebody. I think going too long without sex/fapping can be detrimental too.

According to my observation, the best effect is on day 4-7 of no fapping. That's when you are active the most. Beyond that. I am not sure if there are noticable differences.

It's not the silver bullet. It doesn't prevent you from being an AFC. No fapping does not make you witty and funny. You still need to work on your game.

It's UNHEALTHY to fap every day, but you don't have to quit completely. Once a week is still okay.
 

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So its been a little over a week for me, and I definitely feel a lot more social and talkative.
 

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justin11 said:
So its been a little over a week for me, and I definitely feel a lot more social and talkative.
Yeah brah nofap kick's ass I have mood swings once in a while but other than that I've been feeling confident as ****, starting conversations with people on the street and ****. it's day 45 for me btw
 

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Its been 2-3 weeks for me... didnt keep the count. A girl tried to fck me but i didnt have a rubber with me so i didnt fck her, I'm also not into her . I'm pretty sure she will try to **** me again so i was wondering if it's wise to stop fapping. I feel great since i quit but i wonder how long i'm gonna last.
 
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Sounds like the buildup of testosterone is making you more alpha-like. Thats awesome. Sounds like me when I stopped :)
 

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I finished 90 days, but I did get laid regularly starting at like day 30. I have found that day 4-7 has the best feeling. My workouts feel more powerful, and I feel more manly. Its nothing drastic, but observable. I am hoping to be able to get laid at least once every two weeks or so and continue zero fap, but in a dry spell I think it helps to reset and FAP every couple weeks or so.

I love banging after not getting off for a week or so. I feel like a damn animal, and am more dominate in bed, which women defiantly like. I don't have any trouble cvmming quicker with no fap.
 

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Porn is an addictive lethal drug of the male mind. Much more powerful than any street drug. Because it's legal and free all over the internet. You can get your fix 24/7.

I honestly believe the porn industry is creating more followers/beta males than alpha males. Hence why so many Americans are sticking their heads in the dirt and taking it from any opposing force.

You want to be a follower/slave of society and be dependent on viagra to get it up? Then keep jacking off until you can't see well. Feel your joints and lower back going in constant pain over time. And most importantly, observe how your brain will lose it's natural abilities of intelligence. Memory and learning becomes difficult over time. Your confidence and faith to get a real woman drops. And observe how your body starts to feel old, tired and irritable in time, unlike a child who is bouncing constantly in joy and happiness. A child doesn't jack off (HINT).

Take it for whatever it is worth my brothers, I feel that the truth will prevail for those who are addicted to excess of ejaculation. The precious life seed that ensures all of humanity to propagate was never designed to be wasted.

Sex was created for procreation of the species. Porn, masturbation and excessive ejaculations is against nature's law. You become tired after ejaculation because you just gave part of your life's vitality/energy/bodily materials to create a new human being in this world. It feels like excessive blood loss, because it is the best part of body's blood which took time to create. And when you do it without the intent of procreation, you feel the loss, ashamed within and feel naturally depressed there after. You should ask why?

Because you did it for a dopamine kick of self pleasure and your act was beastly and not manly nor natural. Dopamine is a natural drug of the mind. It is given to you as reward for your good acts. Like finding or seeing a real beautiful woman or bringing the evening meal home to the family after the arduous hunt. Or just winning in life. :)

As human beings, we have the right to choose. Make good choices. Do not take the short cuts. Refrain from allowing the media or naysayers to make your choices or make believe that masturbation is healthy. It is a lie. The truth is it's self destructive. Men, earn your dopamine kick by winning real things in life and refrain from wasting it in a dark room with porn or having sex for self pleasure in indulgence/excess. Be like our forefathers who hunted for their food, and earned their dopamine rightfully. And thereafter received their woman, their food and that awesome dopamine kick. And you will live a happier, healthier and positive life.

Your friend. DR. Saynotowastingyourlifeseed. MD University of Life.
 

