Harsh Truth: Women pursue the men that they want

[Mike32ct]

Shockingly, I learned the term broad when I was in high school (circa 2007) from another then-student.

Yeah I learned that term from my mom, a boomer. On here, I often use the term “chick” which is also very outdated to be fair lol.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Yeah I learned that term from my mom, a boomer. On here, I often use the term “chick” which is also very outdated to be fair lol.

The way men speak about women reveals their attitude.

 

[GoodMan32]

Yeah I learned that term from my mom, a boomer. On here, I often use the term “chick” which is also very outdated to be fair lol.

I remember the term chick was commonly used when I was in middle school through college.

Not a whole lot anymore.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

I remember the term chick was commonly used when I was in middle school through college.

Not a whole lot anymore.

I wrote an answer on Quora why it's not a good idea to refer to women as 'chicks'. And if you check the comments under the answer, you see that many women do not like to be called 'chicks' or 'babe'. And 'broads' is a term from fifties PI movies. You might as well show how antiquated you are by referring to a woman as a 'moll' or 'dame'.

 

[jhonny9546]

What about those women who are totally invested in a man at the beginning and continue to show that level of investment even 20 years after the LTR with that same man, even if he is nothing special in his SMV?

There's also the phenomenon discussed on the subreddit r/GirlsMirin. Does this resemble Oneitis, but from a woman perspective?

This happened once in my life with a woman whom I unfortunately did not want to be with. The LTR lasted two years, and she still showed interest in me for five years after we broke up. She is a 7 and stayed single for about one year after we broke up, even though she had many requests from other guys.

This would be interesting to look into.

 

[BaronOfHair]

The romanticized notion of tirelessly pursuing the girl of your dreams, as portrayed in Hollywood and popular culture, often falls short of reality. Instead, men would benefit from prioritizing maintaining attraction.

That, or fork over a chunk of change on a van, stun gun, lifetime supply of flex cuffs, and soundproofing your basement. Hell, if one goes this route it's probably astute to keep a solid defense attorney on retainer also, for the inevitable trial in federal court