Haven't FAP for 6+ months.

[Jair213]

men base attraction on her child bearing features. It's visual. For women though, it's much different. She seeks a man with strong sperm. She uses amethod to filter through men to find the one we that isith the best sperm. How does she find him?

Animal magnetism. A man that understands the power of his own semen understands that great sperm is created when the demand to create it is lowered. A man that ejaculates several times aweek puts such a demand on his testes to create sperm that the quality diminshes. There is just not much areservoir of nutrients to create great sperm.

The man that wastes his semen like it's awaste product never gets a chance to showcase his sperm. His magnetic abilities are diminished. There is no aura, no mojo no nothing radiating out of his pores.

The man that conserves his semen is the one that is overflowing with energy. Hes overflowing so much that he flowers outward(invisibly) as a magnetic essense. His flowering is picked up by women. They have subconsciously found aman that can provide the greatest sperm for her. This is animal magnetism. When the male body has conserved his seed for long enough that his body is in energy overflow. His aura grows. His mind and nervous system are strengthened by his conservation. His personality grows strong and his emotional body is strong. Every thing about his existance is strengthened. Now he has flowered outwards. Women that get too close to him are caught in his tractor beam. This is what you would call charisma. Charisma is created through conservation of vital energy. It is the overflowing of the great male energy. Charisma means that even if hes talking about abunch of crap, it is interesting to his audiance. He has captivated.

Great leaders of the world conserve their male essense in order to flower it outward to captivate people. People are under their spell. But people in person that are being captivated will always leave feeling energized. The charismatic leader is flowering with energy and people are addicted to the energy they gain from the experience....

Women want charisma. But sadly alot probably most men waste their vital energy away in dirty socks night after night. Their personality is boringand their emotional body is diminished. There is no aura. Women never notice you and all men know they're above you.You never get anywhere in life and every day is exactly the same. To get out of your massive rut seems impossible.

How to get women to notice you....Stop jerking off. It gets you nowhere. Start understanding that when you conserve your energy, great things happen.

 

[il_randyb]

I just started this challenge but I believe. A few years ago I had a FWB. During that time I rarely fapped, not sure how long I went because I was not paying attention but I remember how woman l

 

[il_randyb]

Ok premature post so to speak

Woman looked at me differently when I wasn't fapping. They were attracted to me. Did not know why at the time but I loved it then. Soooo going for it again now. Been watching tons of porn lately and feel awlful and sexually dead. Changing that now with the help of this forum.

Thanks guys.

 

[Jair213]

Ok premature post so to speak

Woman looked at me differently when I wasn't fapping. They were attracted to me. Did not know why at the time but I loved it then. Soooo going for it again now. Been watching tons of porn lately and feel awlful and sexually dead. Changing that now with the help of this forum.

Thanks guys.

Glad we can help please keep us updated on your progress.

 

[Cyberspacerocker]

There might be an answer to why one becomes more attractive, and i think it lies on the level of micro-movements. If one gets off the habit of MB:ing two-three times a day, our body language might change slightly. Women pick up on the slightest movements, unconsciously. And that might be a contributing factor - that the non-fapper becomes more at ease, and radiates more (sexual) energy and confidence.

Everyone who is abusive with something - drugs, alcohol, porn addiction, i think radiates unease, stress and lesser confidence, which are unattractive features in the evolutionary world. Some women have said that they get off on "badass-features", they like the idea of a broken male whom they can fix. This must be the doing of the maternal instinct, the inner caretaker that partly defines womanhood and motherhood, the core of the female sex.

Currently im in a fap phase, but im thinking of clearing myself of the habit of tugging one out every evening. I think it might help up the surging of testhosterone a bit into my system, since i think i am running low on testhosterone and serotonin. Ill try it as an experiment, to test my discipline.

 

[Jair213]

There might be an answer to why one becomes more attractive, and i think it lies on the level of micro-movements. If one gets off the habit of MB:ing two-three times a day, our body language might change slightly. Women pick up on the slightest movements, unconsciously. And that might be a contributing factor - that the non-fapper becomes more at ease, and radiates more (sexual) energy and confidence.

Everyone who is abusive with something - drugs, alcohol, porn addiction, i think radiates unease, stress and lesser confidence, which are unattractive features in the evolutionary world. Some women have said that they get off on "badass-features", they like the idea of a broken male whom they can fix. This must be the doing of the maternal instinct, the inner caretaker that partly defines womanhood and motherhood, the core of the female sex.