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Im on day 10. I had a lay 2 days ago that doesn't count, let the games begin
 

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'Sup lads, new fella' here..Just found this topic, and I was like: 'My maann' .. anyways I am not sure how long it has been so far, around 70 days. Although I had a moment or few of almost 'breaking the law' case/s, which I didn't. I agree with everything said so far ( the benefits ) , although I haven't had sex for like I don't know 50 days or so :D ( it has been quite a while) not that I couldn't do it, It's like I kind of refused doing it . I am in something I called 'Monkish period', which is fcking crazy , especially when I'm in Uni, them asses are EVERYWHERE, bangin' and chicks are just lookin' and lookin and lookin :X, I am going wild seriously, straight after the end of the Eastern holiday, I am gamin them. It's been enough :D. Just wanted to share my experience..
cheers mates
 
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The first 2 days was fine. Actually woke up with a decent morning wood this morning. I see more girls looking my way (i think) It is fun to challenge yourself either way
 

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Day 5 and still going strong. I'm getting the hang of it but the craving for sex is getting more intense, right now I could fvck a 1 hard and wouldn't even care lol
 

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Day 7, haven't notice to much....then again my sleep schedule is out of whack. I am sleeping at 7 in the morning I can't continue with this
 

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This is my third day and honestly it is been quite hard. I habe noticed getting more dominant and my eye contact is much stronger and so is the motivation and urge to get out of the house and approach girls. (Possible placebo effect though) No way im going to make this for a 90day period just until I make good approaches and set up a few dates then I'll start increasing my stamina to last longer in bed. Going back to watching porn? No way. May God bless you all with this challenge.
 

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I have an update to add here. I went through 90 days with zero fapping, 60 of those days I was getting laid somewhat regularly. I have since broken it off with the chick I was banging (my ex, bad idea!) and have been quite busy pursuing other women. I have been working out regularly since the beginning of this year, increasing my lifts every day and taking ZMA supplement every night.

I noticed when I was getting laid about once a week, my sex drive was ON FIRE by the time the end of the week rolled around. I am sure part of this was the anticipation of hot steamy banging that was bound to happen. Since I broke things off with the ex, I have been working on a few girls, but the main girl is holding her golden vag hostage.

After being blue balled a couple times I decided to try to FAP on like a Sunday night and see what the results were. Note, I do not look at porn of any kind anymore. I also decided to do this using a condom since I have been banging raw dogg for the last 7 years! My poor c0ck is now very unhappy about the use of condoms. My rationale is that this would help me get used to the feeling of arousal with a condom on. Something that has been trouble in the past.

After about three weeks of FAP once a week on a Sunday night, I can say my sex drive is very strong, waking up with raging hard-ons. I’m not saying the FAP once a week is 100% responsible, but I think it might help once you have gotten your brain weaned off porn/FAP whenever you have the urge. I swear going 2 or 3 weeks with no orgasm causes my sex drive to actually drop off.

The sex drive increase could also be related to some other factors:
-my workouts are starting to really come together, I am starting to be able to add some weight to my squats (I could barely squat 95lbs when I started!!!!) I am probably starting to gain some muscle, and that should be increasing testosterone levels at the same time.
-my game is getting better, and I can see that I will be able to bag some new women if I continue to get out there and pursue. The idea that I can get laid makes me want to get laid even more!

In conclusion, NoFap is a good idea, but I think at some point if you feel like you have gotten yourself weaned off the porn, FAPing on a weekly basis may actually be healthier than complete abstinence.

I would not say I had a bad porn addiction, but I used to look at it somewhat regularly for my entire post-puberty life. Never again!

Your mileage may vary. Good luck gents.
 

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i went 14 days and i felt more confident and found myself doing a lot of things that i never would've done. sadly, today i gave in. after i was done i felt like masturbation was just simply fvcking retarded. im gonna go for 3 weeks now.
 

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:kick: Fap and porn ruined my life.

I am now on my second week. Most of the post here are true. You are definitely horny every time and you will use your "sexual energy" to fulfill your passion whether its getting women and doing anything you want.

Actually this past week is crazy. Ive been flirting with my office mates bigtime, and one of my crushes(she have a husband)send DONJUAN signals that she want to have a do with me. Some are just wondering what did happen to me. Smiling and friendly to everybody,heck i am able to wander around to our office and once ive been on the center of attention.

I got a date yesterday with a HB-8 and it went well. Indeed,there are some mistakes but I think I passed. Ive been date less in a year, and have been in terrible heartbreaks and rejections. Now, I feel like I am born again with NEO like sight of how-things-with-girls-work.

Sorry I digress, I am just too happy I been reading for a month here on the forums and definitely starting my life with a conviction.

On my first week of no fap I watched a ton of motivating videos on youtube and cried like a b*tch, like a ton of tears. I left my AFC self then...

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