Currently im in a fap phase, but im thinking of clearing myself of the habit of tugging one out every evening. I think it might help up the surging of testhosterone a bit into my system, since i think i am running low on testhosterone and serotonin. Ill try it as an experiment, to test my discipline.

Good post.

Try to get rid off fapping bro.

It's really weird because the guys that I know that suffer from social anxiety, socially awkwardness and just are socially loosers are heavy on porn and fap up to 3 times every day, its sad really. It has to be the porn and fapping causing this issues.

 

[Cyberspacerocker]

Good post.

Try to get rid off fapping bro.

It's really weird because the guys that I know that suffer from social anxiety, socially awkwardness and just are socially loosers are heavy on porn and fap up to 3 times every day, its sad really. It has to be the porn and fapping causing this issues.

Thanks man! First post i've made, and its about masturbation. Haha! :rockon:

Yeah, im sorry to hear it. It's a tragedy. I guess my (single) friends are heavy on porn too.

But there are always explanations to everything that happens, things happens for a reason (except backwards, probably not according to some kind of "destiny"-dogma. But who knows, huh?) We've reached a kind of weird step in our evolution as a species. I actually discussed this with my father today, that the social sphere for us to exist in is only possible because of our unique brain and how we can reason on things. The fact is that we are still adapted to the habitat of the savannah. Bipedalism was evolved for moving across vast areas. It's really a young function for our species, developed some 4 mil. years ago, just an interesting note on the side.

We become abusive because we need kicks. Our brains need challenge. And i think that the reason why the increase of depression in teenagers is on the uprise all the time is because teenagers grow up with computers, Facebook, video games, without having another social arena (sports, a lot of friends to hang out with and play/do fun things with) which they can enter that can substitute using computers for fun, and for growing as human beings.
Computers, ultimately, i think cannot replace our fundamental needs without hurting us in the long run.

I do not consider pornography a bad thing, rather, i am a defender of porn, because it fits into my pro-liberty worldview (i also think prostitution should be legal, not worth striving for as a career maybe, but it should be regulated. I also enjoy the art that pornography can be sometimes) but everything that comes in a huge amount (even water! Which is a necessity for us to survive and reproduce) and everything that we humans abuse will ultimately destroy us - we cannot survive on abuse. We have to get rid of those shackles to live a satisfactory life.

I really hope this post made sense, my english isn't the greatest since my first language is swedish and when i write i sorta lose my thread.

Also this is my 1st day of no fapping, and it feels great. Everyone should get off their tugging habits for a week every month at least. Im gonna do the challenge of 30 days.
Although - have anyone considered the risk of getting blue balls? I got it sometime 5 years ago, and it hurt like f***

 

[020204]

Great thread, No fap is very much a test of willpower, possibly one of the toughest challenges a man can do. By using the energy for other activities ie career, study and exercise you will find it a lot easier.

 

[il_randyb]

I'm on something like day 5 now and already I am seeing what I saw a few years ago when I did this. Again at that time I was not aware it was from not frapping. Anyway today a couple women chatted me up and were very engaging. Hell I even had a guy friend - and no he is not gay - tell me I was looking really good. I can tell you I feel more energetic and positive.

I strongly suspect that frapping cuts out our feelings of self and so we naturally look away when we engage with others and especially women. If we know we just frapped and are not fully loaded (thus a lack of confidence) we are not likely to be as engaged with women.

Anyway good stuff

 

[wishyo]

Today is day 12 for me. Giving up fap is the best decision I ever made. Period.


I feel amazing from all standpoints. I've met & socialized with more people these 12 days than in the last 5 years.

interesting, i still dont really believe masturbation has anything to do with it..
however, i haven't fapped for about 3 weeks, unintentionally though, just didnt have any interest as i was getting so tired after work. (i am simply not just getting horny for no reason as I used to, last times I felt something in my **** was when I made some moves with my current GF like kissing/cuddling) BUT HERE ARE SOME FACTS
I started to date a girl, i havent date one for YEARS, had some one night stands though
I met all my old friends recently, some of them I haven't met for years..
I started to workout big time (THIS I would rather address to my intention to attract the girl I am currently dating as she has a very hot body)
I just been MUCH more social in general, I haven't paid attention to some of these changes, NONE of those things were intentional... I actually paid attention to all these things going thru this and other FAP related topic, seriously a miracle...

I still would rather relate some of my social life changes to me having a girlfriend